1. We are undergraduate alumni. He has heard of me, but I don’t know him. During the four years that we lived together in the garden, we each lived our own lives. We passed each other countless times on the main road, in the library or in a canteen, but we never knew each other.
2. During his undergraduate days, he worked hard to improve his grades and apply to study abroad, while I participated in various societies and organizations every day and participated in various activities. We were not from the same world at all.
3. After graduating from his undergraduate degree, he went to the distant United States to study neurology in New Haven, while I stayed in a familiar garden to study law.
4. I don’t know when, we became friends on Renren.com. When I saw his profile picture for the first time, I thought crazily, “How come there are such handsome guys in Tsinghua University?” But at that time we were in There is no communication online.
5. By chance, I went to New Village to study, and one afternoon I wandered into a bookstore on a whim. I met him by chance, who was also visiting the bookstore on a whim, and we really got to know each other. other side. @伟子婷
6. In more than a month after we met by chance in New Village, we only met twice a day, and each time we simply ate in the Yale dining hall.
7. Before leaving New Village, he took me and my two friends @丁京智@高凯 to visit East Rock near his home. We hiked to the top of the mountain as the sun set. Not only did we enjoy the beautiful view of the entire village of New Haven, we also met a gathering of percussion enthusiasts and had a great time. Along the way, my friend and I had a great conversation, but we didn’t have any common topics of conversation.
8. Later I returned to China and maintained intermittent contact with him online for a long time.
9. Unknowingly, we gradually became familiar with each other on the Internet. Whenever I see the little dot in front of Zhihao Zhang on Gtalk turning green, I feel very excited.
10. Suddenly one day, he said he wanted to come to Beijing to visit me when he returned to China during the Christmas vacation. So, during the five days he returned to Beijing, excluding rest, he spent 90% of the time with me. We visited the National Expo together, watched dramas and the New Year movie party @zhouzainan @李雪雯, and had several meals that lasted an average of 4 hours. This was the first time in my life that I spent so much time with someone other than my parents in a few days.
11. While in Beijing, he came to watch my change of office. During the long and boring congress for several hours, the audience slept and played on their mobile phones. Only he listened carefully to every link and commented on every detail with me after the meeting, which made me pay attention to this. The credit score of "reading only the books of saints and sages" is impressive.
12. On the night of the first day of the New Year, we have already felt the subtle changes in each other after spending several days together. From the McDonald's outside Dongzhimen, we deliberately took Line 13 back to Wudaokou, and then walked all the way back to the dormitory from Kawa Town in the ice and snow. We all had endless topics to talk about.
13. In McDonald’s, after a brief silence, he said, “How about we give it a try and see if working in another place works?” It set off a storm in my heart. Although it is a very happy thing to be confessed by someone you like, I never dared to think that I would be involved in a long-distance relationship, let alone not knowing each other well. Surprise, joy, worry, confusion... My first reaction was to shake my head. After revealing my true feelings to him, we decided to put the issue aside and focus more on getting to know each other.
14. The end of December is the coldest time of the year in Beijing, but he has been wearing a thin woolen coat. When I asked him why, he said: "Although I brought a down jacket, I'm afraid it won't look good on you and you won't like it."
15. During the five days we were together in Beijing, he never even touched my hand. This was described as an "incredible miracle" by my friends, and it also made me appreciate this rational and People who are cautious and not casual will be favored twice as much.
16. After he returned to the United States from Beijing, while we were still friends, he confided to the people around him that he was no longer available.
17. We kept in touch online after that. During the first Skype video, he deliberately wore an outfit that I rated highly, looking serious yet cute.
18. More than 2 months later, I went to Boston for a meeting. He would take the 3-hour Megabus one way to see me every week, and Boston South Station recorded our joys and sorrows again and again.
19. The first day we met in Boston happened to be the coldest and windiest day in Boston during that period. In order to find a warm place to chat, we started a silly subway journey. From the red line to the green line, we got on and off the train aimlessly, riding on several subway lines.
20. On the weekend before Valentine’s Day, he drove me to Cape Cod to see the winter sea. It was dusk when we arrived at Truro Lighthouse. Although the strong wind on the seaside made people shiver, the beautiful romantic picture still made us linger.
21. Two months in a foreign country and one month of close contact have allowed us to understand each other much better.
After he wrote a loving letter and read it to me with great emotion, we were officially together.
22. He grew up in Guangzhou. His father is from Shanghai and his mother is from Guangzhou. This makes him combine the advantages of Shanghai men and Guangzhou men, especially hard-working, virtuous, good-tempered and Know how to feel sorry for others.
