Respect: I like traveling and climbing mountains with my friends very much. . . But I won't go out during the Spring Festival because I want to stay with my husband. He is a traditional person and attaches great importance to these festivals. If I don't accompany him, he will be unhappy. No matter where I go, what I do, what I buy, basically something big, I will tell my husband to let him know and never keep it from him. There is only one exception: if you buy expensive clothes, just say it's cheaper and he won't care. . . This is also to make him happy.
My husband will call me if he doesn't come back for dinner at night, or if he comes back late. None of us will interfere with each other's freedom, but we will definitely let each other know what we are doing. Let him rest assured, let him feel safe.
Love: My husband often falls asleep watching TV on the sofa. I will cover him with clothes to prevent him from catching a cold. He had a sore throat, so I boiled him olive water, urged him to see a doctor early, and told him to take a bath and go to bed early. Always concerned about what he had for lunch. Then cook more vegetables for him, because his blood pressure is high and his diet is not balanced. He often has sore muscles, so I will give him a massage every chance I get. I'm pregnant now, and my husband almost does most of the housework, even buys food and cooks for me. . . . You know, I lost my job. I'm just a housewife. I don't want him to work too hard. He will call a part-time mop the floor and find a way to buy food himself.
Understand: When I dated my husband, he was not divorced. His ex-wife asked him for100000 alimony. He had no money, but he agreed and borrowed money from the bank. He didn't tell me to do these things. You didn't tell me until you did. I didn't say anything, because this is between them, so I can't express my opinion. Later, his ex-wife was a hooligan and refused to divorce, saying that she would have to wait a few years, and he helped her. I know that he is a very emotional person. Although he is very helpless, I accepted it. I love someone, and I am willing to wait for him, no matter how long. We lived together for the third year before they signed a divorce. Since I chose him, I will accept these things. As his confidant and lover, I can understand what he has done. He can understand most of the things I do.
Communication: My husband and I basically talk about everything. When we eat together every day, we will chat about what happened today, what we did, what we realized, and who we dreamed of at night. . . . Our conversation is always harmonious, and sometimes we joke. We are really happy and harmonious together. Because we communicate with each other without reservation, we know each other well and trust each other more and more. Even if someone seduces me, I will tell him.
Tolerance: I have bad hobbies with him. I like to fart everywhere. He likes smoking. . . Sometimes I go home drunk, undress at home and go crazy, just like a child. . . . These are small things, but we find them very interesting.
Trust: Needless to say, with the deepening of communication, we know more about each other and have more and more trust and goodwill with each other. . . . . We are really happy.