Tong Ruixin was born in Harbin, Heilongjiang Province. After entering middle school, Tong Ruixin began to be influenced by his brother from the Drama Academy, and gradually fell in love with drama performance. 1984, Tong Ruixin, who finished high school in Harbin, was admitted to Wuhan Theatre Academy. 1985 I went to Beijing Air Administration Theatre for another year. 1986 In the summer, with the support of his family, Tong Ruixin passed the performance department of Shanghai Theatre Academy. After three years of professional study, Tong Ruixin was assigned to Shanghai People's Arts, and then entered Shanghai Film Studio to start his acting career.
Tong Ruixin's acting talent and serious attitude began to make him emerge. 1993, Qiong Yao chose Tong Ruixin to play one of the most important roles when filming the emotional drama "Three Lane of Plum Blossoms". Subsequently, Tong Ruixin participated in the filming of the TV series "Master Hongyi" and played the leading role in the play. 1995 "Master Hongyi" was broadcast in CCTV prime time, and it was that TV series that made Tong Ruixin's acting career step by step to the peak. With his excellent acting skills, excellent looks and elegant temperament, he soon became a well-known strength and idol star.
But apart from friends and colleagues, few viewers know that behind Tong Rui's heart, there is a beautiful and strong woman who has been silently accompanying and supporting him. She is Tong Ruixin's wife hsia ching.
The understanding of Tong Ruixin and hsia ching belongs to the necessity of being actors. In the dressing room where they first got together, Tong Ruixin saw hsia ching putting on makeup in front of the mirror. On that day, Xia Qing wore simple clothes and trousers, the color was a little dark, but the feeling was still very bright. Tong Ruixin discovered that Xia Qing's title of "Beauty with Big Eyes" really deserved its reputation.
/kloc-in the summer of 0/993, the film studio accepted the shooting task of the film "Flying Snow", with Tong Ruixin as the leading actor and hsia ching as the actress. In the play, the two will play an upward young man who has no chance to be married but loves the revolution. Although it is the first time to cooperate, there is no love experience in life, but two people naturally play a pair of lovers exceptionally well. After the filming, there seems to be a tacit understanding between them. In Tong Ruixin's feeling, Xia Qing is not as proud and headstrong as other beautiful actresses. She is a very careful and gentle girl, who knows how to take care of others and make their contacts as cordial as good friends who have known each other for a long time.
Maybe this is fate. Soon after, Tong Ruixin and Xia Qing met again in a movie, playing a couple who once loved each other but ended each other's lives in a tragic way. It is a sad love tragedy that sensationalized the whole literary world and was shot abroad. Because of the strong tragic color, both of them have heavy roles. Sometimes Xia Qing will be completely immersed in the plot and unable to control himself, so that Tong Ruixin doesn't know what to do. The filming of that movie almost made two people experience completely different lives. In the last scene, the hero personally killed his wife, and love instantly changed from gorgeous to fragrant tea. Although he clearly knew that this was a performance, Tong Rui's heart was still aching at that moment. He thinks that if one day he loves someone, he will cherish her and cherish her all his life.
In the interval between filming, Tong Ruixin finally got up the courage to find hsia ching. He took her aside and said, "hsia ching, I want to tell you something." "What is it?" Xia Qing smiled and blinked at him. At that moment, Tong Ruixin breathed a sigh of relief. In her beautiful big eyes, he saw another language. Slightly shy and naughty eyes are the expression of a girl's love. Tong Ruixin just know, in fact, Xia Qing has been slowly contact with him.
The day when love begins is a happy memory. At that time, Tong Ruixin lived in a small dormitory in the film factory. Because I am busy shooting, I often throw dirty clothes in the dormitory. When Xia Qing is free, he goes to Tong Ruixin's dormitory to help him tidy up the room, wash the dirty clothes neatly and put them in the box, and often makes some delicious meals and snacks for Tong Ruixin himself. Girls in love like romance, but Xia Qing seems to care more about expressing her feelings in a real way.
