The biggest expectation of a married woman is to be a good wife and mother. But thinking and doing are another matter. Then refer to the following 10 principle. It is not difficult for you to be spoiled by thousands of people.
Principle one: absolute gentleness.
It is said that heroes are sad, but there are many people in the world. God can't make every woman have the beauty of falling fish and geese, so if you are not beautiful, you must be gentle first. As an excellent wife, gentleness is of course the most important. When he came back from work, the gate had not yet entered. You have to hold his bag, point his slippers at him, then make him a cup of tea and peel an apple (preferably sliced). If he is in a good mood and wants to talk to you for a while, don't say, "Oh, dear, I want to wash clothes and cook. I'll talk to you later. " You should sit down quickly, communicate with him in a soft voice, listen to his "heroic deeds" and express your admiration; If he is in a bad mood and is furious with you, never say, "Hey, what are you yelling at? What can you do at home? " Have propaganda ability! "If you want to be a good wife, the most important thing at this time is to sit down with him and say piteously," Honey, don't be angry. Look who pissed off all our good-natured husbands. There must be something wrong with this man! "He again how angry, also can't be angry.
Who said that heroes are sad about beauty? In fact, a woman's gentle man is the most feared and favorite. He is tired, you hit him; He is in pain, you rub it for him; He is hot, you slap him; He is thirsty, you give him a glass of water; He smiled, you are happy; He is crying. You have to hold him in your arms like a child. In short, a gentle woman should think of her husband, take his joys and sorrows as her own, and then put her feelings aside for the time being! Imagine, if you are really soft to the bone, then your husband will not be with you, and you can't get rid of it!
Principle 2: Pay absolute attention to your image.
God didn't give you a beautiful face and a devil's figure, but he never let you spoil yourself at will. It is often seen that some married women don't pay attention to dress. She doesn't even wear a bra to work. When a curious person asked her, she looked surprised: "I am married, but I don't want to find a husband anymore." What's more, it is so convenient to go home and feed the children! "Such a woman is by no means a minority, thinking that if you marry your husband, you don't have to paint makeup for anyone. In fact, it is necessary and very necessary.
Which husband likes a wife who wears pajamas all over the world? It's really a shame to see some women even wear pajamas when they go shopping! What did you say?/Sorry? Women are born to dress themselves up, but they are also dressing up men's world. How can you fool this top priority just because you are married? A good wife should know how to wear light makeup and what clothes to wear on what occasions. It doesn't matter if you are not beautiful, but you must be solemn and decent! Ladies can't wear sneakers under skirts, high heels under sweatpants and stockings under stockings. You should pay attention to the "scenery" under the arm of the halter top. If you often spoil your husband's fun, tear him down and embarrass him, you will forget the reputation of a good wife and even your marriage will be popular.
Principle 3: absolutely raise your husband's stomach.
I don't know who came up with it: to manage your husband, you must first manage his stomach. There are far more "big sisters" who go to the vegetable market to buy food than "uncles". But let's not say whether this is true or philosophical. Just follow anyway. A good wife must never say shyly, "Honey, cook quickly, I'm starving!" " "In fact, many men are thinking: Why should I marry a wife? Didn't she cook and wash clothes for me? I just can't say it. Therefore, don't let your husband whisper in his heart for a few meals. Not worth it. You have to study the menu carefully and memorize the "300 kitchen tricks", what soup, what ingredients, how to match what dishes, and how much monosodium glutamate and salt to add. You have to practice again and again until the dishes you cook are almost ready for the CCTV Man-Han banquet. My husband naturally won't sneak into the restaurant and let you eat at home alone every day.
Principle 4: Never compare your husband with other people's husbands.
Men hate it when their wives always give themselves k rice and don't forget to compare other people's husbands with themselves. I can't stand my wife saying, "Look at you, what virtue! You know all about housework, and you are the most incompetent when your husband is tens of thousands a year! " If her husband can earn tens of thousands of dollars, she will say, "Alas! You only know Qian Qian's money, and her husband always takes her to play and walk. Have you been with me? " If it happens that her husband has been with her, she will say, "Oh, help me with some housework. I'm exhausted. You'd better know that sitting on the sofa watching TV, other people's husbands can be models, unlike you! " It seems that all men in the world are good, and this one around you is the worst. A good wife would never do that. She won't compare her husband with others. Even if there is, she will say, "whoever has the ability will do it, but as considerate as you are, you are the best, dear!" " "This contrast makes her husband feel very comfortable!
Principle 5: Never be too smart in front of your husband. Sometimes he would rather you were an idiot.
