Molly used to run a fashionable restaurant by herself. She is beautiful, intelligent and capable. The restaurant is full every day, and Molly's life is very moist. Then she got married. Her husband has no job, and he doesn't want to help in her restaurant. He also invites a group of friends to eat and drink in the restaurant every day. When he was drunk, he despised Molly and hit him again. Then Molly got pregnant. This man is going to be a father, and it's time to take on some responsibilities. Not at all! Or wander around, eat and drink every day. Molly is busy in the restaurant with a big belly every day. One day Molly accidentally slipped, and a kind guest immediately came forward to help. Her husband saw it and rushed to hit the man without saying anything. Molly tried to stop it, but this bastard kicked Molly in the stomach. Molly had a miscarriage. During the few days in hospital, the restaurant was closed due to food poisoning for some reason. Molly, who lost her child and career, was sad and angry and asked for a divorce. And that bastard actually wants 6.5438+0 million divorce compensation. Molly had to go to court with him.
Molly's experience reminds me of the recent heated divorce case in Li Fuzhen. Li Fu, the daughter of the president of Samsung Group, is really the richest woman in Korea. She is invincible in her career, but her marriage is full of holes. Her husband Ren Youzai is a small security guard, neither tall nor handsome nor rich. Li Fuzhen just thought he was different, so he didn't get married. The distance between the two is too big, and they are gradually drifting away after marriage. Li Fuzhen devoted herself to her career and occupied the position of the richest woman in Korea for a long time. But Ren Youzai is unlearned, and the ready-made vice president of the company can't do it well. He also got into the bad habit of drinking, and even punched and kicked pregnant Li Fuzhen. 20 14, Li Fuzhen filed for divorce, and Ren Youzai filed for 7 billion sky-high compensation. A dozen divorce cases is three years.
See, girls? Love rat's common features all over the world are laziness, lack of progress, alcoholism, domestic violence and greed for money. Before you get married, you must keep a clear head and never marry love rat. Love rat will surely drag you down or even destroy you, and a really good man will promote you and make you successful.
My friend Vivian had a very clear goal before she got married. In her early years, she opened an advertising company in a third-tier town, acting as an agent for the advertising business of local TV stations, which made her famous locally. There are only a handful of men who pursue her, rich, powerful and dignified, but she doesn't despise any of them. Until the age of 30, Vivian met Gordon, the planning director of a listed company. The gap between two people is actually very big. Vivian graduated from high school and Gordon went on studying. Vivian's annual salary is over one million, and Gordon's annual salary is as high as 300,000. But Vivian fell in love with Gordon at first sight, put aside all reserve and actively pursued Gordon, and they soon entered the marriage hall. Gordon works in Shanghai, and Vivian moved her company to Shanghai one year after her marriage. Through Gordon's contacts, Vivian quickly gained a foothold in the Shanghai media circle. Vivian also learned a lot of management experience from Gordon. In recent years, she has expanded her business to the whole country, and her annual income has jumped from one million to ten million.
So, is it true that only a man like Gordon can make his wife's career successful by going up a flight of stairs? Actually, not necessarily. A full-time husband is also a good choice. The wife is responsible for making money to support the family, and the husband is responsible for cooking and taking care of the children. This mode of marriage has been accepted by more and more people. My neighbor Tracy and Tony are examples of this model. Tracy runs an investment company and its business is booming. Tony used to have his own company. After Tracy got pregnant, Tony handed over the company to his partner and began to take care of his wife and children wholeheartedly. Tony really walked out of the hall and out of the kitchen. Their recipes will not be repeated for a month. Tracy's underwear is washed by Tony every day. Their home is always spotless and the floor is always as bright as new. Children are also well trained, smart and polite, and have a noble temperament. Tony's friends often make fun of him: "How did you become a nanny?" Tony smiled and said, "I would like to be a nanny for my wife. I have a great sense of accomplishment when I watch my wife's career grow bigger and bigger and my son grow up healthily day by day. " Listen, what a nice person! With such a good man's support, what can stop us women from starting a business in running all the way?
I wish all sisters can find a good man and have a good marriage!
Happy Valentine's Day on Tanabata!