Table manners of Shandong people
First, sit down. Shandong has been a country of etiquette since ancient times, and the distinction between host and guest, young and old on the wine table cannot be sloppy. On the wine table, the position of the door is usually the owner's or the owner's (that is, the person who pays the bill and treats the guests), sometimes dubbed as? Master Zhuang? .
In the position opposite him, the host came to entertain the guests together. Main guard? . The names of these two locations vary from place to place, but their meanings are similar.
If friends from other places don't know why, I'll tell you a simple method: just look at the folding method of napkins in cups on the table. The folding methods of napkins in these two positions are different. The host's napkin is usually folded into a cylinder and inserted into the cup. The host's napkin folded into a fan. Napkins are usually three-fold petal-shaped in their position. The layout of the whole napkin is a bit like a phoenix spreading its wings. When these two seats are reserved, other positions will be determined. Who sits on the host's left? Vip? What's on the right? Sabine? ; Correspondingly, who is next to the guest of honor on the left? Deputy main guard? Next to the second guest on the right? Second escort? , but called? Escort? A lot. The rest of the seats are reserved for guests and hosts. Who are these people on the wine table? No, three, no, four? The reason is that there is no one on the wine table? Sanbin? 、? Four escorts? The name of.
After the host and guests were seated, they began to pour wine. Shandong people like to drink, especially in big bowls. This seems to have the legacy of Liangshan heroes. Although there is no need for a big bowl or a small cup now. If you see Shandongese drinking with small glasses in San Qian in movies or TV series, it's not true. At present, the standard cups in Shandong Province are three-two-three-high cups (it is impossible to prove who is the first to be popular, but a bottle of white wine can just pour three cups). Wine is generally white wine, and the degree is generally around 38 degrees (Shandong people don't like to drink high-alcohol very much). Of course, you can also drink beer, but it is generally converted according to the ratio of liquor and beer +0: 6.
After taking a seat, everyone fills such a cup first, which is called the front cup. It means to clean your own snow. This glass of wine is a must for everyone present. Not drinking is disrespectful to the host or the host. Of course, the host will lead everyone to drink this first glass of wine. Generally, the host should have an opening speech, be polite and then set a standard. In other words, this glass of wine should be finished several times. It used to be six times, called? Liushun? , more popular recently? Seven times? , which is the main band? Four times? Deputy lead accompaniment? Three times? , or the main accompany, deputy main accompany each belt? Three times? , accompanied by an accompanying person or a designated person? 1 time? , gather together enough? Seven times? ,? 7? Moral? Up? . ? Up? What does inclusion mean? Development and promotion? For good luck. In this way, under the leadership of the host, everyone can drink, eat and chat. This kind of wine usually doesn't touch the glass. Is it Shandong? Does clinking glasses count? . But you can order it on the table by raising your glass? Overcharged? . In restaurants, you can often hear the ping-pong of glasses hitting the table. A joke on the wine table? Beggars have a meeting .
When the host leads everyone to finish this cup, it's the host's turn to speak. It is also a ceremony, and it is also to lead everyone to drink a glass of wine. Under normal circumstances, two glasses of wine are more than half a catty, the host and guest are flushed, and the clouds are rising at their feet. At this time, the host announced that the ceremony was over and everyone could move freely. Note that this free activity doesn't really let you go out to sober up, but you can drink alone with anyone, you can drink more or less, and there is no limit. Generally, at this time, guests should thank their hosts for their hospitality. Generally, the first round is the guest and host, the second round is the guest and host, and so on. This period is the most active time on the wine table, which can bring the relationship between host and guest closer at once. But this time is often a headache. Because there is already half a catty of white wine at this time, there are still many tricks to persuade wine, which is particularly easy to get drunk.