Although they are both in Shanghai, Tong Ruixin and Xia Jing are far apart, and almost half of the time every year, both of them are traveling all over the world. Making phone calls has become a way for them to express their feelings. At that time, communication was not very developed, and there were no mobile phones. Wherever Tong Ruixin goes, the first thing he does is to tell the phone number and room number of Xia Qing Hotel, and so does Xia Qing. Later, with pagers and mobile phones, there was no other use, and they all became special tools for love. Later, in order to better develop Tong Ruixin's career, Xia Qing began to give up some film contracts and took time out to take care of Tong Ruixin as much as possible. For career and love, Xia Qing chose the latter, although she knew very well that as long as she made unremitting efforts, her acting career would be more brilliant.
/kloc-in the winter of 0/995, Tong Ruixin's father was seriously ill, but Tong Ruixin was filming and couldn't take care of him. After Xia Qing knew about it, in order not to affect Tong Ruixin who was filming in other places, he took time off from Shanghai to Harbin without delay, and assumed the obligation of taking care of Tong Ruixin's father in the hospital. She called Tong Ruixin and said, "Don't worry about your work. I will take good care of the elderly. " For half a month, Xia Qing did not leave the hospital. She and the old man are almost naked, just like her own daughter. The nurses in the hospital don't believe that she is the movie star Xia Qing. They don't believe that a movie star can do this. Besides, at that time, she and Tong Ruixin were just lovers and didn't have too many obligations. When Tong Ruixin returned from filming, Xia Qing lost a whole circle.
Perhaps because of working too hard and focusing on Tong Ruixin, or because of the long-term irregular life, Xia Qing's endocrine began to be seriously unbalanced, and people became thinner and thinner. At first, Xia Qing didn't care too much, only thought he was too tired. In the future, Tong Ruixin said to Xia Qing every time he called: "Eat more nutritious things, you are too thin." Xia Qing smiled: "You won't get fat if you eat anything. That's good. You don't have to lose weight in the future." But after laughing, Xia Qing began to feel abnormal. Besides being thin, she is always tired.
1in the autumn of 996, Xia Qing just signed the film contract, and she felt suddenly unable to support herself, so she thought of going to the hospital for examination. After the examination, Xia Qing was stunned by the conclusion: hyperthyroidism! The doctor said to Xia Qing, "You should stop filming. You should treat and rest first. " Xia Qing accepted the doctor's advice. She wants to get better soon. She called Tong Ruixin: "I'm sick, so I probably can't make a movie." At that time, Tong Ruixin was filming in Changchun, and the task was very tense, so Tong Ruixin sent back a lot of nutrition, and filming was still very tense.
The shooting was finally completed with Tong Ruixin's concern for hsia ching. Although every time I call Xia Qing, I say it's nothing, but he can't let go. After all, the general illness will not affect the shooting, and Xia Qing's personality is stronger.
After filming, Tong Ruixin flew back to Shanghai without a moment's delay. That night, at Xia Qing's home, when he saw his girlfriend who left a month ago, he almost froze: Xia Qing was much haggard than he had expected, and he was almost a completely different person! Xia Jing is too thin. Her face is too thin to see the outline of the past, because her eyes are getting bigger, a little protruding and losing their luster. That once elegant face is no longer beautiful.
"What's the matter with you?" Tong Ruixin took Xia Qing's hand and asked her, "What's wrong with you?" Xia Qing smiled: "It's hyperthyroidism. It's nothing. One of the symptoms of this disease is that people will be thin. The doctor said that it would be nice if they insisted on taking medicine. " But Tong Rui's heart was too painful to restrain. He knew that although Xia Qing was a very strong and patient girl since she was a child, and she was always indifferent to fame and fortune, such a blow was still too cruel. After all, she is an actress who is active on the screen, an ordinary woman who wants to be beautiful forever.
At first, all the symptoms of the disease brought strong side effects to Xia Qing. In order not to make his eyes swollen like that, Xia Qing began to add a lot of hormones when taking medicine, so his body began to swell, his skin became obscure and dull, and he could no longer see a gentle and pleasant appearance. Tong Ruixin quietly took away all the metal objects with mirror function in her room, and he knew what all this meant to Xia Qing. It's not a life-threatening illness, or it hurts people in other professions a lot less, but she is an actress, so she may bid farewell to her acting career forever. The biggest blow she suffered came from her heart.