When a man feels that the woman around him is inferior to himself everywhere, he will have a great sense of accomplishment and feel that this woman is being conquered by his omniscience. Everyone knows that men like to conquer women. So, when he says there are only two kinds of people in the world, you must never say three. When he says that the capital of Britain is new york, you must never say that it is London. You should say with great admiration, "Ah, you know so much. I'm not sure about this! " Your computer system is broken, please ask him to repair it. Even if he can't, you don't need to fix it. You must give him more things that you can easily do and say, "honey, you are really great." Why can't I? "A really smart wife knows how to make herself stupid properly, and making her husband smart is your smartest move!
Principle 6: Be sure to let your husband dress appropriately, learn to trim the hem of trousers and sew buttons.
If my husband doesn't dress properly to go out, someone will say, "Hey, this guy is miserable. He has a lazy wife at home! " However, if my wife doesn't dress properly to go out, someone will definitely say, "Hey, this person is really lazy. Whoever marries her will be miserable! " Impossible, the world is so unfair! Therefore, before your husband goes out, you have to match his clothes, shirt with tie and trousers with coat. You have to iron his clothes one by one, make sure they are sharp and angular, and wash his white shirt as clean as before. Don't let the dirt on his collar ruin his charming demeanor, and don't forget to check whether his trousers are off the thread and the buttons are off from time to time. You have to do everything before he puts it on, so learn quickly if you can't finish it. I can't help it, being a good wife is not that easy!
Principle 7: Never yell at a lion, but put on the coat of "tigress".
A man's worst wife is a bitch. A good wife should pay special attention to this and never become a "tigress" carelessly. Husband is slow, you have to say, "What's wrong today? Are you in poor health? " It used to be fast! "Don't shout" You are useless, you have been holding things for a long time "; Husband sits still, you have to say, "Are you tired? Have a good rest! "Don't shout," you lazy pig, am I your servant or slave? "Don't get up and work?" You can't always go against your husband. Good men don't fight with women. How can a good woman fight with a man? Therefore, a good wife can't be yelled at by a lion. Well, it's better to be a man. Lions and tigers will be exempted. Otherwise, marriage will be in jeopardy. Think about it. Who wants to live with such a terrible animal, doesn't he?
Principle 8: Never "live Lei Feng" to your parents or "skin your husband's parents".
A good wife should know that her husband's parents are no less than her own. So be kind to his parents, that is, your in-laws. Don't always think about your parents. If there is anything delicious at home, take some and send some. This is obviously true, man, not raised by parents! Is this the key? Did you give these to your husband's parents, too? Even if your parents don't say anything, you can think about it anytime and anywhere, put yourself in their shoes with a kind of "Lei Feng" thought, and face their in-laws, with a little suspicion that they are too fierce; Eat a little, you blame them for being too greedy; A little roll their eyes: "won't you buy it yourself?" Old and immortal! "If you are such a person, then you are far from being a good wife. It is said that mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are difficult to get along with. Even if the two have some contradictions, you should remember that the man you love most is raised by them with shit and urine. Because of this, you should treat them like your own parents. You should also be grateful and say, "Dad, Mom, you have worked hard. Now it's time for us to raise you! "And if you really do this, you are a perfect wife, a super quasi' prospective wife'!
Principle 9: You must have a job of your own.
A woman should be an independent tree, and her husband is the big tree around you. If you don't have a job of your own, you will become a vine, tightly wrapped around him and attached to him to grow. Of course, he will like your attachment to him and linger with him, but over time, he will blame you for sucking his nourishment and stumbling his steps, and he will be anxious to let you leave and let him grow freely. Therefore, a good wife must know this. If you don't want your husband to get tired of you, you must have your own job. You must be independent and interdependent, so that your marriage will last.
Principle 10: Never have an affair.
These days, even if you don't go out of the wall, people lying on the wall waiting for an affair are everywhere. A good wife must be able to withstand such temptation. The most unbearable thing for a man is that his wife cuckolds him. So this is the most important of the ten principles. No matter how beautiful the scenery outside the wall is, kiss the grass in the yard. They are not beautiful, but aren't they more beautiful against your background? Besides, people who pick red apricots just pick them, smell them, play with them a few times and throw them away! Have you ever seen anyone who picks wild flowers and keeps them at home? Even if you do, you should throw it away in a few days. Then he will send you to the barren road, and you will regret it. Therefore, a good wife should look at your lawn, your yard, just look around. Not if she's off the wall!
Women play an important role in the happiness of a family. Good women always thrive, perhaps because women know how to be wives better.