23. When I was living in Boston, he specially brought a lot of Cantonese ingredients to the home of my senior brothers and sisters where I was staying and cooked a big meal for everyone as a token of his gratitude. He was very kind.
24. Before returning to China, he invited me to his home and carefully prepared Cantonese dishes such as "ginger onion chicken" and "coconut black chicken soup" for me to eat. The clumsy look when eating coconuts made me feel both funny and moved.
25. When he sent me to the security checkpoint at Boston Logan Airport, he slipped me a letter, and I quietly left a card on his desk before leaving his house. . This kind of understanding made us full of emotions when we parted at the airport, and made our eyes wet countless times when we looked at each other's handwriting.
26. He moved Americans twice in an hour while we were in New Orleans. First, when I was having lunch at Harrah’s Casino, I forgot my passport and couldn’t enter the casino, so he asked me to wait in the air-conditioned lobby of the casino, and he braved the heat and ran for more than 20 minutes back and forth to the hotel to pick up my passport. The black aunt who checked me at the door saw this and kept praising him for loving me. Secondly, in the restaurant, my insoles were uncomfortable and he immediately squatted down to fix my insoles without saying a word. He was also surprised by the white uncle behind us. Calling "HERO!"
27. Before I arrived in California, he started busy looking for classmates to help me arrange accommodation. Planting cards, buying various things, cleaning the room, meeting friends, eating delicious food, and having fun have saved me a lot of trouble. This was noticed by his friends, who all described him as a "good boyfriend with twenty-four filial piety".
28. He is low-key and humble. Not long after we met, we once discussed education in Guangdong. When I questioned the value of Guangdong's "900 points" and "N number one", he just smiled. It was not until much later that I discovered by chance and embarrassment that he was one of them. @李丽君
29. We have a lot in common. For example, we often have the same ideas, such as loving music, traveling, eating fish, and preferring purple and blue...
30. He has conservative ideas and strong self-control. He is consistent with me in terms of core values ??and meets my conceptual requirements for a boyfriend and husband. This is something I particularly value. He treats me wholeheartedly and has no distractions, which makes me feel safe.
31. He said he would love me as much as he loves his daughter and his wife. In fact, he did so.
32. He will try to satisfy my various hobbies. I would drive for hours to see Phantom on Broadway, a symphony concert at Carnegie Hall, and a marimba concert at the Newport Music Festival.
33. His psychological quality is excellent. On the way from the Grand Canyon to Las Vegas, we encountered a heavy rainstorm. The wheel he drove skidded and he lost control in an instant, broke through the barrier and drove onto the opposite highway. Facing the oncoming big truck, I was so frightened that my mind went blank and I screamed, but he turned the steering wheel sharply without changing his expression at the critical moment, and finally avoided the tragedy.
34. During a casual chat, he made a very serious wish to make a request for the children of the future, hoping that a hundred years later, we can hug each other and sleep underground. This moved me very much. .
35. He would treat me secretly without expecting anything in return. For example, he bought me very expensive glasses, and in order to be afraid that I would find out, he actually asked the salesperson to issue a forged cheap receipt.
36. He is delicate, nostalgic and emotional. Every concert we attended together, the opera program, and even the wrapping paper of the gifts I gave him would be kept intact by him
37. He has a strong sense of camera. We often shoot various DVs at any time as souvenirs of beautiful memories.
38. His bedroom wall is covered with various photos of us.
39. He loves his family and likes to be clingy. He contacts his parents every day. On foreign days and every weekend, our Skype can continue for 48 hours without interruption.
40. As a famously dull Capricorn, he worked hard to create all kinds of romance and surprises, such as skipping school without telling his boss and flying back to Beijing from the United States to celebrate my birthday.
41. He is not a temperless person, but he tries hard to be patient with me, tolerates all my unprovoked provocations, and even takes the initiative to lower his attitude to make me happy after every conflict. When he hung up the phone willfully, he called me again and again to coax me until we reconciled.
42. His endurance is amazing. He records an episode of Cantonese lessons for me every day, changing sentences that can attract me, and matching them with nice background music. There are also various "special programs" every weekend, including Cantonese songs he sings, various Cantonese dubbing videos, etc.
43. He is good at making various Cantonese dishes and making various delicious soups. He can cook different dishes for me for a month, and he is also happy to enjoy the joy of cooking.