In order to make his beloved lover recover soon, Tong Ruixin put off his job and stayed with Xia Jing for some time. At first, what Tong Ruixin couldn't understand most was that Xia Jing, who had a gentle personality, had a bad temper and easily got angry, which made no sense. When he learned that this was also one of the symptoms of hyperthyroidism, everything became tolerant and considerate. During that time, Tong Ruixin went out to buy some fruits that hsia ching liked to eat every day. After Xia Qing was in a stable mood, they chatted together and went out for a walk.
After her condition was stable, Xia Qing still insisted on taking medicine for fear of recurrence. The eyes are no longer bulging, but the body is getting fatter, and the side effects brought by the disease have also killed Xia Qing's will. One night, Tong Ruixin accompanied Xia Qing for a walk in the street. Suddenly, several girls ran across the street and stopped them. One of the girls said, "Miss Tong, please sign for us." Then he took out a notebook. Tong Ruixin paused, if in the past, two people together there will always be someone stopped their signature, but they are all towards Xia Jing. However, they didn't recognize her! Tong Ruixin hesitated to sign the girl's name. When he looked up, he saw that Xia Qing had walked away alone.
Tong Ruixin caught up with what she wanted to say. Xia Jing turned around and said, "I'm tired. Take me home. " Since then, Xia Qing has deliberately avoided Tong Ruixin. Once Tong Ruixin came back to see Xia Qing, but she refused. On the phone, she said to Tong Ruixin, "Don't come to me in the future. I want to be alone for a while and think about my life. I don't want to drag you or anyone down. "
Tong Ruixin said, "I won't leave until I see you." He knew that Xia Jing began to pester the same problem again, and her strong self-esteem began to work again. Tong Ruixin hung up the phone after saying that, but he stood outside Xia Jing's house until Xia Jing came to him with tears.
When he finally saw Xia Qing, Tong Ruixin couldn't help saying, "Let's not torture each other like this. Jingjing, let us get married. " But Tong Ruixin dare not. Even if Xia Qing is in his arms, he can feel her fragility. At the beginning, Xia Qing hoped to have a child after marriage, but Xia Qing's body made both of them afraid to mention that wish. Xia Qing said, "Why are you so stubborn? You can find a hundred beautiful girls as girlfriends without me. "
Tong Rui smiled: "I looked for it, but no one has your big eyes, so I don't like it." Xia Qing smiled with tears in her eyes.
After a short period of unhappiness, Xia Qing began to become relaxed and happy. A friend once asked Xia Qing, "Aren't you worried that so many girls like Tong Ruixin?" Xia Qing shook his head: "Of course not. I don't think there is any doubt. I never thought about it. I think Tong Ruixin and I are already related. Who will doubt their loved ones? " When a friend told Tong Ruixin what Xia Qing said, he was very moved. In fact, Tong Ruixin has always been worried. He is afraid that Xia Jing will feel inferior because of the change of her appearance, and will therefore doubt the feelings between her and Tong Ruixin. At that time, he finally knew that his worry was unnecessary, and the trust between him and Xia Qing was almost instinctive.
/kloc-in the winter of 0/997, when Tong Ruixin was free, Xia Qing, who recovered from illness, said to him, "I want to do something, to open a fashion shop and a cultural communication company." Tong Ruixin thought for a moment and agreed. He thought it might help Xia Qing to regain his original confidence in his new career, so he helped Xia Qing set up the company. With something to do, Xia Qing really found her original love for life in her own career. She has become a happy and confident woman again. Although she is still weak, her appearance has not recovered.
Tong Ruixin felt that the time was ripe, so he began to plan his own proposal. This is the last day of winter. When Tong Ruixin came back from filming, she didn't go directly to Xia Qing's company to find her as before, but went to several flower shops and ordered all their lilies. He asked the florist to stagger the time, and he asked Xia Qing to collect lilies every hour from morning till night.
