Leng Qingqiu was born in a small family. By contrast, the poor guy is even worse. She used to be a servant girl of the Wu family, followed Wu Peifang to the Jin family and became a rough servant girl of the Jin family.
Whether it is or not, it is a wealthy family, and Xiaoxi has become a rich family of the Liu family, enjoying prosperity. Although Leng Qingqiu also married into the Kim family and became a giant seven times, in just one year, she parted ways with Jin Yanxi. From then on, Leng Qingqiu led a miserable life with her children, and was reduced to the point of peddling words.
Why are they so far apart?
0 1 "Better marry a slave than a daughter", Lian Xiao can better adapt to the life of wealthy families.
As the saying goes, "it is better to marry a slave than a little girl", which probably means that the maids of a large family are educated, have seen the world and know the rules, while the women of a small family do not know the manners and have never seen the world, so they are always a little petty.
Of course, this view is not entirely correct. Some poor women are well educated, knowledgeable and polite. However, from this perspective, we understand the real meaning. Living in a big family, profound knowledge may not be so important, and the way to deal with people with high emotional intelligence is more critical.
Compared with Leng Qingqiu, Lian Xiao doesn't read many poems. She teaches herself mostly during business hours, but she simply recites poems and reads. Leng Qingqiu, who received a special education at school, wrote good poems and words.
However, this does not really help the life of the giants.
After getting married, Leng Qingqiu holds a book in her arms every day. Maybe she is really reading carefully, but in her sister-in-law's view, it is a bit "posturing", which greatly mocks their lack of knowledge.
Moreover, she has seen less of the world and can't say beautiful scenes, but Xiao Xi is different. She always follows the housewife Wu Peifang, follows suit, attends summer weddings, and behaves appropriately, just like a lady from a big family.
Leng Qingqiu is such a self-reliant woman. She doesn't know how to adapt to the life of a rich family.
Leng Qingqiu is weak and doesn't know how to run a marriage.
When in love, Jin Yanxi pursued Leng Qingqiu, which made Leng Qingqiu develop a passive attitude. Her mind is full of love. One party pursues the other. She is used to Jin Yanxi pursuing herself and never wants to take the initiative to cater to each other.
Besides, Leng Qingqiu is a self-contradictory person. Having been with her for a long time, I can't help feeling that she is hypocritical.
For example, when she was obviously dissatisfied with Jin Yanxi's staying up all night and infatuated with the dance floor, Mrs. Jin stood up to help her, accusing Jin Yanxi and Leng Qingqiu of not accepting their kindness, pretending to be a virtuous person, and excusing Jin Yanxi in front of her mother, refuting the faces of the eldest housewife Wu Peifang and the third housewife.
She only wanted to impress a "good guy" in front of everyone, but when she returned to her room, she began to accuse Jin Yanxi and used cold violence at every turn. Pretend it doesn't matter when you clearly care. Which man can stand getting along with such a woman?
Weak personality, not strong enough, can't control Jin Yanxi, and don't know how to run a marriage. The miserable appearance of the day intensified the rhythm of breaking up.
Liu Chunjiang is more suitable as a husband and father than Yan Jingxi.
Marriage is a woman's second life. If you marry the right person, you will be happy; if you marry the wrong person, you will be unfortunate.
The luckiest thing about Lian Xiao is that he chose Liu Chunjiang, and the most unfortunate thing about Leng Qingqiu is that he chose Jin Yanxi.
At first, the Liu family did not accept the background, while Liu Chunjiang insisted on standing aside. In order to be with Lian Xiao, Liu Chunjiang chose to elope. They went abroad together, opened an art studio and made a living by themselves.
Lian Xiao has always been a hard worker. She knows the gap between herself and Liu Chunjiang. In order to have a topic between them, she studied hard and became a nurse.
Lian Xiao's efforts have been recognized not only by Liu Chunjiang, but also by Liu Fu and Liu Mu. She has also successfully become the housewife of the Liu family, enjoying all the glory. Leng Qingqiu once enjoyed a luxurious life, but it was only a flash in the pan.
Jin Yan and Liu Chunjiang are really incomparable, which is also the reason why Lian Xiao and Leng Qingqiu have different fates.
However, Leng Qingqiu was finally able to wake up in time and leave with his son. Although he lived a poor life as a street vendor, he was still self-reliant and lived a comfortable life, much happier than in the Jin family.