This paper focuses on how the traditional exam cowboy was born. I have heard some opinions that behind every cowboy, parents and children have made extraordinary efforts. On the one hand, I affirm this view, but at the same time, I have always been confused. Hearsay is really impossible to refer to. Judging from the two cows and children I know best around me, the first "Han Han" (boy) really reflects the extraordinary efforts of parents and children. I'm afraid all the schedules of this child have been arranged almost from the day of birth. All weekends and sundays are carried out according to, for example, one class hour of study and 10 minutes of rest. Finally, the children are admitted to the junior class of No.8 Middle School. Another "Gege", parents have made almost any extra efforts. It can even be said that Gege's parents are lazy parents and their ability to help their children is extremely limited. However, in retrospect, Gege is very different. Although there is no strict timetable at home, in my impression, she didn't have much time to play since she was a child. I remember on weekends, sometimes, I would come to my house to play with several children my age, and we adults would play cards together. After 9: 30 in the evening, Gege must go home to sleep. Other children like to be with us adults. In addition, the standard time for Gege to play computer on weekends is half an hour. For example, on Friday, you must basically finish your school homework before you are allowed to play computer for half an hour.

So on weekdays, if she doesn't play computer games, she has finished her homework. What will she do at other times? I don't know much about this. Although I know Gege's mother very well, she seldom mentions this aspect. As far as I know, she seldom goes to extracurricular classes, and her parents are absolutely incapable of tutoring or something. However, her grades have been very high, and she can hand over a nearly perfect answer sheet in almost every exam. If it's grade one, it's understandable that it's the second half of grade two. No matter in mathematics or physics, it is absolutely impossible to maintain such excellent results without extra efforts. How did she do it? Although she is my adopted daughter, I am at a loss now. Although I have taught her a foreign language for some time and occasionally talked about math, her excellent grades have little to do with my help.

I think Xiao Gege is really incredible. I can write my words here now. Her grades can be steadily entered into No.4 Middle School, and her scores in the senior high school entrance examination can definitely reach more than 550 points. After she came back from middle school, except that she was a little uncomfortable at first, her grades have been stable since then, and all the exams were admitted in order. At the end of the first day of junior high school, I scored 287 in three subjects, which is the best school in Shijingshan, Jingyuan, and also the absolute top five. The top five points in Jingyuan are equivalent to the top five points in the district, not to mention SZ and RDF high schools.

The terrible thing is that this achievement is only the beginning for Xiao Gege. Last semester, the second year of senior high school was unified in the whole region, with an average score of 96.5. Later, I didn't ask about the first place in Jingyuan. I doubt that even Jingyuan School will have such a high score.

Today is the first monthly exam outside the second half semester of Senior Two. Generally, the first monthly exam after junior high school is quite difficult. Xiao Gege Mathematics 1 10, English 96, Physics 97, Chinese 93+29. The perfect score is 100+35.

In this way, the total score was 445 points, and Xiao Gege got 425 points.

Maybe you don't think this achievement is great. Take the second and third place, the average score of the experimental class and the whole school is compared with you.

The second place in the class is 42 1 and the third place is 4 13.

There are less than ten students in 400% of the class, and the average score of the class is about 370 to 380, while the average score of the whole school is less than 280.

Thanks to Xiaozongzi, Xiaogege won't stand out from the crowd. The second place is Xiaozongzi, math 108, English 96, physics 96, Chinese 96+25.

Xiao Zongzi's real surprise is that if he doesn't count the 35-point bonus quiz, Xiao Zongzi's score of full mark 100 in the Chinese test paper actually surpassed Xiao Gege historically, and he became the highest score in the Chinese single subject in his class with 96 points.

In fact, scores don't mean anything, especially in a monthly exam. It doesn't matter if you don't do well in the exam. Not long ago, I had dinner with a friend. His son is as big as Xiaozongzi. After listening to the exam, my father said happily, "Son, yes, I passed by two points." This kind of father is the real handsome father. Because he deeply understands this truth, no matter what university you go to in the future, when you step into society, it is another starting point and another stage. On this stage, those who get good grades may not have advantages.

But I told him at that time: "I know that the performance at this stage is not decisive for my future life development, and may even have a negative impact." However, the pursuit of achievement is the real pleasure of our father and son. If we don't do well in the exam, we don't have to be discouraged. If we can't get into No.4 Middle School and a good university, we don't have to mind too much. However, if we struggle and work hard, we can win the competition among children. This is also a kind of fun. "

That's what I said to Xiaozongzi: "Son, we are competing for fun now. We should experience fun in the competition. Don't mind that you didn't do well in the exam, you should always work hard to do well in the exam, so that you won't feel any regret even if you fail for various reasons. Because sometimes, you are lucky to do well in the exam, and luck is unpredictable. However, if you fail the exam because you don't work hard enough, you will always regret it in the future. "

Not long ago, I often said in the group that Xiaozongzi is suddenly sensible now, starting from the second week of the second half of the second semester of Grade Two. Although this exam is a bit out of line, I'm afraid it can prove my feeling is right. Xiaozongzi really understood a lot at once and was much more sensible. Maybe other children, such as Gege, knew that grades were very important from the first grade of primary school, but Xiaozongzi really didn't know it until now.

From another perspective, my vision and implementation of children's educational layout from primary school have been verified for the first time.