How to make my husband love himself more? Up to now, I still feel that I am the number 1 in my husband's heart, and I don't want to think about it in the future. Share my experience with my friends: 1. Women should learn to be coquettish. Personally, I think coquetry is an internal skill that women must cultivate. Besides, coquetry should be divided into time, place, occasion and mood. When two people are happy, women can whisper. But when two people are in a bad mood, I usually bury my head in my husband's arms and listen to his heartbeat quietly. When my husband doesn't have time to talk to himself when playing computer games, women can harass him, hehe ... when playing games, he often sits on his lap or holds him in his arms. How interesting it is for everyone to play together ... 2. Women should give men dignity. This dignity includes being in front of friends and parents. In front of colleagues, in a small family of two people, even in terms of work ability. In front of my friends, I am a woman who listens to her husband's arrangement everywhere. All my friends think I am a good-natured wife (in fact, I am not). I remember my husband lost his temper in front of my friends. Most female friends might have retaliated at that time, but I didn't. I suffer silently. His friend's wife thinks I'm timid, but I'm not. Let him go down the steps first and calm himself down first. When only two people are left, tell him the truth. In this way, he will feel wronged, think that his wife really gives him face, and naturally want to defend his wife in front of friends. In front of his parents, we ate together, and almost all of them washed the dishes. On the one hand, his parents will feel sorry for his son, on the other hand, his husband will feel that his wife is considerate and virtuous. This dish washing also includes when we eat together at his grandmother's house. If I don't, my mother-in-law will. Although I don't want to do it, I still have to take the initiative to save face for my husband. I don't talk much in front of his colleagues, because he is the protagonist, but only his ornament. So I always listen quietly and smile slightly. If there are his single female colleagues, I will talk to them and deal with them well. I told him that he was the head of the family. Since he is the head of the family, it shows that he is strong and needs to take responsibility for the family, and I am willing to be weak (in fact, I am not weak). Personally, I will never belittle my husband, such as "incompetent, incompetent, unable to make money, unable to get promoted", because I look down on money. It is important that two people understand each other and support each other. I should give him more. Because they belittle your husband and you! 3. Women had better not be strong in life or work. So it is estimated that many friends will scold me after reading it. It's not too late to listen to my explanation before making comments. I support women to have their own jobs. To be strong in their jobs, they must do their best to do their own jobs. That's who I am. I can't say that my own work is excellent, but I want to remind my friends that you'd better not show off your achievements or beautiful things in your work in front of your husband after returning home. I believe your husband will be as happy as you. But at the same time, he will also have a deep sense of inferiority or urgency, so try to show off himself in front of him as little as possible. Make him feel like a pillar of his family. Actually, he doesn't know how good you are out there. Don't be brave in life. Don't do everything at home alone. When I hear many friends complain that my husband doesn't do housework at home, I should actually complain to myself, "Why do I do everything myself?" For example, mopping the floor is manual work, and I can let my husband do it, but he won't be coquettish, but don't lose your temper. I have a clear division of labor at home, such as repairing water pipes. It must be done by men. Sometimes the screw is loose, but I can actually tighten it, but I can do anything. What do you want my husband to do? I will remind you again and again, "Husband, the screw is loose ..." Hehe 4. Women can be ugly, but they must not dress up. People who face the same person or thing for a long time will have visual fatigue. It doesn't matter if you don't dress up before marriage, because we were all young at that time, and youth is capital. But not now, for fear of wrinkles. Besides, inappropriate clothes will make you look sloppy in the eyes of outsiders. So pay attention to collocation, color, shoes, bags, headdresses, especially the decoration on small things. If my husband and I go out to play ball, I can wear whatever I want, but I won't go out unless I dress formally in front of his colleagues. I usually don't wear makeup, but I will wear light makeup at this time. You know, the image of my wife in my husband's eyes often comes from. Why is the husband tired of aesthetics in marriage and turns his eyes to other beautiful and fashionable young women? I think at this point, a woman as a wife should reflect on herself. Married life is mostly unremarkable. After a long time, maybe no one will notice what the other party is wearing this morning. Since he doesn't pay attention, we must learn to make him pay attention! I usually ask my husband to help me match my clothes. Although he couldn't bear to part with it, he didn't even look up when playing computer and said, Yes, it's nice to be dressed like this! But my strategy is to spoil him and make him look up. As long as he takes a look, he is half successful. He sometimes says, why are you dressed like this? Go and change it! I tried on one dress after