Writing a letter to a child who is tired of learning is self-reflection, that is, checking whether his words and deeds meet the moral requirements. As a student, he asked himself whether his words and deeds conformed to the Code of Conduct for Primary and Secondary School Students and the Code of Daily Conduct for Middle School Students. As the son of a man and a woman, do you still have your pure kindness and poor filial piety as much as you can-
When you are drinking, chewing gum and listening to MP3, have you ever thought that your parents are eating humble meals, working in the scorching sun, harvesting in the autumn wind, sweating all over their faces?
When you fight at school, play truant, and go to Internet cafes, do you feel sorry for your parents' disappointment, sad tears, helpless words, and despair of hating iron?
Do you know that your parents still love you when you are scolded or even scolded for spending money on credit everywhere? Have you ever felt a little guilty when you want to stay away from your parents?
When you don't feel at ease listening to lectures, looking in the mirror, reading novels and writing love letters in class, do you still remember your parents' exhortation before going to school, and do you still remember your solemn promise to study hard?
When you think you are growing up, smoking and drinking to vent your inner anguish and self-destruct your future, have you ever thought about the difficulty of your parents raising you? Parents who are frail, cherish life, are healthy and study hard. This is the best reward for them at present!
Ask your heart?
Have you ever carefully observed and cared about your parents? Have you ever remembered their birthdays and given them sincere wishes? Did you beat his back, rub his shoulders, wash his feet and pour him water?
Although the night is deep, I will study with you. I will prepare breakfast for you before the starry sky in the morning, give you an umbrella in rainy days and a warm suit in the snow. Without you, I wish I had you. With you, you are his hope. I love you more than myself. These are your parents.
Students, it is your responsibility to love your parents and do your duty. Whispering softly, scrimping and saving, being positive and being kind to your parents are your filial piety. It is filial piety to make parents proud of having children like you.
If affection is a kind of depth, then friendship is a kind of breadth.
When you hit your classmate with an iron bar and a knife and saw him in pain and panic, do you still remember the warm friendship, the study under the common lamp, the caring and selfless help? Make friends with each other, why do you want to be close to each other? 、? What is the best thing in the world? How can you stand treating your classmates like this?
When you used various excuses to cover up that you didn't recite the text, didn't do exercises, were punished by the teacher, were dissatisfied, and even abused the teacher behind his back, did you feel a little uneasy and shouldn't? Being a lifelong teacher is no less than loving your father: ardent words, ardent hopes and meticulous care are better than your parents. Have you thought about this? Love you more than your own children. You should be glad to have such a teacher with you. A tree can't be successful without pruning, and people can't care. May your resentment now turn into gratitude in the future!
To love yourself is to love others. It is also a responsibility to respect teachers and respect education, and to be civilized and disciplined.
To be tolerant of yourself, you must understand others, cherish good thoughts, always be grateful, and always ask yourself every time you do something? Is my heart safe? It is my last hope and request for everyone.
A letter to a child who is tired of learning written by the class teacher in Grade Three and Grade Two.
Dear students:
This is a letter that should have been written long ago. In the face of the quiet passage of senior three, many students just
When winter is regarded as dormancy and backwardness is only regarded as the reason for depravity, I decided to write such words.
Two years, we insist, two years of wind and rain, we spent two years together, watching people come and go. Two years later, we entered senior three. I really want to spend my senior year with you easily, for our common college plot.
However, these lush years are not as beautiful as imagined. There are many disharmonious factors among them, which make me glare at you and show my grumpiness and helplessness in front of you. There are too many differences in the middle, which makes you have a little or even deeper hostility towards me and gives you a stage to be numb in front of me. Some people say that the most precious thing we pursue is harmony, but here it is often the opposite.
This is an era of individuality, and we hate this era. Do we hate it? Evil? Examination system, hate us, a province with thousands of troops but a wooden bridge in Ma Benteng. But we want to ask who is wrong?
