Yes, my mother and I are not mother and daughter, nor foster mothers and daughters, but former mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
It is said that mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are natural enemies and the most difficult relationship to get along with. However, between my mother and me, the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law does not exist at all.
I can only say: I met a good mother-in-law
①
I worked in a travel agency eight years ago, responsible for the reception and promotion in the early stage, and took a tour group when I was busy.
It was while traveling that I met my ex-husband Daming and his mother.
In summer, many people sign up to travel to the seaside. Most of them are lovers, and some families travel. Among these people, Daming and his mother are a little special.
To be honest, I still had a good impression on Daming at that time: my son didn't take his mother out to play much. Such a young man will definitely not blame another partner in the future.
It was 4: 30 pm when we set out, and it was already evening when we arrived at the hotel that day. We have arranged the guest room, and everyone is ready to go back to their rooms with their room cards, have a rest and then have dinner.
When I went up the stairs, I heard a woman shout, "Hurry up! Dally, block the people behind! "
I rushed over, and a female tourist was carrying several bags and holding a child in one hand, yelling at an elderly woman who was stuck on the stairs. I recognized this as a mother and daughter. The woman just divorced, came out to play, can't live without her mother, so she took it with her.
Mom's legs and feet are not very flexible, so it's a little hard to climb the stairs. Move slowly and block the people behind.
You can't yell at your mother in public!
I squeezed in to help the old lady. At the same time, the old lady's other arm was also pulled. It's Daming
At the same time, we helped the old lady up the stairs when we heard someone behind us say, "Let's not talk to the old man like this. We are old and our legs and feet are slow, so just wait, there is no hurry. " Come out to play, as long as everyone is happy, don't make a fuss, it's not worth it. If you have any difficulties, please let me know and we will try our best to help you. "I quietly look back. It was Daming's mother who persuaded the woman. The woman didn't speak, her eyes were red and she seemed to cry.
In the next few days, Daming and I got closer to the mother and daughter, consciously or unconsciously, and went up the mountain to get on the boat and lend a helping hand at any time. Women's emotions have also eased and stabilized.
Luckily, Daming helped me. I got seasick when I went out to sea by boat. Settle down the tourists, I really can't hold on, and I threw up on the side of the boat. Sailing, turning up white waves, jumping on the hull as if to jump. After vomiting, I sat down feebly along the boat, ignoring that the soil on the ground would stain my long skirt.
"Rinse your mouth and drink some water." A shadow covered me.
Opening his eyes, Daming squatted down and handed me a bottle of water in his hand.
"Thank you." I'm so embarrassed that I can't care about my image. After drinking water, my stomach is cold and I feel much more comfortable.
When getting off the boat, Daming helped me get off the boat first, then came back and carried the old lady down.
What a good man!
When I got back, I invited Daming to dinner in the name of thanks. He replied to the invitation. One to two, we're fine.
At first, I was worried that Daming's mother would despise me as a foreign girl. But Daming told me that when his mother was in a tour group, she praised me for being kind and capable.
Really! I was relieved at once.
②
Soon after dating Daming, we moved in together.
Going home with Daming and seeing Daming's mother again, my identity has changed, and I am a little embarrassed.
Daming's mother took my hand and said, "Xiaoyue, this is your home in the future." Go home and rest when you bring the group back, and I'll make you something to eat. " As I said, I took a red envelope from my pocket and stuffed it into my hand.
I refuse not to do so.
Daming smiled and said, "Take it and let mom rest assured."
I want to help in the kitchen. Daming's mother put me on the sofa: "Honey, your work is not light, just sit there and have a rest." You don't have to do it. "
Only the three of us ate, and Daming's mother cooked a table full of dishes.
Two people take turns to put food in my bowl. Aunt Daming kept telling her when eating fish: "Eat slowly, there are thorns, don't get stuck." It seems that I am a child who just learned to eat.
But it feels so good. In my own mother's place, I have never cared so much!
The warmth of this home really makes me long for it.
I finished washing in the bathroom, ready to go back to my room to sleep. Hardly had I reached the door when I heard two people talking in a low voice.
Aunt Daming said, "Your aunt's physical injury is a lifelong matter. If you are a man, you have to be responsible. "
"Oh, I see. You can rest assured! " Daming showed impatience.
Aunt Daming came out and saw me standing at the door. She was embarrassed and said, "Go to bed early."