At dusk, after counting the last 99 lilies, Tong Ruixin in a suit appeared in front of Xia Qing with three roses. Seeing Xia Qing's blooming lilies, he pretended to be surprised and said, "Jingjing, do you want a flower shop?" Xia Qing glared at Tong Ruixin: "What the hell are you doing?" Tong Ruixin put away his smile and said, "I'm proposing to you. Jingjing, marry me. "
Xia Qing didn't speak for a long time, and then asked word for word, "Do you sympathize with me?" Tong Ruixin shook his head and said, "I won't gamble anything with my life except love, let alone sympathy." Xia Qing still didn't speak for a long time, and then lowered his head: "Have you ever thought about Ruixin? I can't be an actor anymore. I have to live on drugs all my life. I may even be infertile, and you like children so much. Now that you have your own career, you can choose a better marriage ... "
Tong Ruixin interrupted Xia Qing: "I don't want to say anything more, and I don't know how deep my feelings for you are. I just want to tell you that every time I think about losing you one day, I feel suffocated. Jingjing, in fact, you have become the bottom line of my life over the years. Because you are behind me, I know what I want to do and what my life is like. I don't feel lonely when I meet anything, you know? In my heart, you are my support. My wish for you is never a rose, but a lily. "
Xia Jinghuan looked around at the lilies: "But ..."
Tong Ruixin hugged Xia Qing hard: "No buts, don't refuse me. I can't stand your refusal. "
Xia Qing's tears fell down. ...
After marriage, Tong Ruixin still developed her own career. In their spare time, Tong Ruixin and hsia ching will travel to small towns in the south of the Yangtze River, often walking together and holding hands quietly in that bustling city. Because Xia Qing was afraid of being tired, Tong Ruixin insisted that Xia Qing give up the business of the cultural communication company. Xia Qing learned how to make pictures and VCD by computer at home, and still managed his life to the fullest. They both love each other.
Children have become their extravagant expectations for a better life! Because hyperthyroidism is easy to recur, Xia Qing is still taking medicine, and her health has not been good enough. Although it looks rich, Tong Ruixin knows that this is only a side effect of the medicine. Once Xia Qing said, "I should lose weight." Tong Ruixin denied it before Xia Qing finished: "No, I still think you are fatter." Thinking of Xia Qingshi's emaciation, Tong Ruixin can't stand it. Xia Qing's physical condition keeps Tong Ruixin's wishes for his children in mind. Even every time he saw other people's children, he would deliberately say to Xia Qing, "We don't want children in the future. If the child is very tired, it is also good for us to spend more time together. " Xia Qing just smiled, but she had already made up her mind to have a baby for Tong Ruixin anyway.
Two months later, Xia was really pregnant. When she told Tong Ruixin the news, Tong Ruixin was both happy and worried: "Really, why do you have to take risks?" Xia Qing said, "Because I love you, I can't make us feel sorry." Tong Ruixin said; "If something happens, I really don't know what to do?" Xia: "No, medicine is so developed now, what's more, even if something happens, I am worth it, because I have a husband who loves me so much. I firmly believe that God will treat us well and give us a healthy and lovely child. " Tong Ruixin hugged Xia Qing and didn't want to cry, but the tears didn't stop.
After that, Tong Ruixin and Xia Qing put all their energy into the children who have not yet come into this world, and they bought all the necessities of their children early. For the sake of children's health, Xia Qing insisted on eating some nutrients that he didn't like at ordinary times, walking and listening to music to keep himself in the best mood. Two people even pray every day, praying that God can satisfy their wishes and give them a healthy child.
In April 2002, Xia Qing finally gave birth to a daughter in the hospital. The child is very healthy and has a pair of talking eyes. They gave the child a nice name: Xiaoyu.
As a mother, Xia Qing still has to take medicine every day, and she is still afraid of being tired. But she still insists on taking care of the baby alone. Be a filial mother and a happy mother. As a father, Tong Ruixin happily said the last sentence to reporters: "Xiaoyu's mother is worth cherishing for a lifetime."
Tong Ruixin, a new good man: I wake up with my lover in the fragrance of fruit every day.
Author/Zhong Zhong
Find a home where we can sweat together.
Xia Qing can't be a shining star, but he can put aside his fame and fortune and experience the ordinary beauty in life with his heart.