His specialty dishes include "Steamed Fish", "Sauerkraut Fish", "Salt Baked Chicken", "Cumin Grilled Lamb Chops", "Garlic Spare Ribs" and so on. He would also deliberately learn to cook my favorite dishes, and even gradually changed his Cantonese taste, such as practicing "stir-fried green beans" over and over again and cooking it for me after he learned it.
44. He is always used to walking outside me, holding my hand tightly no matter where he goes, and will change his position left and right when crossing the road.
45. I often wear cold clothes, and the direct consequence of this is that he is often shivering from the cold.
46. He would bring me foot-washing water and take pleasure in washing my feet.
47. He often visits my Renren page at 9:26 “to express his longing for me.”
48. The first bouquet of flowers he gave me was at the Capital Airport T2 terminal. When he walked out of the exit with a box in his hand, he also held a bouquet of pink roses in his hand. This made me Very pleasant surprise.
49. Traveling with him is extremely comfortable. He basically takes care of taking photos, carrying bags, driving and other chores, while I am only responsible for smiling.
50. When I didn’t reply to his text messages, he would call me anxiously to “harass” me, and he would tell me wherever he went to not let me worry.
51. When making phone calls, we always ask the other party to hang up first. In the end, it will be based on who has something important to do and needs to leave.
52. I am a very lazy person. He will help me remember many things and remind me from time to time. He will wash clothes for me, pack my luggage, and do all kinds of things that even I am too lazy to do myself.
53. He is willing to introduce me to his various classmates and friends, and never hides his attachment to me in front of them. @ Tangchenxiang@王宁@张雪@金成成@赵陈@靳鹿@李达梁@金伟颖 When he took me to attend various Guangdong alumni gatherings, he would take good care of me and patiently translate all kinds of jargon into Cantonese for me. listen.
54. He respects my privacy and space. He never checks my phone and even avoids it when I send text messages and check emails.
55. The most common thing he said to me was "I will always be with you."
56. He will be a warm and good father. At night, Beijing time, he would read to me and tell stories via Skype, and sing the Cantonese lullaby "Moonlight Light" in various languages ??until I fell asleep without realizing it.
57. He loves Jin Xiaoha especially and is committed to being Jin Xiaoha’s brother-in-law. In order to win Jin Xiaoha's love, he would spend a lot of time massaging Jin Xiaoha, and has successfully become Jin Xiaoha's royal masseur.
58. He is an atypical science and engineering man. In addition to his natural and rigorous rational thinking, he is also rich in literary and artistic feelings. He likes to write articles, appreciate calligraphy and painting, and listen to symphonies, and is full of interest in life.
59. He was bullied a lot in kindergarten when he was a child, and I was the bully in kindergarten, which directly caused him to be "bullied" by me all the time.
60. He is a bit superstitious and never allows me to say the words "li" or "fen". If I say it in a joke, he will gently scratch my nose in protest. .
61. He is a conservative and cautious person, and he is very reliable in doing things. It is very reassuring to give him a job.
62. He is the only straight man in their lab.
63. He is a person with extremely strong learning ability. He can eliminate distractions in any environment and concentrate on completing work efficiently in an instant. This has always eluded me.
64. He studied music since he was a child. Under my influence, he fell in love with Eastern European symphonies and spent a lot of money to collect hundreds of Eastern European classical music CDs. One of our favorites is the Polovtsian Dance from Borodin's King Igor.
65. He is very fond of eating hawthorn and all hawthorn-related foods, but it was not until he met me that he learned about "fruit tea", a classic hawthorn drink often drunk by northerners.
66. He has a pair of big eyes with single eyelids, and he likes to rub my cheeks with his long eyelashes.
67. He is a complete road blind without a map. He even got lost when he took me to play near his house. He often didn’t recognize the roads he had walked many times in daily life. This made me More than once I was speechless and even angry with him.
68. He is my "pseudo-scientific corrector". As a "neuroscientist", he will break down my various pseudo-scientific health theories, such as drinking too much milk can cause cancer and eating more alkaline foods. Food can prevent cancer and more.
69. He likes all kinds of small animals. His favorite is Labrador. He has always wanted to own a Labrador or a bulldog. He also looks forward to going to Kenya to see giraffes with long eyelashes. .
70. He doesn’t smoke, don’t drink, is civilized, doesn’t gamble or go whoring, and is an insulator against all kinds of bad habits. He likes to be clean, his life is very orderly, and he always has a faint scent of soap on his body.