My face was burning and I walked into the room. Daming saw my face flushed and asked me, "Mom didn't tell you anything else, did she?"
I shook my head.
"Say you also ignore! I am old and have many things to do. " Daming hugged me: "I don't know if it's my own mother. Let me not bully you." One hand, holding a box of condoms, "look, her son seems to be an irresponsible villain!" " "
"You are a bad guy." I am faintly angry.
"Good, then I'll show you the bad one." Daming ran to me with his teeth bared.
When I woke up the next day, it was already dawn.
Shit! This is not a good time and place for me to sleep in.
Daming was awakened by me and pulled me down. "Nothing, mom went out to exercise, and mom will be back soon."
I pushed his arm away, washed and dressed, and sat in the living room watching TV.
After a while, Aunt Daming came back with a lot of food. I was surprised to see me sitting in the living room: "Abortion, you don't have to get up early all the time. You young people stay up late, love to sleep late and sleep more. It's okay. "
Daming didn't get up until we had breakfast.
When he left, Daming's mother repeatedly told Daming, "Don't make abortion angry. It is not easy for her to go out alone. You are a man, you should know that you care about people and you should be responsible. "
Daming is impatient, but my heart is warm and moved.
③
Six months later, Daming and I got married.
I was pregnant soon, so I quit my job and stayed at home to give birth.
Every day my mother-in-law cooks good food for me and walks with me. There are a lot of dried fruits at home, which she bought with her pension. My mother-in-law also forced Daming to give me the salary card. Daming has a lot of complaints, but there is nothing he can do.
There are also two pregnant women in the community. We often talk about matters needing attention during pregnancy together, and also talk about some parents' shortcomings. They not only envy me having a good mother-in-law, but also agree that there are so many mothers of my own.
One of them, her mother-in-law said that she had diabetes and could not serve pregnant women. But there is no news of getting eggs and toilet paper for free. She runs faster than anyone else, and she is not tired of waiting in line two hours in advance. As soon as I get home, I feel painful and uncomfortable. Cooking is also the leftovers from a hot meal. I can fry a vegetarian dish at most. The daughter-in-law couldn't stand it anymore and bought cooked chicken and cooked meat. She eats more than anyone else and is not afraid of her high sugar. Kannika nimtragol said with anger.
Compared with this, I feel luckier. Call "mom" when you go home, which means I'm away from home, especially dear.
When the due date arrived, my mother-in-law was afraid of an accident and asked me to live in the hospital in advance. She sends me three meals a day.
Daming, too, ran to the hospital with me after work.
It may be that I supplemented too much nutrition during pregnancy, and the child was a little old and difficult to give birth. I can't stand the pain. See a doctor for laparotomy. The doctor looked at me lying on the delivery bed and said coldly, "Your fingers are already hurting enough, so just come out hard." If you pull another knife, you will suffer the same punishment. "
I was cruel, just as the doctor shouted "hard" and tried his best to give birth, I heard the doctor say, "Come out! Come out! " Hold it up for me: "Boys and girls?"
"Boy." I am very weak.
The child is lying on my body, with one eye open and one eye closed, wrinkled, long black hair and the same face as Daming.
The doctor gave me a bowl of sugar water and then brought in a lunch box.
"Don, your jiaozi, come and eat some, and I'll feed you."
Eating jiaozi brought tears to my eyes. I don't know why I cried.
After observation, go back to the ward. Out of the delivery room, the nurse gave the baby to Daming, who was at a loss. My mother-in-law turned to me in a wheelchair with her child in her arms. "My beauty, you have suffered."
After listening to my mother-in-law's words, my tears flowed down again.
Back to the ward, the atmosphere is wrong.
According to the neighbor's bed, a girl was born in the third bed. Her family didn't even send the meal to the delivery room, so she came back with an empty stomach. The three-bed mother-in-law only took one look at the child and left without hugging it.
I looked at my busy husband Daming, looked at my mother-in-law who lost a lot of weight with red eyes, and thought: If I were a girl, what would they do to me?
The answer is clear. Mother-in-law is a kind person by nature. Even if I have a girl, she will not let me go even if she is disappointed.
I made a side incision when I was born, and the wound was tight and painful. The doctor told me, "Wash it with potassium permanganate water every day." "
Every morning and evening, my mother-in-law mixed the water with a washbasin and let me lie in the hospital bed. She held a basin in one hand and washed my private parts in the other.