Back to the reality of senior three, there are books, mountains, sea topics, midnight lights, chickens, endless ambitions, and more memories on the table on the wall? I remember many years ago, I read a parent's words: when a child goes to high school, it is like walking into a long dark tunnel: the students who walk into this tunnel have only one goal: the college entrance examination three years later. The college entrance examination day is like light, like fire, like a road sign, pointing and attracting all the students who enter the tunnel to the end of the tunnel! Think carefully, many students are used to the darkness of the tunnel, or? Accustomed to it? I can't see the light.
Think carefully behind the darkness, think carefully about the reason why heaven can't be seen when I look up at heaven in hell. Try to think about it. In the past high school days, many times your QQ was always accompanied by the bell after school, from gray to bright, always flashing in the silent night, but there were words you said that you might not remember when you woke up; Many times, you are at a loss. Looking at the stranger outside the window, I fell into inexplicable melancholy. You are so beautiful and powerful in your reverie. Looking at the sunset in the west, you remember that you missed a sunrise that woke you up. Many times, you habitually walk into an Internet cafe, habitually enter your account number and password, habitually fight in online games, seek the pleasure of success in illusion, wake up by the bell in the morning, and return to this reality that makes you helpless. At this time, you should think about whether reality makes you helpless or you make reality helpless. Many times you think of him (her) in your heart, her hair fluttering with the wind, his passion flying on the court, and quietly press the phone just to say: I miss you? I forgot to miss my parents who work outside. It's just that my parents keep this idea in their hearts for fear of delaying your study.
The days passed quietly like this. Do you want to make fun of it? Youth is like toilet paper. It's not enough to use it alone. ? When you start looking up at yourself and your youth, you suddenly find that the math teacher doesn't know when to change her hairstyle. It suddenly occurred to me that I haven't looked up in class for a long time, realistic or inner. Think that I haven't picked up a dusty textbook for a long time, think about the question I asked the teacher last time, think about the electronic dictionary my parents bought for me to play games with that classmate, think that I can't remember what to write in every exam, and think about the vague outline of the college entrance examination in front of me. I am getting closer and closer to it. At this time, don't just find out if you have fallen. There is no point in arguing and thinking, let alone complaining that you don't understand in class. It was not built in a day. Don't say that the teacher doesn't care, maybe you chose to walk away when the teacher cares; Don't complain that you are not interested in politics, and politics is not interested in you; Don't complain about the poor school, many people miss the beauty of their alma mater every year; Don't complain, don't complain, depravity needs no reason, excuses can only make you a buffoon and bring no happiness to people around you.
I hope, I hope, I long for, I expect you, my students, my children, my brothers and sisters, don't wait any longer, there will be no pies in the sky, even if there are pies in the sky, there must be traps on the ground. Stand up from today and study with dignity from today. Even asking naive questions at first is the beginning of awakening; Even if you can only understand the examples in the textbook, it is also the enlightenment of reviving knowledge; Even if it is simply a phone call to both parents, it is also a good deed to awaken conscience; Even if you just face the classroom with a smile, it will be a surprise for your classmates and teachers. Even if you give up a little unrealistic fantasy, you are approaching reality and ideal. Speaking of which, there is nothing you can't do. I didn't think of it myself.
Finally, I wish the students all the efforts and gains, and it is worthwhile to be tired again.
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A letter to a child who is tired of learning 3. Unfortunate students who are tired of learning:
How have you been recently?
I am also a middle school student. I'm sorry to hear that you are tired of studying. I am not a doctor, but I am instructed by your parents, so I will give you some advice. Confucius said:? Isn't it a pleasant thing to persevere and work hard? Never too old to learn? Haha, well, no kidding, come on, cut to the chase!
