Although it is rare to have more children now, it is inevitable that there will be individual cases around the world that lead to more children. A baby mom born after 1980s, gave birth to seven children in 14?
Many people will inevitably tremble slightly when they see this number. This situation was very common in the previous generation, because having more children was a blessing, and it was not easy to feed at that time. With the progress of the times, it is extremely difficult for many ordinary families to raise one child, let alone seven children. Although many people are busy, the pressure that comes with them makes people breathless.
For young mothers, giving birth is like breaking 10 ribs. The pain of that process is unimaginable. Of course, many people will choose caesarean section because they are afraid of pain. I'll even tell my husband that I'm only born this once. After all, having a child with one foot in the tiger's mouth and one foot in heaven, not to mention having more children, has an impact on both body and mind.
For the husband, the first thing to bear is the economic problem. It's hard to feed two people, let alone a starving child. When I was a child, I needed to give him enough nutrition, and I needed a better school to go to school. If the girl is better, the boy will buy a house and car as a bride price. Therefore, families with poor economic conditions are afraid to have more children, which is really unbearable.
On social platforms, there is such a group of photos that attract attention. It's just some family photos sent by a treasure mother. The seven children in the photo also recorded the year of their birth in detail, and recorded the little things of the children, which directly triggered a heated discussion among many people.
Ma Bao, who has a child at home, lives like a war. It's hard to imagine what it would be like to have another one, so many people in Ma Bao say nothing. However, for some precious mothers, it seems particularly easy to take care of their babies. One by one, people can't help wondering, is there a mine at home?
In the face of many people's doubts, she faced this problem calmly and once said that her family was in the jewelry business. Although there is no star with money, it is not a lot of money, but it is not a big problem to support these seven children. Having said that, the family background is still very strong.
After marriage, this 80-year-old treasure mother will have a baby in a year or two. It took her 65,438+04 years to have these seven children. However, she is only 34 years old, and people have to sigh that it is good to be young. Some people even say that it is precisely because she has given birth to so many children that it has aroused a wave of social concern.
The reporter interviewed her. Why did she have so many children? Her answer directly shocked many people. This is not a policy issue, but she doesn't want her husband's high IQ to be wasted. Since there is such a good gene, why not use it? As we all know, the IQ of Hawking, a world-famous physicist, has reached 160, which is already very high.
Ma Bao's husband's IQ has reached 140, and she thinks her face value is also very good, so the child born naturally combines their excellent genes. However, some people will inevitably question whether there is a "preference for sons". After seven children, they still want to have sons.
But this idea was quickly rejected. Seven children, five of whom are boys and two are girls, do not exist. Of course, some people question it, and some people feel sorry for her: every time a woman gives birth to a child, it is harmful to her body. I have to say that people have the conditions and courage. After all, everyone thinks differently. In the entertainment circle, there are such couples who have always insisted on themselves and chose "Dink".
Some people are willing to live, while others are unwilling to live. In the final analysis, it is their choice. There is no right or wrong at all. Only in this choice can they not regret it.
From the early 1990s to the late 1990s, the word "DINK" became popular in China, and the number of "DINK families" in major cities was also increasing steadily. After all, on the one hand, population is a big problem, on the other hand, it makes your life easier and less burdensome.
According to relevant data, about 10% of young couples in China are not prepared to have children. They are a "Dink family", with two incomes and no children. They belong to two people, and the whole family is not hungry, which completely breaks the traditional concept. Tony Leung Chiu Wai and Carina Lau, Ge You and He Cong, Liu Qingyun and Guo Aiming all chose not to have children.
Kang Hui is a member of 10% "Dink clan", even he didn't know that this choice would eventually become a regret. Born in 1972, he was a schoolmaster since he was a child, and later he was admitted to the Broadcasting Department of Beijing Broadcasting University. There's an episode here. He can be admitted to Peking University by grades, but he wants to choose what he likes because of rebellion.
In this school, with his own efforts and diligence, he directly joined CCTV as a news anchor after graduation. He is only 2 1 year old. Nowadays, many college students are facing many employment choices when they leave school. No matter how much they change, it is difficult to find the one that suits them. Besides, unless it is excellent, a better company will never graduate.
Kang Hui not only received a lot of professional knowledge at school, but also gained a sweet love. Liu Yajie is also the host of CCTV. They can be called husband and wife partners, which is envied by the outside world. Liu Yajie is his primary school sister. After graduation, they didn't face breaking up. Instead, I entered the marriage hall in 2000 and lived my own little life.
Until now, they have been in love for 20 years, but there has been no good news and they have missed the opportunity to have children. But what many people don't know is that in fact, an autobiography written by Kang Hui, Average Score, wrote: "From the first day of marriage, my wife and I decided unanimously not to have children and to be a DINK family." The two have been fulfilling this promise.
In order to make up for my childless life, I have a kitten "Niu Niu" as my own child. One day, Kang Hui was on a business trip and was told by her sister that her father had died of cancer. He didn't see him for the last time when he went back. He hates himself very much. As a mother naturally understands her son's mind, she wrote him a letter and made a request: "Your father's only regret is that he didn't see his grandson, so I hope you can have a child as soon as possible and fulfill our wish."
It can be seen that the wish of the two old people is just to have grandchildren in their lifetime. Stepmother mentioned it several times, but Kang Hui didn't have an idea, so she stopped mentioning it. Until 2018165438+10/5, at 7 am 15, Kang Hui's mother also died. On the plane, he almost collapsed to the end, but he still had to face life and secretly hide in the bathroom.
He once wrote in Average Score: "If I can start over, I think I will fulfill my mother's wish early." How uncomfortable it is to write down such feelings, and his regrets at that time can be felt between the lines. But all this has long been irreparable. Can we only cherish it if we lose it?
Kang Hui, who was born in 1970s, and Ma Bao, who was born in 1980s, have different choices. It takes a lot of courage to choose "Dink" or have seven children, and the bitterness behind it is really unpredictable. When faced with thousands of choices, as long as you don't regret your initial heart.
There are countless choices on the long road of life, but only a few steps are in jeopardy. Different choices may determine our different life paths.