71. His Mandarin has no Cantonese accent at all, and he cannot be identified as a southerner.
72. He likes to be photographed and is very photogenic.
73. When he smiles, he will have dimples and smile lines, which makes people feel very kind and warm.
74. When he saw a red string tied around my left wrist, he strongly requested to get one for himself and happily regarded it as a sign of belonging to me.
75. He placed my photo and the photo of us together in a prominent place in his wallet. Whenever he took money out of his wallet, the photo would be easily seen by others.
76. He likes to wear the clothes I bought for him the most, and he will specially choose to wear them on important occasions or when taking photos.
77. His beard grows very fast, and I like to touch the stubble on his chin the most.
78. He is 12cm taller than me. Although we are not tall, this height difference is very suitable.
79. Sometimes he is very stupid. For example, he has been driving for several years and he doesn’t even know that the seats in the car can be folded down.
80. He has strong language skills and one of his ideals is to be a professor. When he was a teaching assistant at Yale, he was very popular among students, and some people even contacted him and wanted to audit his classes. Among his students is the former Argentine Minister of Economy and Finance.
81. His English is very good, especially his vocabulary. He is a master of various English exams, but his accent has a strange and strong northern Chinese flavor.
82. He has practiced calligraphy since he was a child and writes beautifully in both Chinese and English.
83. He likes to write letters to me. Today with the development of the Internet, he still sends me letters from the United States.
84. He is well-read and well-informed. He knew every book or piece of news I mentioned, and some of the books he had read were ones I had never even heard of.
85. He is good at drawing children's paintings. He once drew a little book for me called "The Story of Husky and Polar Bear".
86. He is most afraid of hiccups, and it is difficult to end them once they start. The most exaggerated thing was that after dinner, he hiccupped continuously for more than half an hour.
87. He cares very much about his image, especially his hairstyle. Every time before he sees me, he will calculate the time to go to the barber shop for a haircut, so that his hair will be at its best length when he sees me.
88. He likes to learn Beijing dialect, and is especially interested in Erhua pronunciation. He is determined to be a bad old man in Beijing in the future.
89. He is obsessed with civil aviation aircraft. He knows the model and characteristics of the aircraft we take every time.
90. Most of the time, he is very clever, but he also occasionally makes mistakes, such as running rampant and walking up the escalator in the opposite direction, or often killing the zombies I was halfway through, and I scolded him.
91. 2012 is the year in which we have flown the most flights between China and the United States so far. We have flown on all the planes of Air China, China Eastern Airlines, Cathay Pacific, AA, Delta and other airlines that have opened routes between China and the United States. Made a great contribution to the cause.
92. During this year, we visited many cities together, including Beijing, Boston, New Haven, New York, Vancouver, Langfang, Chengde, Zhoushan, Ningbo, Shaoxing, Huzhou, Hangzhou, Guangzhou, Kaiping, Pyongyang, Nampo, Kaesong, Panmunjeom, Newport, Bar Harbor, Hartford, Dallas, Las Vegas, Minneapolis, Kunshan, Suzhou, Shanghai, New Orleans, Tampa , Orlando, Los Angeles, San Diego.
93. He received a high scholarship in the United States and was good at running a household. He also saved a large amount of savings in addition to various daily expenses. Not long ago, he spent all his savings over the past two years to buy me a small ring that I would wear on my hand for the rest of my life.
94. His first proposal was on the top of the hill at East Rock in New Village. The sun was shining that day and the maple leaves were red.
95. His second proposal was at Lover’s Slope of Tsinghua Garden. The warm afternoon sun shone on the snow, making people feel very warm.
96. His third proposal took place on the blue seaside of San Diego. The sunset that day was so beautiful that it made you want to cry. @ Tan Zhihong
97. Many people don’t understand why I, who have always been low-key emotionally, suddenly become high-profile. During the days we were together, he cared for me wholeheartedly and in every possible way. In my eyes, he is a smart, handsome man who treats me very well, so he is very precious.
98. His name is Zhang Zhihao.
99. Today is his birthday, wish him a happy birthday.
100. He will be the one who will accompany me throughout my life. I hope to spend every birthday with him in the future.
101. The time we spend together would not be possible without the selfless spiritual and material support of our parents. Thank you to our parents@张思@张夏
102. Thank you to the above@ Friends who have passed by have witnessed our beautiful moments together.
103. Experiences on the road of love, whether good or bad, painful or happy, are extremely valuable wealth. Thank you to the boys I have met over the past few years. You have helped me grow, turning me from a young and willful little girl into a grateful and contented person. You have taught me to cherish true happiness when it appears. I also want to thank the girls who have spent some time with him. Thank you for bringing me such a him.