In the delivery room, I caught a glimpse of the private parts of the parturient, which were disinfected and painted purple, which was shocking. I don't know if I'm so ugly and scary. My mother-in-law was not surprised, but gently cleaned it for me, muttering, "Dear, what is this crime!" " I am so distressed. "Every time I finished cleaning, my mother-in-law said to Daming with a straight face," Take good care of abortion! " Daming is too busy to nod.
Under the care of my mother-in-law, I didn't feel anything for three days, and my actions were casual.
But three beds won't do. Her private parts still hurt for a week. When she gets out of bed, she will rub the floor sideways. If she accidentally touches it, she will grin and inhale.
In this world, how many mothers can do my mother-in-law step? My heart is full of gratitude.
④
With the help and care of her mother-in-law, her son is very strong. I'm three years old in an instant, and it's time to go to kindergarten.
In order to register, my mother-in-law moved to a small bench a few days in advance and lined up at the kindergarten gate day and night. I took her place, but she wouldn't let me. Drive Daming off work and change her for one night.
Holding the child in her arms to deliver food to her mother-in-law, watching her dare not move in the sun, sweating on her face with a small umbrella.
The child rushed to call "grandma", and her mother-in-law hugged her happily: "I hope my eldest grandson will enter the garden when I sign up!"
The mother-in-law took her son to eat in the shade of the tree. I sat on a small stool, and the hot air on the ground came to my face, which made people breathless for a while. It pains me to think of what my mother-in-law has suffered these days.
Finally signed up. My mother-in-law is tanned, thin and exhausted. She sleeps at home all day.
My son went to kindergarten. My mother-in-law and I finally have free time during the day.
Just a week later, my mother-in-law talked to me: "Abortion, I have an idea to discuss with you. My child is in kindergarten, and I am still strong and can pick up and drop off. Look, you don't care about anything. Find something to do. Forget it. Our family is not short of money. After all, you are still young. If you don't want to, even if I didn't say it. "
"Mom, look at what you said, I like you think, also want to find a job. You are exhausted. I want you to rest for a few more days. "
"Well, look for it quickly, don't go far, go home every day, the children can see you, and it doesn't matter if you have less money."
Soon, I found a cashier's job in a supermarket not far from home, and I went to work with peace of mind.
It's not easy to miss your mother-in-law's heart. During the Spring Festival, I bought her clothes and jewelry, and she showed off everyone.
Happiness flows in the dullness day after day, in three meals a day, in laughter and in the long years.
⑤
My son is six years old and has just entered the first grade. My plain happy life was broken.
Daming's position in the company is getting higher and higher, he has more and more social activities, goes home later and later, and travels more and more frequently.
I didn't think much. However, the quarrel between mother-in-law and Daming has increased.
I helped Daming persuade her mother-in-law: "Daming is under great pressure at work, so please understand." He said to Daming, "Go home early. The child misses you, and the mother is old. "
Daming snorted and left of cutting.
My mother-in-law looked at me for a long time and her face changed a few times. She didn't say anything and went back to the house.
A few days later, my mother-in-law suddenly announced that the rented house would not be rented back, and she was going to live in the past after renovation. And insisted on transferring the house we are living in to our grandson's name.
Grandma, what's the matter? I asked Daming. Daming irate, "can zha? Are you getting old? Toss. "
That's wrong! Mother-in-law is not like this!
I fell asleep in a daze.
I dreamed that Daming was holding a little girl, and I asked her who she was. Daming said, "This is my daughter. Call mom. " The girl called out "Mom" sweetly. When I woke up, my mouth was full of old blood.
Lying in bed, the room was dark and quiet. Only Daming turned his back on me and snored slightly.
Thinking about the dream just now, my chest is still holding my breath. I got up and lay on the bed, and a flash of lightning flashed in my mind.
Daming has a problem!
How could I be so stupid!
My mother-in-law has been asking Daming for money in front of me for months. I said, "I have Daming's salary card." I gave the money to my mother-in-law, who didn't want it. I know Daming has some extra income, and he wants to spend it on himself, but he never asks him for it. My mother-in-law asked Daming for money and didn't spend it. She gave it to me and told me to keep it. One thousand, two thousand, three thousand, five thousand, quite a lot. How much extra income does Daming have?
