When you pay too much attention to the whereabouts of friends of the opposite sex, this friendship has been slowly changing. There is indeed a lot of daily communication between ordinary friends, but this does not mean that you need to report your daily whereabouts. Most conversations between friends are in the case of an important event. Only when two people are slightly interested in this matter can they exchange ideas together. Many times they don't communicate much, especially to friends of the opposite sex. Because of the gender gap, many heterosexual friends will be more conservative in the process of communication. This will lead to frequent heterosexual communication, so when you are interested in the whereabouts of a heterosexual friend and want to know what she is doing and what little things happen every day except big things, then this friendship will deteriorate.
When you can call the opposite sex anytime and anywhere, and he can be on call, maybe you should consider that the relationship between two people is really just friends? As we often say, people will only keep in touch with the people they like at any time, what's more, now everyone is so busy every day, even the best girlfriends or brothers may not receive your call at the first time because of trivial things in work and life, and will appear in front of you as soon as necessary. If friends of the opposite sex do it, then 80% of people like you in their hearts. After all, only for the person you like, people will put her things first, and the phone will be received in the first second.
When you become dependent on friends of the opposite sex, you have undoubtedly broken through the boundaries of ordinary friends. I want to send him a good morning at first sight when I wake up in the morning, and I must send him a good night before going to bed at night. I want to share with him what I have done all day, and you all hope that he can give you the same response. Congratulations, you have successfully fallen in love with him. This kind of love is not necessarily love at first sight, but in the long-term company, you integrate him into your life, and he also integrates you into his life through constant communication.
These situations will appear more or less in the process of getting along with the opposite sex. This is not a strange or unacceptable thing. People are not cold-blooded animals. Long-term getting along and caring will really make us have some illusions and dependence, so in this case, we still have to distinguish whether the feelings between two people can develop into a love relationship or a love illusion simply because of chatting. If the former is so supportive of falling in love, the latter will stop loss in time. In addition, if you already have a boyfriend (girlfriend), you still want to break off this ambiguous relationship in time and don't disappoint the object's good feelings.