People's birth and death, marriage and family are all natural laws. People can meet many weddings and funerals in their life, especially those born in rural areas, and they can see many weddings and funerals they have experienced personally. In the banquet hall, you can experience the humanity and family situation of the banquet family.
First, white banquets, things about the dead often happen. In this rural world, you can see many different funeral banquets, from which you can also see the size of this family, the thickness of the family's economic strength, and the extensiveness and narrowness of personal relationships.
1. At the funeral scene, you found many people wearing white mourning clothes, indicating that there are many families and many dutiful sons in this family. The family background should not be underestimated. It is a big family with great potential.
If you see a lot of cars at the funeral scene, and they are all famous cars, it doesn't mean the descendants of this family. They have a bright future, successors and universal interpersonal relationships, and they are a big family worthy of attention.
3. In the banquet hall, good cigarettes, good wine can be seen everywhere. Simple tea and rice, rich pork, mutton and beef, and seven plates and eight plates of delicious food are all gone. Further up, this family must be a local tyrant, with deep pockets, rich family, well-fed and well-fed.
4. At the funeral scene, I saw several classes of drummers, competing with each other, banging loudly, beating day and night, calling for night lanterns to greet the sacrifice, and the drummers wailed and made countless "four old men's heads". When they grabbed each other, firecrackers rang all over the sky, which undoubtedly showed that this son-in-law, the relatives of this family were very powerful and rich, or they might be rich bosses.
On the other hand, you can't see these things at the funeral scene. You can only feel that this is just a very ordinary family with poor economic strength and ordinary connections. In people's minds, it is also a white banquet for ordinary people. There is no need to talk long and short. When the economic foundation is determined, the scope and economic strength of the banquet will be determined.
Second, the red banquet, the red banquet for marrying a daughter-in-law and hiring a woman, the rural people always spend everything. If they have money or no money, they must do a lot of things. One is to receive gifts, and the other is to take care of children. This will be once in a lifetime, and they can't fall behind. You can also get a glimpse of it.
1, there are many famous cars for red banquets, which does not necessarily mean that this family is particularly rich, especially the famous cars that marry daughters-in-law. For the sake of children's lifelong events, adults will rent a famous car at all costs to marry a daughter-in-law, no matter how much it costs, it is only one day, and the money is limited.
2. Marry a daughter-in-law, an ordinary large family, and inform one person that the whole family will arrive in 500 yuan for 300-days, with a gift and money. A family will eat two meals, a banquet and a full meal. This popularity is not particularly wide, and it is an impossible move for rural red banquets. If you don't eat, the children will take up space, and both sides are not optimistic about popularity.
3, red banquet, many families hold a grand wedding, but also to receive bride price, do not have to be decent, to borrow money, to arrange, seven bowls and eight plates, seven meat and eight vegetables, fish, turtles, shrimp, pigs, beef and mutton, cigarettes, soju, drinks, beer, must be served. You have to inform the relatives of the seven aunts and eight aunts to congratulate you.
4. Serious relatives take the lead, and there are many talents at the banquet. They pay and contribute. After running, eat in front of people and behind them. This is the basic situation of rural banquet.
Of course, there are some white banquets in the central government, but they are not complete, which proves that the more witnesses, the more popular they are. Some red banquets are short and pithy, small and pithy, short and pithy. There are few people sitting in the banquet hall, the seats are colorful and the atmosphere is not warm and grand. However, relatives and classmates have money, fewer organizers, and unexpectedly rich income. This popularity is unprecedented for a family.
Third, in a word, the more people there are, the more face there is in rural weddings and funerals? In people's eyes, it's all said, depending on whose family you are, how many people are at the banquet, eating a cow, three sheep, a few cigarettes and drinking a few mouthfuls of wine, a good family is full of atmosphere. Everyone put out their fingers to say complicated things and praise them. On the contrary, whispering is self-evident.