When a person is over 50, he has spent half his life. When he reaches the age of knowing his destiny, he can see the world clearly and understand what kind of life he wants to live. Therefore, we need to know whether some people around us can be close friends or need to stay away, and clarify these relationships in order to make ourselves better and better in the second half.

No matter how good your life is, you should keep it well and set up a line of defense in your heart. When you meet these two kinds of people, don't be soft-hearted and don't care whether you are kind or not.

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People over 50 don't have to worry about villains.

There is a kind of person who is duplicitous, selfish, narrow-minded, cunning and treacherous, and does harm to others when he can't hide their goodness. Such people are mean people.

Confucius said, "An honest man is frank, but a villain is anxious ..."

You can't share weal and woe. A righteous man gives charcoal in the snow, and his life is half-life.

Huang's knocking at the door in Happiness turned out to be the chief resident of a medical department. When people reach middle age, they are planted by villains, dismissed by hospitals and become salesmen. Under the double blow of life, work and love, he fell to the bottom.

The villain who framed him was his classmate and partner Wang Puyi.

Wang Puyi is a jealous and selfish person. He saw that Huang was better than himself, and he was promoted faster than himself and became his boss. So he played tricks behind and saw Huang talking to a policewoman. He didn't know who the policewoman was, so he recorded a video to sow discord between Huang and his wife.

Wang Puyi's own patient didn't do a good job of examination, so he asked Huang to help him with the operation. Later, after the patient died of complications, he put the blame on Huang, and also reported Huang anonymously, making a fuss and indiscriminately, just trying to drag Huang into the water.

Such villains pretend to make up with Huang, make Huang trust him, and then stab him in the back in turn. This is the darkest side of human nature.

When people get married in middle age, they really can't stand the calculation of the villain, otherwise the whole person will be ruined by him.

Therefore, in life, it is better to offend an upright person than to offend a villain, who is narrow-minded and vengeful. For his own benefit, he will betray you every minute by any means.

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When people are over 50, they don't have to worry about those who are blinded by interests.

In the second half of life, don't mind your own business, especially those who are blinded by interests. Don't worry about them. Karma's a bitch. Who will heaven spare?

They should pay the price after being blinded by profits. This is God's punishment for them. Therefore, never pity those who give up on themselves and pretend to be poor. He doesn't take himself seriously, and he won't take others seriously if he turns his face.

A good man is the realm that a person pursues, but he can only play a role in certain circumstances. Human nature has a nasty feeling, that is, sometimes it uses some so-called sweet words to cover up its selfishness at that time.

Just like many times, someone announces a point of view about your private affairs, and later, she will have a statement that goes against the original point of view, which is inconsistent but overreaching.

We have been working hard, hoping to choose to get rid of this ugly interpersonal circle and be a good person in that suitable circle.

When you reveal your true feelings to others, you may get a calm and ruthless knife, so that you will not fish in troubled waters when you are in danger, and those ignorant hooligans will benefit a lot.

Some people confide in others, but suffer from defection. While suffering from defection, the defector turns his back on those who helped him before. Some people have already seen his true colors and disdained him.

Kindness always has a bottom line. No wonder people who always want to touch their bottom line are in danger.

So, don't worry too much about those who don't know how to be grateful.

People over 50 have entered the age of knowing their destiny. Try to ignore what you can't manage and ignore what you shouldn't manage. No matter who shouldn't be in charge, no matter who is jealous. Live with peace of mind, and you will reduce unnecessary troubles.

Life comes and goes quietly. Compared with the ups and downs of the process, the end point is less important.

After decades of ups and downs, I have passed the age of enthusiasm and stubbornness, and I have understood everything I need to know.

In middle age, letting go is better than persistence, and silence is better than noise.

A roll of idle books and half a pot of old tea, lightly across the years, silently, this is the best.

If life is a book.

If life is a book, some people live into a gourmet menu, some people live into a financial guide, and some people drink tea all their lives and become a tea book like Lu Yu.

Zhuangzi realized the way of freedom and talked about the way of inaction all his life, and finally formed the book Zhuangzi;

Laozi talked about the Tao that everything has a destiny, and left a priceless Tao Te Ching for later generations.

Confucius made great contributions in history by giving lectures to solve doubts. His disciples collected his words and formed a Confucius.

It is true that if everyone is a book, we will not be classic books handed down from generation to generation, but we will also be independent autobiographies.