another until he nodded. Hehe, in fact, he was admiring himself when he helped him match. It is very likely that he will suddenly find his wife very beautiful! My husband usually matches it for me before going out. I think it's quite fun. Think about it, his wife is changing every day, and he can't cope. How can he have leisure to deal with other women? My husband just said to me, "It's busy enough to have a wife! 6. A woman should make her husband a little jealous. There are many ways to make him jealous: get together with her friends, wear some sexy clothes to go out, praise yourself with other people's words ... I have some friends and my own life circle. I will get together with friends from different circles, eat, sing K, have tea or go to bars to drink. But the bottom line for me to go home is 12 before midnight. But I'm still worried, especially when my wife goes out in her own clothes. But it's better to go out to play with friends who are familiar with you, and don't put messy feelings in it, so I don't want to have my own life circle and want to go out of the wall, hehehehehe ... It's equally important to praise myself by borrowing other people's words, praising my husband and praising myself! If you often praise him, he will think he is great, but don't forget to praise yourself properly when you go. For example, one of my male colleagues insisted on seeing the photos on my work card yesterday afternoon, and said that others said my photos were good-looking. After he saw it, he said it was really beautiful, and he also said that I thought * * * was really beautiful! Hehe, I'm very happy to hear that (by the way, I'm not a beauty anymore). When I got home, I told my husband about it at dinner, watching the changes in his face as I said it, and then asked him, "Husband, is your wife beautiful?" """not beautiful, why should I marry you? ! " Haha, I'm glad to hear that ... What do you want to say after all this? A woman should shift her nervousness about her husband and try to make him nervous. He worries about his wife every day. Do you have any other free time? 7. Women should surprise their husbands instead of expecting them. Women are often very emotional, as people often say, "women have love first, then sex." Actually, I think so, too. Therefore, women are more likely to be hurt or hurt by feelings than men. We all want our husbands to surprise us on birthdays, wedding anniversaries and Valentine's Day, so we just wait until the end. If he doesn't say anything, we can say. It is easy to make a phone call. If he forgets to say happy birthday to himself, he can say that you forgot my birthday at night, and I will punish you! "How to punish?" "Punish you for kissing me 10 minutes ..." Hehe! But remember never to put on a bad face. My husband hates it when I put on a bad face to face him. So now I've changed my strategy. 8. Women should cultivate their own men. The process of life between people is a running-in process. No one has to accommodate anyone, and no one has to obey anyone's statement. But many habits can be cultivated slowly. But it is particularly important to remember not to act too hastily and avoid rudeness. The right thing to do is like a trickle. In fact, I am not a woman with a particularly good temper, but my friends around me say that I have a good temper. I think it may be because I want to be gentle when I do things. Always remember Rouneng Ke Gang. Give two examples: I asked him to kiss me before going to bed. In fact, many men feel trouble, so does my husband, so he forgot, so I went over and kissed him good night. He sometimes feels bored. He still remembers this sentence of mine. In fact, what I want to tell him is "I'm not worried that he doesn't love me, but that I don't love him"! There are also many husbands who have one-night stands with women outside. I can't stop this. I just reminded my husband that when you go out to stay in a hotel, you must wear a T-shirt and shorts to sleep. It's too dirty, be careful. " I won't say anything about not looking for a woman. The beds in the hotel are so dirty, not to mention the women outside. Let him be psychologically clean and conservative in his actions. 9. Women can't always treat men as sons, but also need to let their husbands treat themselves as daughters. Maybe my husband is older than me, and I always act like a spoiled brat in front of him. He said I was a woman who couldn't live without coquetry. Sometimes he would joke, "Did you find a wife or have a daughter?" "In fact, men's childlike innocence, women's childlike innocence. A playful man is as childlike as a playful woman, so keep yourself childlike and curious about things around you, and you will find that the dispute between two people is also fun. Of course, don't say hurtful things when quarreling. Crazy with my husband. I think most men can play ball or like a certain sport. " Sometimes he is too lonely to play alone, so go with him at this time! I will play basketball with my husband and even grab the ball with him. Because I am not a professional player, I will abide by the rules of the court. When he wants to pitch, I will hug him and stop him from pitching, but remember to help him scream when he pitches. Let alone how proud he was at that time! Many things were written after I summarized them later. This is written here. Hehehehehe, in fact, life itself should be happy, but many times we always exaggerate the nature of things or the difficulty of solving problems. I am a simple woman, I like simple life, I prefer simple getting along with people around me, and I also like simple thinking about what has happened or is about to happen ... I hope everyone can live happily, do things happily and think happily. ...