Generally, Shandong people treat you, and there must be fish on the wine table. Does Shandong fish count? Big plate? What's the name on the wine table? Big ones? . Don't look at delicacies. Compared with fish, it can only be called. Side dishes? . It's not that Shandong people are rare for fish, but they are lucky. More than a year? All right. Generally, when fish is served, the fish head rushes to the guest to show respect for the guest. At this time, guests should drink fish head wine, and people who are facing the tail should drink fish tail wine. What is the general situation? Top three, bottom four? Then everyone eats fish together. The remaining fishbone is generally not removed. When the host asked them to take it away and cook a soup with them, he was actually saying: the party is almost over, it's time to end. What is the name of the soup made of fish bones? Fish soup? That is, fish bones and broken fish are added with soup and stewed with pepper vinegar. It's delicious. Friends who haven't drunk it can make it themselves and taste it. Delicious and not wasteful. The soup came, everyone drank the wine in the goblet and ate it, and then the feast was over.
Shandong people generally drink for a long time, except for some ceremonial banquets, which are controlled at about one hour. Generally, the banquet lasts more than three hours, while the gathering time between some close friends is longer.
Shandong customs and habits
December of the lunar calendar
On the 24th of the twelfth lunar month, the house is dusted and cleaned, which is the conventional cleaning day.
December of the lunar calendar
On the 25 th of the twelfth lunar month, push the mill to make tofu. Legend has it that the Jade Emperor will visit the lower world and eat tofu dregs to show his suffering.
December of the lunar calendar
On the 26th day of the twelfth lunar month, people can only eat meat in the annual festival.
December of the lunar calendar
On the 27 th of the twelfth lunar month, all the items needed for the Spring Festival are under purchase.
On the 28th of the twelfth lunar month, the bread was steamed. The ancients used mahogany as the wood to ward off evil spirits, and later it was replaced by red paper.
On the 29th of the twelfth lunar month, please go to the grave and ask your ancestors to make a big confession. Ancestor worship has a long history in China.
On New Year's Eve, I was two years old, and the five classes were divided into two days. At the end of the year, winter snow and winter snow melt, and it seems that a warm spring breeze blows in the warm palace.
On the first day of the Lunar New Year, the golden rooster announces the dawn. The younger generation pays New Year greetings to the elders, and the elders give lucky money to ward off evil spirits.
On the second day of the Lunar New Year, golden bark indicates the arrival of spring. Family members go to New Year's greetings, the host stays for dinner, and western families arrange banquets.
On the third day of the lunar new year, the fat pig arch. The son-in-law visits her father-in-law and daughter-in-law to return to her mother's house and presents even numbers.
On the fourth day of the fourth month of the lunar calendar, three sheep bloom in Thailand. Kitchen God wants to check the household registration, and welcomes the kitchen God Hui people.
On the fifth day of the Lunar New Year, it is spring in Niu Geng. Five roads lead to the god of wealth, east and west, north and south, and wealth is led by five roads.
On the sixth day of the sixth lunar month, the horse arrived. Drink and worship the street. Thousands of families are watching, and no one does not send the poor.
On the seventh day of the year, people live well. Spread pancakes and eat seven treasures, and live in peace.
On the eighth day of the eighth lunar month, release the blessings. On the day of the lower bound of the stars, build a small lamp to burn it, one inch of time and one inch of gold.
On the ninth day of the ninth lunar month, the Jade Emperor was born. Is the supreme god who rules the universe, and people will hold ceremonies to celebrate.
On the tenth day of the tenth lunar month, the stone is sacrificed to give thanks. One day, there will be land and houses for people and animals. Rice, wheat and rice are the birthplace.
On the eleventh day of the first month, the son-in-law was sacrificed. The oppressed women regard her as the protector of the disadvantaged women.
On the twelfth day of the first month, a light shed was set up. The Lantern Festival is coming, so we began to prepare for it.
On the thirteenth day of the first month, lights are lit under the stove. Since the 13th, all the alleys have been decorated with bamboo lanterns.
The fourteenth day of the first month, the birthday of the Queen of Waterfront, also known as? Mrs. sunchon? . Saving dystocia women is a fairy.
On the fifteenth day of the first month, the silkworm (God) shines at night. Judging the year's abundance and sorrow by observing the color, it evolved into the Lantern Festival.
On the fifteenth day of the first month, the silkworm (God) shines at night. Judging the year's abundance and sorrow by observing the color, it evolved into the Lantern Festival.