First of all, I'll tell you a short story about Yilin: In the middle of the night, the mouse leader led the little mice out for food, and they found a lot of leftovers in a family's kitchen. Just as the mice were about to have a big meal, suddenly there came the cry of a big cat. The mice ran for their lives, and the big cat ran after them and caught two little mice. When the big cat wanted to enjoy a good meal, suddenly a dog barked. The big cat was at a loss and ran for her life. At this time, the mouse leader came out of the corner and said proudly, thanks to learning another language, I saved your lives. ?
How's it going? Facts have proved that learning is beneficial! Even animals know the truth, I don't think you will understand it!
I used to hate learning, but now I find it interesting, so I think the reason why you don't like learning is that you haven't found a way to learn and grasped the key to knowledge. There is a saying in Liu Xiang's Shuo Yuan:? Less and eager to learn, such as the rising sun; Strong and eager to learn, such as the light of Japan and China; Being old and eager to learn is like holding a candle. ? There are active and passive learning, and active learning is effective.
Peking University Mathematics Department is one of the places where top mathematicians are concentrated in China. After entering Peking University, Zhang Guanghou scored only two points in the first mathematical analysis exam. From this, Zhang Guanghou realized that there is still a long way to go. If you want to be first-class, you must strive to catch up. He himself stipulated that the time for studying calculus every day was 12 hours. After half a year's hard work, he did 3000 problems instead of mathematical analysis problem sets, which reversed the passive situation.
As long as you learn to study actively, race against time, preview the text in time and compete with your classmates like Zhang Guanghou, you will feel that learning is just another way of entertainment! Slowly, you will find that you are deeply infatuated with it and begin to enjoy it.
Finally, classmates, we are in the flower season of life journey, classmates and teenagers, in full bloom. In a learning society where the whole people study and study for life, we should set high aspirations, cherish the opportunity of studying at school, consciously fulfill the obligation of receiving education, harvest the fruits of success with diligence and wisdom, make our life shine and make contributions to the prosperity and strength of the motherland. Wish you all the best.
Love learning! Go up every day!
A letter to a child who is tired of learning has four leaves:
My good boy! I hope you can listen to your father. Learning is your important task. You should study hard, from now on, because an effort now will yield several times or even dozens of times in the future. Nowadays, the society is complex and the competition is fierce, so it is difficult to handle interpersonal relationships well. If you want to learn to deal with interpersonal relationships, you must get along well with your father. Dad won't hurt you. Parents all over the world want their children to make a difference. When you grow up, it will be too late for you to understand. I am training you now in the hope that you will be successful in the future, not be bullied and make contributions to society. You should understand this, right? Don't worry about the study fee. Wouldn't I be very happy if I could save some money on my study and reduce your study cost? But these are not what you think. What you want is to have a good exercise and study hard. Family economy is my father's responsibility and task. You have to finish your task, and dad will try his best to finish his own task and do your logistics well. If a person does not have a skill, it is difficult for him to live a rich life in society in the future. Even if he has a stable job in the future, he will study as often and take exams as his father. This is never too old to learn. The so-called reason is that you are growing up. Dad is very strict with you on the matter of principle. I hope you can be sensible and understand the hardships of being a father.
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A letter to a child who is tired of learning;
Read the letter!
You have worked hard! However, your performance this morning may be because you touched your parents? Children are tired of learning? Psychological bottom line, so everyone is very angry and angry with you. Never mind, maybe one day you will understand your parents' good intentions.
You should be a little man now, so dad will talk to you today? Responsibility? This word. What is responsibility? Responsibility is a person's mission and obligation to society, family and himself at different stages and periods of life.
