I have such an example around me.

I have a colleague, Xiao Lei. After quarreling with her mother-in-law, she had nowhere to go and ran to her best friend's house.

At that time, she left with her child in her arms. As a result, she stayed at her best friend's house for a day and asked her to go home.

Why?

What happened when her best friend left her at home? Isn't this deliberately deepening family conflicts?

Reconciliation is the key.

So, the girlfriend asked her husband to drive, and the couple sent her home together.

After being sent home, the husband was at home, but refused to open the door. He thought his wife came back by herself, but she didn't.

When big Qi Li knocked at the door, he didn't open it. In front of everyone, he rubbed his sleepy eyes and said that he was sleeping just now. As for whether he is asleep, only he knows.

However, after his wife came home, the young couple didn't say much in front of their girlfriends. As for the mother-in-law, she is not at home. If it is at home, the scene must be quite embarrassing.

Xiao Lei belongs to the kind of person who is very picky about finding a partner before marriage, and finally marries someone casually when he gets old. Only after she got married did she find that her husband and mother-in-law were so outrageous.

My mother-in-law is very eccentric and often helps her husband bully herself together.

Especially after giving birth to a daughter, the mother-in-law who prefers sons to daughters is not pleasing to the eye and quarrels with her from time to time for trivial matters.

Until then, the two quarreled as a bee, and her mother-in-law slapped Xiao Lei.

Xiao Lei has been spoiled since childhood. She is spoiled by her parents.

For the first time in her life, she was beaten by her mother-in-law. How can she stand it?

However, it is also a helpless move for her to go to her best friend's house, because before that, she quarreled with her mother-in-law and went back to her family, either to make her parents angry or to worry about her all the time.

Xiao Lei is also very stubborn. She was angry and wanted to stay at home, but her husband never came to pick her up.

On the other hand, the husband told his mother-in-law not to spoil her. A few days later, she couldn't stand it and ran back.

In fact, the husband made an obvious mistake. His mistake was that he chose to take sides after the conflict between his wife and mother. You know, no matter which side he chooses, it is actually unwise.

In family relations, the role of the husband is particularly important. He is both his mother's son and his wife's husband. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is good or bad, all by yourself. If he handles it well, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will develop well. If not handled properly, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will be stiff, and even marriage will be greatly affected in the end. In reality, because of the rigid relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, there are not a few couples who eventually lead to divorce.

Therefore, when the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are in conflict, the husband should be coaxed on both sides. First, comfort her mother and tell her not to be angry with her daughter-in-law. If you are angry, your health is the most important; The second is to talk with his wife, convince people by reasoning, move people by emotion, let his wife put down her hostility to her mother-in-law, and let the family live in harmony without being seen as a joke by outsiders.

The daughter-in-law was hit in the face by her mother-in-law. Even if her mother-in-law is reasonable, she suddenly becomes unreasonable. No matter what the daughter-in-law has done wrong, it is wrong to hit people, let alone hit the face. People live with face, who wants face? As the saying goes, hitting people does not hit their faces, let alone her daughter-in-law.

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is very delicate. If you get along well, you may be closer than mother and daughter. If they don't get along well, both sides will point the finger at Maimang, and no one will give in to anyone.

In a family, the mother-in-law should not be too strong, and the daughter-in-law should accommodate her. Only by tolerating each other, understanding each other and taking a step back can the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law develop well.

A mother-in-law beats her daughter-in-law. If her husband is sensible, he should go to his parents' house and call his wife back. The husband went to invite his wife home, even if he didn't say he was sorry, he actually went with an attitude of making amends. When his wife came down the stairs, she usually followed her home. After all, she has to live in the future.

If the husband doesn't call for too long and the wife doesn't go home in anger, the marriage will definitely be affected for a long time.

The husband didn't call his wife home, which shows that he didn't put his wife in an important position in his heart. Since it doesn't hurt or love, even if my wife goes back and lives with such a man, there will always be bad feelings in my heart.

So the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law broke down, and the wife went back to her mother's house, and her husband said that she was all wet. He hurt his wife while dealing with family conflicts, which is undoubtedly the most stupid way.

I don't know if you think your husband's attitude is right or wrong after reading it.