Mother-in-law always thinks that Daming travels too much and thinks that he ignores his family and children. Daming said, "And you!" My mother-in-law looked at me: "It's all our fault!"
My mother-in-law always asks me to buy clothes, saying that the skirt worn by someone downstairs looks good, and I will definitely look more beautiful in it. She also took the initiative to buy me a pair of high heels, which are very nice. I said, "After standing for a whole day, flat shoes are comfortable. I'll take a break before I wear it. " I took my son to the extracurricular class during the break, and I didn't wear it.
……
My mother-in-law, you sent me back to remind me, how stupid I am! If I hadn't transferred the house to your eldest grandson, I wouldn't have used my brain to think about why you did it!
I gently went down to the ground and took Daming's mobile phone. There was a combination lock inside.
This obviously locked his world and kept me out.
Feeling very confused, I put my mobile phone back in bed and lost sleep.
I can't figure out when the two men began to alienate each other, so that I didn't notice that he had changed. My heart sinks bit by bit and gets cold bit by bit.
⑥
The next day, Daming went to work and sent his son to kindergarten. I asked my mother-in-law, "Mom, is there anyone outside Daming?"
Mother-in-law panicked, her eyes dodged, and finally nodded.
I'm trying to breathe. Calm down!
Mother-in-law took me, "abortion, don't worry, I won't let others in! Daming dares to divorce, I don't recognize him as a son! "
I don't know what to say.
"I know it's not easy for you to stay away from your parents. I don't want you to be wronged and want to hurt a girl like you. Don't talk to me like that ... "
Mother-in-law is also married far away. It's a pity that she is not as lucky as me. She didn't meet a good mother-in-law. The first-born baby gave birth to a big sister, a girl. In the second month, my mother-in-law cooked and washed diapers herself, which led to rheumatism. It was not until Daming was born that his position was better. My mother-in-law's in-laws died one after another, and then my father-in-law fell in love with the opera girl, left his son and wife, and chased the troupe away, and there was no news.
My mother-in-law survived the difficult times. She loves me, a girl as far away as she is, and treats me well in every way, just like cherishing herself.
Men are hard-hearted, and no amount of warmth can cover them.
My mother-in-law can't come back to me, my son can't come back to me, and I can't get it back.
I have cried, quarreled and begged, all to no avail.
Daming has made up his mind!
Marriage is always divorce.
My mother-in-law went to live in a small room.
My son is mine. We live in this big house.
Daming lives in that woman's little house.
Later, Daming gave birth to a daughter
Although we don't live together anymore, we still take our son to see grandma. My mother-in-law often invites us to dinner.
My mother-in-law is old and her hair is mostly white. She touched her son's head and said to me, "Abortion, Daming has no conscience. You should find the right one. The days are long. " She added, "Our mother and I are destined for each other. You are not my wife, but I am still your mother. "
"Mom ..." Tears welled up in my eyes.
⑦
My partner and I took our son to my mother-in-law's house. My mother-in-law has cooked the meal. Seeing us coming, she kissed her eldest grandson and went down to the kitchen to cook.
I am busy bringing food and rice to the table.
Just as we were about to start eating, the doorbell rang.
Open the door, Daming's family is standing outside.
This is the first time I have met Daming's new wife. Younger than me, prettier than me, smart and provocative.
"Why are you here?" Grandma, look at me.
"The unit sent you two boxes of pears."
"Let's eat together." I pulled up two chairs and put on two pairs of chopsticks.
I picked up a full cup of drink: "I'll propose a toast to my mother first. You used to be my mother-in-law, and you will always be my mother! Thank you for your love for me for eight years! " I swallowed it.
Mother-in-law smiled with kindness in her wrinkles.
"The second cup wishes your family happiness and come to see your mother more often!" I turned to Mr. and Mrs. Daming and gulped it down.
The juice in Daming's cup is also dry. The child in the daughter-in-law's arms pulled her hand, and the cup in front of her fell and spilled a table of fruit. Daming quickly found something to wipe.
"The third cup, I wish myself farewell to yesterday and embrace a better tomorrow!"
I was about to drink when the object stopped me. "You will have me tomorrow! Together! "
"and me!" Our son picked up the cup and we drank it all at once!
My dear mother-in-law, no, my mother, with her understanding, tolerance and sincerity, warmly cares for my past and illuminates my future. ...
Although I am no longer your daughter-in-law, we are still a family, and I will call you "mom" for life!