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In late autumn, the sky is crisp.

At this time, I believe many families will go to the wild to start their autumn outing ~

The same is true of the family in the picture. Look at the back, they are dressed simply and look no different from ordinary people.

But can you imagine that this seemingly ordinary and simple mother is actually a big star shining brightly on the stage?

Yes, the woman in the photo is Li Yingai, the national goddess of Korea.

The camera captures her staying away from the spotlight, loving and accompanying her family, enjoying life and feeling the daily state of nature.

Who's Li Yingai? I believe everyone knows, right?

In 2003, a movie "Dae Jang Geum" was born and became an instant hit, which was called an "empty alley".

This Korean drama has attracted more than 3 billion people to watch, and it is still an unbreakable myth.

Li Yingai, the actor of "Xu Changjin", won the highest honor award of MBC acting by virtue of his beautiful appearance and superb acting skills, and quickly became popular in Asia!

How popular was Li Yingai then?

A Korean once described "the influence of Li Yingai on people's daily life":

You see, the products endorsed by her image cover all walks of life in Korea and even Asia, and her influence is so high that it is no exaggeration to say that she is a "walking billboard"!

However, you must not think of it ~

It is such a gold-sucking queen who lives a "peasant woman" in private, collecting grain in autumn, entering the cellar in winter and making wine in spring.

There is no ridiculously large cloakroom in her house, and there is no Hermes with walls.

She doesn't have a big-name demeanor, but more of a warm and soothing fireworks.

Many people say that "Li Yingai's inaction is the loss of Korean entertainment circle".

Indeed, Li Yingai looks dignified, without any traces of "affectation", and his acting skills are outstanding. He is a good actor by nature.

However, since she entered the marriage hall with her husband, Li Yingai has not appeared in the camera for many years, but has chosen to fade out of public view silently.

20 1 1 year, after Li Yingai gave birth to a pair of lovely twins, everyone thought that she would return to the entertainment circle and launch a sprint for the award.

But at this time, she made another amazing decision-

The family moved out of Seoul and moved to the outer suburbs of Gyeonggi Province.

The reason why Li Yingai chose this is actually very simple:

She hopes that her children will grow up in the Shan Ye of nature, believing that this will bring them a happy and carefree childhood.

So she and her husband spent more than 2 billion won to build a two-story building in the countryside and settled here with their parents and two children.

This house covers an area of about 350, with white walls and blue tiles and fresh style. Compared with the average luxury house of 500-600 square meters in Hanxing, it is not luxurious.

But it's simple and generous, with no "moat" decoration and ridiculously expensive furniture, but there is a warmth everywhere ~

Of course, the most important thing is that the environment here is excellent!

Surrounded by distant mountains and green trees, the unique natural conditions can be called natural oxygen bar.

Without the hustle and bustle of traffic, there is no need to worry about being disturbed by the outside world. Children can run around here, laugh and enjoy the beauty of nature.

Many people may know that Li Yingai's husband is a businessman.

So in everyone's eyes, she must live a "rich man" life with money and leisure ~

But if you think so, it's all wet ~!

Because of late marriage and late childbirth, Li Yingai subconsciously wants to give her children more love.

So in her family, not only is there no servant nanny, but everything has to be done by herself.

As a star, she can stand in the spotlight in fine clothes and heavy makeup.

But she has lost her glory. She cooks, grows vegetables and takes care of children, just like ordinary mothers ~

For example, she was photographed on the Korean website more than once to buy food in the market without makeup!

Look at her wearing cotton and linen, where is the scenery of a female star?

After leaving the stage, Li Yingai became a 7×24-hour housewife.

The most serious thing to learn every day is not the script book, but various recipes;

What I face most every day is not the camera, but the pots and pans in the kitchen.

Hmm ~ Look at this skillful posture and exquisite appearance. Does it taste like cooking in Dae Jang Geum? ~

In order to reassure her family, she even opened up a vegetable field in her yard, which was full of all kinds of seasonal vegetables.