She bought cookbooks and vegetable books, and learned to cook and take care of the vegetable garden. Her cooking is very good, especially braised beef, which makes her father and daughter hit the bottom of the bowl again and again. She also taught herself computer, learned web design and made a publicity website for her husband.
What Xia Qing is most proud of is that, at her suggestion, the open space behind the house was turned into an orchard and a vegetable garden, and became a "farm yard". In the city, many white-collar workers like to rent a field in the suburbs on weekends, ploughing in spring and harvesting in autumn, and looking for pastoral interests. Tong Ruixin and his wife can be white-collar landlords at home because they live in the suburbs.
Xia Jing studies and works. According to different seasons, she planted vegetables, loofah, edamame, pepper, cabbage, and tomatoes but didn't feed them. She never fertilizes or sprays pesticides. She just waters them every day.
When Tong Ruixin is at home, he will do farm work with his wife and witness the growth of fruits from scratch. When they are working, they can see the clear blue sky when they look up, the green leafy vegetables when they look down, and breathe the fragrant air unique to the countryside. In fact, it doesn't matter what they do. The important thing is to find a place where they can sweat together, a place where they can really share the happiness of cooperation.
After the cucumber harvest in July, they also decorated the vegetable shed with red pepper, purple eggplant and tender cabbage. In the hot summer, Xia Qing picked some fresh loofah and handfuls of edamame. Stir-fried soybean with loofah, fresh and tender egg soup with loofah, and bright child's heart.
There are fruit trees in the yard, and peach trees are covered with big hearts, which are very beautiful. Xia Qing didn't want to pick it and eat it. Her favorite thing is to pull her husband under the tree and count peaches together every day to share the happiness of harvest. As a result, there were always 80 peaches on the tree, and finally the worms were full. In September, the grapes bear fruit. When picking grapes, the couple are sweet in their hearts. Hand-planted grapes are strong and fruity. If you can't finish it, give it to friends who come to play and next door neighbors. In exchange, they will be praised once or twice, which sounds more touching to Xia Jing than nature.
On such a simple and fragrant day, Tong Ruixin wakes up every morning with the sound of birds singing and watches her daughter grow up with her wife.
Family ties bring great happiness.
The rare brilliant moments in childhood make Tong Rui's heart quiet and casual, and cherish his family more. He just wants to live a quiet and happy life. Since marriage, home has become his biggest concern. He has no special hobbies, but his biggest hobbies are his wife and his daughter, who copied his wife's big eyes. He has no special expectations, but the biggest expectation is that his family will not complain about him, because "others may only love my aura, but my family will love everything about me."
Tong Ruixin has always believed that an actor is just a profession, as long as he plays a good role and brings artistic enjoyment to the audience, not to mention an ordinary person who also needs to enjoy the happiness of ordinary people.
However, Tong Ruixin is really busy. Once, my daughter cried on the phone and said that she missed her father and asked him to climb home from the telephone line. Tong Ruixin is both funny and sad. With the internet, Tong Ruixin will turn on his laptop, open online videos, let his wife and daughter watch his life, watch him eat, and watch him chat with other actors. Similarly, he also saw the life of his wife and daughter at home through online videos. Although there is not much time to talk, just like living together, it brings a lot of warmth to Tong Ruixin and gives him a reason to struggle.
If he was filming in Jiangsu and Zhejiang, near Shanghai, and he was not filming in Tong Ruixin the next day, he would not have driven home early to reunite with his family. He doesn't like to waste time socializing and miss many wonderful moments in life. He would rather have tea and chat with his wife under the cloister after dinner or go for a walk by the river hand in hand.
If conditions permit, Tong Ruixin will take his wife and daughter to live with the crew. For example, when he was filming in Anji, Zhejiang, his wife and daughter stayed in a hotel in order not to disturb them. During the day, he went out to film, and his wife and daughter went to the town. Get together in the evening, and everyone will happily tell each other what they saw and felt during the day. Whether they are apart or together, their hearts are always together.
In this way, some things left a mark on Tong Ruixin's husband and wife's life bit by bit, so that they were always warm and moved by the warmth of home.
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