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People often say that a good man never fights with a woman, but not only did my husband beat a woman, but the woman was also his sister.
When Indian national treasure actor Aamir Khan talked about the topic of respecting the elders in an interview, he said: "We teach children to respect their elders. This is right, we must respect... If a person's If his behavior is incorrect, no matter how old he is, we cannot respect him, but blame him."
We respect the elders not for their age, but for their behavior. Similarly, if a good man doesn't fight with a woman, it's not because he respects her gender, but because of her behavior.
When Mingxiu first started dating her husband, she was most worried about not being able to handle the relationship with her mother-in-law because she felt that she was not good at expressing herself and was afraid of misunderstandings with her mother-in-law. But after dating her husband for a while, she discovered that her parents-in-law were very easy to get along with, but it was her eldest sister who gave her a special headache.
Young people like to stay up late, so they will naturally sleep in and stay in bed the next day. However, the parents-in-law never said anything, but the eldest aunt is different. Although she also likes to stay in bed, even though she is better than Mingxiu and the others. If you get up a few minutes early, you will make noises outside and dislike them for sleeping in.
Of course it was wrong to sleep in late, so even though the eldest aunt made noises to them every time, Mingxiu never criticized her in person. She felt that the eldest aunt was still the master of the family even though she was not married, so settling the matter should be the best choice.
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But not all problems can be settled. Your tolerance and tolerance towards her are just natural to her. Mingxiu thought that her tolerance would make her eldest aunt restrain herself, but it backfired. Instead of restraining her eldest aunt at all, she intensified her behavior. Later, even the normal love between the two at home would be ridiculed by her.
When Mingxiu was pregnant, her legs were extremely swollen, so every night after dinner, her husband would bring her hot water to soak her feet, and then let her lie on the sofa to squeeze her legs. But even with such normal concern between husband and wife, she also sourly sarcastically said, "Showing affection will kill you quickly."
When her husband couldn't help it, he would fight back, but the result was that his sister would fight back again, and the two of them would argue back and forth, which made Mingxiu extremely annoyed. Because she was pregnant, Mingxiu didn't want to conflict with her eldest aunt, so she basically kept silent when encountering such situations. Sometimes she couldn't bear it anymore, so she would take the opportunity to talk about her husband and give it to her eldest aunt. Bright ears.
Mingxiu really couldn't understand that there was an sister who "cursed" her own brother like this, but she couldn't say anything. Her only hope was to pray every day to get her eldest sister married as soon as possible.
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Perhaps Mingxiu’s prayers worked, and the eldest aunt finally got married. When she first got married, the atmosphere at home was extremely harmonious. Mingxiu felt as if her parents-in-law were several years younger.
Who knew that the good times would not last long? Less than half a year after getting married, my eldest sister came home crying and said she wanted a divorce. Seeing her crying and furious, everyone in the family looked at each other, wondering what happened to make her want a divorce after being married for less than half a year.
After she finally calmed down, everyone realized that she was having trouble with her mother-in-law. The eldest aunt’s mother-in-law’s family is an intellectual family, and their daily schedule is relatively regular. Everyone has to have breakfast together every day, not to mention I asked my eldest aunt to make breakfast for everyone early. Even if my mother-in-law gets up every day to make breakfast, she can't wake her up.
Later, her parents-in-law simply waited for her, and everyone stopped eating breakfast if she couldn't get up. Under this pressure, she reluctantly got up early for a few days, but in the end she couldn't stand what she thought was a relatively rigid life. I'm used to having a big fight with my mother-in-law. During the quarrel, she thought her husband didn't help her, so she started quarreling for a divorce.
Hearing this, everyone breathed a sigh of relief and began to do ideological work for her, because it was her fault in the first place. They advised her to go back and apologize to her mother-in-law, and then live a good life, but she would not listen to anything she said. , just look for a dead end: divorce.
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Seeing the stalemate, Mingxiu couldn’t persuade her, and it was obvious that her husband was impatient, so she quickly stepped forward to smooth things over and asked her husband to go out and buy some seafood. My aunt is in a bad mood, so I make her something delicious to comfort her.
Unexpectedly, when she worked so hard to prepare a large table of seafood and called her eldest sister to eat, she suddenly got angry for no reason and slapped her chopsticks on the table with a "pop" sound, hysterical He yelled: "Do you still have any humanity? I'm about to get divorced, and you still have the heart to eat so well?"
Mingxiu suddenly felt extremely embarrassed, because this was her own idea, so Said, "Sister, don't say that, isn't it good now?"
When the eldest sister heard Mingxiu speak, she stood up and said to her: "Don't be a cat and a mouse." Mercy, am I telling you before that now I’m getting divorced, are you happy? You’re happy, and I won’t divorce you if you’re happy!”
Her hoarse voice scared Mingxiu’s son into crying. , her husband finally couldn't bear it anymore and yelled at his sister: "Go back quickly, you are not welcome here!"
This sentence annoyed the eldest aunt, who picked up the plate and passed her. My brother threw it, and of course it didn't hit him, but the broken pieces of the plate cut Mingxiu's son's forehead.
Seeing that his son was injured, he pushed his sister and started fighting with her.
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The two were soon separated, but the matter was irreversible.
The eldest sister went back to her husband’s house crying, saying that she would never be friends with her parents’ family from now on, because she originally thought her parents’ home was a safe haven, but she didn’t expect that when she returned to her parents’ home, she was beaten by her own brother, not to mention saying goodbye. If a man doesn't fight with a woman anymore, he shouldn't be beaten just because he's the same as him.
In short, she was not as angry as when she came back, and she was crying and talking about going back to her husband's house. After her eldest aunt left, Mingxiu looked at her son's injury and didn't take it seriously.
Remembering what her eldest aunt had done, she suddenly wanted to laugh.