From sowing, watering, fertilizing to harvesting, she did it all by herself, bowing her head in a busy state, completely like a hard-working "peasant woman" ~

Not only that, she also let the children participate and feel the joy of labor.

Two little guys, especially obedient and sensible, learned the truth of "self-reliance" early under the influence of their mothers.

As long as I have time, I will take the initiative to help my mother in the vegetable field, not to mention how capable I am ~

The fruit carefully cultivated by yourself will naturally taste not bad.

For Li Yingai, the most satisfying thing is to see his food being swallowed by two children. That feeling, not to mention a sense of accomplishment ~

After becoming a mother, Li Yingai once said:

"What I care about most now is my children. They only grow up once. If you miss it, you will definitely regret it in the future. "

So as long as things related to children, no matter how big or small, she covers them!

Can you imagine? The two children's hair grew up, and she actually cut it herself.

Worried that toiletries would cause children's skin inflammation, she spent two years developing a set of pure natural toiletries that children can use. How sweet!

In addition to meticulous care, she also attaches great importance to children's education.

Although the family is rich, Li Yingai has always told his children to know how to "cherish happiness", learn to save, know how to respect and know how to be grateful.

The two children who grew up in such an environment are naturally very sensible. Although I am young, I have no bad habit of arrogance at all ~

My son will help my mother with housework after finishing homework every day, and my daughter will help her with nail polish and accompany her quietly.

And every major traditional festival, they will solemnly put on Hanbok and give their mother a big gift, wishing her "eternal health".

Away from vanity fair, lost a lot of development opportunities. I believe many people will feel sorry for Li Yingai ~

But Li Yingai said: "Only by letting go can we have the happiness now."

Therefore, she chose to put it down temporarily and chose to live with her children all the year round.

In spring, they will go to the forest to feel the breeze, the gurgling green water and the birds and flowers.

In summer, they play, run, play and play with children in the yard.

When the temperature is just right in autumn, mother and son will go to the forest to pick up chestnuts with bamboo baskets, just for a recent autumn outing.

In winter, the world is covered with snow, so they take this opportunity to skate and have snowball fights in the yard. Even if the chill is fierce, it will be melted by laughter ~

So you see, even though she quit the film and television stage and missed many good works, she gained more room for development on the family stage.

She can grow vegetables in the garden, cook with her family, greet the children at the door after school every day and accompany them to grow up slowly.

I think, for herself, this is the greatest happiness ~

Seeing this, I believe some people will say, "Isn't it based on money?"

Indeed, such a day cannot be separated from a certain material foundation.

But the same rich people also married the giants, but some people chose arrogance and extravagance, and chose arrogance and extravagance.

Therefore, compared with them, I prefer Li Yingai's simple appearance of loving life and family wholeheartedly.

To some extent, I think Li Yingai lived out what a woman should look like.

Not because of fame, but because of the attitude towards life.

The attitude of being completely indifferent to the important things in life, the attitude of choosing what to do at the stage of what to do, and the attitude of daring to return to the original heart at the peak.

Her ideas about life and life are simple and firm:

"People without love are always lonely, even if people are crowded around them. People who have love wander around the world and walk through the snow, but they are never lonely. "

If a woman faces life with such a indifferent attitude and releases her care with a kind heart, then life will definitely return you the reward you deserve.

I think this is the real reason why Li Yingai can live more and more beautifully and transparently when he is nearly 50 years old.

"There is always love and hope in life. Even if you don't wear fancy clothes anymore, your expression will feel comfortable. This is the most beautiful look of a woman. "

This is the situation in Li Yingai, and so are you who want to read this article.

Finally, click "Look", I hope you can live the life you want, regardless of the age of the position ~

* Author: Miss Slow _Gloria, slow time columnist, atypical post-95 Sagittarius. I want to travel around the world with my camera, and I also want to take my dog to live in seclusion in the mountains. I like eating, playing and chatting. It's my pleasure that the words are liked by you.