My colleague got married a few years ago. At that time, she received a bride price of 1. 1 10,000, which means just in case. At that time, that sentence was very popular, which meant that this girl was very rare and precious, and she was selected from 10 thousand people.
In the past, there was a certain standard for bride price in our country, and there was a clear stipulation on how much money to give. Besides, we have to bring food, drinks and various gifts. These are all quantity requirements, not less than how many pieces, and we are also very particular about what gifts to bring.
Now people's living standards have improved, and the bride price has also increased a lot. Although many old rules have changed, the amount of bride price and things to bring are given to the woman according to personal family conditions. If the family is not too rich, give less. If the family is rich, give more, give more and give less, anyway.
Giving bride price is a tradition left over from thousands of years, but it is also understandable. After all, it is the precious daughter that the woman has kept at home for many years. The man married her through marriage, and then she moved in with someone else. You can't give nothing! Just follow someone else. This is also a form of walking. In fact, many women's parents gave the bride price money to their daughters. I'm afraid my daughter will be wronged there.
I am a girl who got married last year. My parents told me about the bride price. They said, "We don't want his bride price. We want to pay more attention to him. We won't feel less. " I think my parents are quite liberal. Unlike some parents, you don't need a lot of bride price. If you don't give it, let the other party sever contact with your daughter.
I have a classmate who got married in May this year. Her parents and her parents-in-law are very unhappy because of the bride price. Her husband's family is not very good. After their mother-in-law and father-in-law bought them a new house, they didn't have much money on hand. They have to get married. On the day of the bride price, they gave eleven thousand yuan. Her parents won't. They thought that others would send at least 28,000 yuan now. His family looks down on others, and I'm afraid their daughter will get married.
I think the bride price is indispensable, but there is no need to hurt the kindness of the two families because of the bride price.