1, find out the reason of the cold war.
If there is no quarrel for no reason, if there is no reason for the cold war, we will always stay in this cold war atmosphere. The longer we wait, the more serious the problem will be. Many times, the cold war is because the topic has been said many times, and both sides have not changed, so they will stop talking and turn into a cold war. I am a man who knows the cold war, because my boyfriend is a man who muddles along. He has no ambition and thinks it is almost enough, but how can life be like this? Obviously it's still a lot worse, so I won't change it. Being a monk every day is boring. I have told him many times, but he just can't change it. Every time I see him addicted to games, I get angry, but I am tired of the same problem myself, so I choose the cold war. My boyfriend doesn't know what he did wrong, and the more I think about it, the angrier I get. In the end, it often rises to the point of breaking up because of playing games. At this time, I should tell him again. I am angry and ask him to correct it.
2, the cold war began to file first.
People lose their minds when they are angry. Even if we know the problem, we are all hot-headed at this time and there is no way to come up with a good solution. Then we can learn from Sekitani Kamiki and Tang Youyou in ipartment. We will put this issue on hold first, and then pretend that this cold war never happened. When time passes, our mood will calm down. The next day or that night, we will discuss how to solve this problem.
what do you think?