2, but also pay attention to the placement of fruits, a plate of at least three fruits, or multiples of six, nine, twelve, a plate of one or two is taboo! The dishes served also follow this rule. When the number of plates is still three, we should put three plates, such as a plate of fruit, a plate of mental arithmetic and a plate of meat, instead of just one plate. More exquisite, a glass of wine, four dishes, pork, fish, tofu and vegetables, and a bowl of rice.
First of all, there is a funeral system in some places, and most of them observe three-year filial piety, that is, the families of the deceased need to follow some systems during these three years, such as prohibiting marriage leave and holding happy events. Some places are strictly controlled and are not allowed to participate in weddings, funerals and weddings. Usually you can't wear gold and silver, red and green, and exaggerate. It is more appropriate to keep black, white and gray. You can't even eat meat and drink, and you can't post couplets during the Spring Festival, but you should post elegiac couplets.
Secondly, when you are in Zhou Nianji, you can't fill or dig graves. The countryside thinks that this will destroy the vitality of the cemetery, which is not good. This follows the law that "the new tomb will not break ground for three years", which is different from the Qingming whole tomb three years later.
Finally, Saint Zhou Nianji is the high priest, so we need to pay special attention. It's best not to postpone the sacrifice time, but to have some ceremonies. After sacrificing one Zhou Nianji and three Zhou Nianji, it is a complete sacrifice, in other words, it is a complete death, and there is not so much attention after the sacrifice.