0 1. The adopted son is not abused by his in-laws as outsiders imagine. Most people think that the adopted son-in-law has no family status, and only those with poor families will choose to find a good family to adopt. Xiao Li, who was born in the countryside, is a adopted son-in-law, and his wife was known when he was in college. At first, my mother-in-law didn't agree that her daughter was with the rural guy, thinking that he wouldn't have any future as a rural guy and his family couldn't give her happiness. Finally, I reluctantly agreed to this marriage when I was a door-to-door son-in-law, and after marriage, no outsiders thought that the door-to-door son-in-law would be treated inhumanely. The mother-in-law treated Xiao Li as if she were her own son, and even her own mother went to visit her enthusiastically. Cooking is considering that she is old and has a bad mouth, and she deliberately stews the meat for her mother. Because of this, cooking time is longer than before. Xiao Li once thought that her mother-in-law was playing for her mother, but when she entered the kitchen, she found herself thinking too much. It can be seen that not all mother-in-law have opinions on the door-to-door son-in-law, but there are also reasonable people.
02. However, the status of a married woman's family will always be the weak side, which will also make people look down on the status of a married woman's family being lower than others. At least in the woman's family, men are afraid to speak loudly to their wives. No matter how good the parents-in-law are to Xiao Li, they are always adopted by others, not their own children. Even children are not named after themselves, which is somewhat unacceptable to men under the traditional concept. Xiao Li's parents are even more opposed to him being a door-to-door son-in-law. If it weren't for him and his two brothers, both of whom were married, he would be hard to be adopted. The reasons why men don't like being adopted by their wives are: first, they are afraid of being wronged in the woman's home; second, they are also worried that their friends will look at them differently, and that the son-in-law who comes to the door will make people look down upon them. If that woman is not very rich, men generally don't choose the door-to-door son-in-law and can't get past this hurdle.
Most importantly, the son-in-law adopted by her mother-in-law is still treated unfairly. Although Xiao Li's mother-in-law is so kind to him, it's actually only a few people's situation. Most parents-in-law are not very friendly to their son-in-law. They know men who choose to marry their daughters. Character must be weak, otherwise you won't choose to give in to yourself. Even some mothers-in-law don't put their son-in-law on the table for dinner, but bring their own bowls to the hall every time they eat. Housework is also arranged by men. Don't think that being the son-in-law of a rich family is very happy. Their money has nothing to do with their son-in-law, but will only be used as a nanny. If you don't like a woman very much, you'd better not go so far. Adoption by adoption is not a good idea. If I were you, I would rather break up than be a door-to-door son-in-law If I really can't find a woman, I can only be a dink at most.