Dad conveniently gave several examples: urban sanitation workers get up at three o'clock every day to clean the road, and they also have to clean the road when the traffic is sparse. In fact, they were not urged to get up so early and dragged into the street, but endured suffering day after day and year after year. Hospital doctors and nurses are on duty at night, black and white upside down, groggy. Look at a group of people around my grandmother's house who are about my father's age. They all left their homes without food and shelter. They rushed to the north and south construction sites, sweating like a pig. Don't they want to stay at home and have a big meal in bed in the morning? There are also business owners in the central market, teachers who make breakfast, and teachers in your experimental middle school? Don't they want to go to bed earlier and get up later than others? Because of the different social division of labor, they are diligent and hard-working, engaged in different industries and occupations, and bear different obligations to the society, but at the same time they have a heavier responsibility to support their families and the young and the old!
You are still young, and it is still too early for you to support your family and serve the society. What is your duty now? Taking care of housework and business? No, no, only? Study? ! Learning is your only responsibility and obligation at this stage. But then again, it is not your obligation to study hard.
You are less than 14 years old. Legally speaking, you are still a minor. Your parents are your legal guardians and are responsible for everything you do. The compulsory education law also stipulates the rigid requirement of nine-year compulsory education, so you have no choice but to finish junior high school as scheduled. Otherwise, parents may also bear certain responsibilities. As for after graduating from junior high school, you can choose your own path. However, before you are 20 years old, your parents must do a good job of guiding you to concentrate on your studies. Otherwise, 20 years later, when you have to pack your bags and go away to work in a foreign land to support your family after the eighth day of every year, your parents will not be able to face your strange grievances.
My parents were born at the gate of the farm and studied hard at the cold window. Although it is not successful now, life and work are stable and regular, and life in a small town is more than enough. Now the responsibility of parents is: for the family, it is to make you healthy and help you grow up. Four grandparents are healthy and enjoy their old age. For work, it is to be conscientious and maintain a good reputation among colleagues.
Since your responsibility at this stage is to study, let me talk about my understanding of learning attitude. As the saying goes, attitude determines everything. Correct learning attitude is the premise of learning knowledge well. You can vent your anger and pressure for a while, but what is more important is how to resolve and transform it, instead of letting it spread and lose your mind. Because, if you let resentment fill all of you, you have gradually lost all motivation and your study will go from bad to worse.
If you accumulate resentment against learning day after day and can't resolve it, then in dad's view, you are a coward, a coward crushed by the pressure of learning, and not a man's due responsibility. Everyone with normal thinking in society lives in a world full of pressure. For example, the owner of a small restaurant innovates recipes with the aim of retaining guests, enabling him to support his family and make his family live a rich life. Businessmen who are as rich as their enemies also face competitors. They should update their business ideas and products so as not to be overwhelmed by their competitors. From the president to the people, they all live in a kind of pressure, but the sources of pressure are different and the pressure is different. The president has domestic and foreign troubles, and the people have economic pressure.
Take parents, civil servants and teachers are also under pressure, such as the pressure of promotion in their posts and ranks, the pressure of improving their quality of life and so on. Take work as an example, just don't want to fall behind, be a man in your own field, and don't let your colleagues scoff? This man knows nothing about business. Is he fooling around? . Although these evaluations are not crucial and people don't live for it, they are also a kind of social recognition and personal value recognition for a person with complete thoughts. That is to say, one's value responsibility to oneself is that people are alive? Face? .
As the saying goes: water does not rise without pressure, and people do not rise without pressure. Where there is thinking, there is comparison, and there is comparison, there is motivation for progress. How to face the study pressure correctly, relieve the pressure and turn it into motivation needs a process. Mom and dad keep telling you? Do your best, okay? This will not only help you to relieve stress correctly, but also help you to establish a correct attitude towards life. To put it bluntly, it is the outlook on life and the world.
People should not be decadent, once decadent, hopeless, it will plunge into a thousand miles. Up to now, my parents are still very pleased that you have basically developed a good sense of learning, which is a reward for your parents for more than ten years. In the face of the physiological and psychological fluctuations in adolescence, you should abandon even temporary distractions, adjust yourself as soon as possible, believe in yourself, stand up, bravely provoke different responsibilities at each growth stage, and be an upright person!