1, Proposal: Prepare the meeting ceremony and let the matchmaker convey it to the girl's father.
2, eight characters: the man asked the woman's name and date of birth, Bu Zhao Ji.
3, Xiaoding: If the name is auspicious, then go to the matchmaker to send a small gift.
4. Dading: mainly to send down payment, wedding cake and various decorations and sacrifices as a bride price for formal employment.
5. Kneeling for the sun: The man entrusts the Feng Shui master to choose an auspicious day, and asks the matchmaker to ask the woman's opinion, which is usually discussed at a big time.
betrothal present
1, ring: as an engagement token.
2. Surface line: It means that the two have a happy marriage.
3, drinks: 24 bottles of good wine, meaning peace in 24 solar terms.
4, Fuyuan: dried longan, longan, meaning that future generations are prosperous and passed down from generation to generation.
5, four-color sugar: rock sugar, candy, orange cake, winter melon sugar, meaning sweet, grow old together.
6. Livestock gifts: Broiler, fresh fish, raw pork or ham, the quantity depends on local customs.
7. Competing for two meters: the man prepares 12 Jin of glutinous rice and three Jin of 22 Liang sugar, which is the material for the woman to wrap jiaozi, meaning reunion and happiness.