1, amount with gifts
In the wedding, the amount of gift money is a sensitive issue. Generally speaking, the number of gifts should be decided according to one's own economic ability and the relationship with new people. If you are a relative or a good friend, you can appropriately increase the amount of the gift to express your blessing and respect. If you are an ordinary friend or colleague, you can appropriately reduce the amount of gifts to show respect and friendship.
2, the way of the ceremony
In the wedding ceremony, the way of dowry also needs attention. Generally speaking, you can choose cash, gifts or red envelopes as a way to accompany gifts. If it is cash, you need to pay attention to the amount and method of gift money, and it is best to give it directly to the couple on the wedding day. If it is a gift, you need to pay attention to the quality and value of the gift, and it is best to choose a practical gift. If it is a red envelope, you need to pay attention to the amount and packaging of the red envelope. It is best to choose red packaging to express blessing and joy.
3, the time of the ceremony
In the wedding ceremony, the time of the ceremony also needs attention. Generally speaking, the time of accompanying ceremony should be on or before the wedding day. If it is before the wedding, you need to contact the couple in advance to determine the way and amount of the gift. If it is on the wedding day, you need to pay attention to the carrying and delivery of gifts, and it is best to give gifts after the wedding.
Matters needing attention in the ceremony:
1. Know the local customs: You should know the local cultural customs before the ceremony to avoid unnecessary troubles caused by ignorance.
2. Appropriate time: Choose an appropriate time with the ceremony to avoid conflicts with each other's happy or sad time.
3, the right amount: the amount given should be moderate, not too luxurious or shabby.
4. Sincere blessing: express sincere blessing when accompanying the ceremony, so that the other party can feel his mind.
5. Pay attention to the occasion: the ceremony should be held on an appropriate occasion to avoid the inconvenience or unwillingness of the other party.
6. Don't compare: Don't compare with the ceremony, and don't feel embarrassed or uneasy because others follow the ceremony more than yourself.
7. Don't send too personal items: Avoid sending too personal items, such as underwear and perfume, which will make the other person feel uncomfortable.
8. Don't send controversial items: You should avoid sending controversial items with gifts, such as those with political, religious, racial and other sensitive contents.
9. Don't send too expensive items: You should avoid sending too expensive items with gifts, which will make the other party feel stressed and uncomfortable.