On February 13, the online OICQ system publicly released a message: "Online wedding! ! ! Today, the first couple on QQ officially got married here. Male: Reinhardt, female: Jia. Their numbers are XXXX and XXXX respectively. Tencent wishes you both! "
On the same day, the media reported that many middle school students were keen on online marriage. Many people found their "spouses" and registered their marriages online, and then indulged in online "husband and wife life" every day, wasting time and delaying their studies.
14 In February, an emotional website "Marriage Registry" was full all day, and the interface for announcing the "effectiveness" of marriage kept scrolling at an average speed of 10 second 1. At this rate, nearly 9000 pairs of netizens registered for 24-hour online marriage on this website alone!
On February 15, a consultant was received in the psychological clinic of a well-known hospital in Beijing. She came to be a consultant for her son Xiao Peng.
Home on the Internet is so much like home.
Xiao Peng, a 20-year-old junior at a municipal university in Beijing, is a super Internet addict who spends more than 10 hours on the Internet every day. Half a year ago, Xiao Peng met a girl of 17 years old online, and they fell in love soon. A month later, they registered their marriage on a website and established a "family" online.
An ordinary web page. According to Xiao Peng's mother, this "home" is a bit too much like home. The family built by two people with words and pictures not only has decent furniture and room layout, but also a menu of three meals a day, and even a description of their virtual "husband and wife life"! Xiao Peng and the girl were "married" for less than three weeks, and the website informed him that his "lover" was pregnant. Xiao Peng was overjoyed, and read the precautions for pregnant women with a book every day. Six weeks later, I told him that they had a baby, and Xiao Peng was too excited to sleep.
15 weeks later, the website informed Xiao Peng that his "wife" and "son" were seriously ill, and Xiao Peng was listless all day. By week 18, the website announced that his wife and children had both "died" because of ineffective medical treatment, and his marriage was over!
Body and mind are controlled by hallucinations.
This marriage game, like keeping an electronic pet, ended here, but at this time Xiao Peng was too involved to stand the blow and get sick. I can't go to a good university until now. The first thing I do when I get up every day is to go to the online cemetery to mourn his "wife and children", and then I feel depressed and mumble. Xiao Peng's mother see in the eye, the in the mind also worry. She really doesn't understand. What's wrong with this kid? She is really worried: Will Xiao Peng get any mental illness?
Yes, Xiao Peng does suffer from mental illness. According to the medical classification, he suffers from depression.
Nowadays, many people, especially teenagers, are addicted to online virtual life and are far away from reality. All their moods and mentality exist with the development of an imaginary world, that is, they are involuntarily controlled in a machine-made society.
Psychology believes that this is a psychedelic symptom caused by long-term suggestion and deep induction.
Xiao Peng indulged in the virtual world on the computer network, causing long-term hints to himself, which led to depression. The treatment of depression is a very difficult and troublesome process, which will be a lifelong problem, and some patients with depression will have suicidal tendencies, which will bring extremely bad influence to the family and society.
If there is a problem, ban the internet for three months.
Now is the period of great network development, and all kinds of online services will affect real life. So there is no way to fundamentally solve the problem of virtual control of people's thoughts on the internet. Only with the efforts and guidance from all walks of life can it be possible to avoid the formation of extreme network diseases like Xiao Peng.
If you find that children or friends around you have similar situations, please remind everyone to face up to reality. It is best to stop surfing the internet immediately and "ban the internet" for at least 3 months. If necessary, you should immediately go to the psychological clinic for help or have formal psychotherapy.