When a couple reaches the point where they have nothing to say, it does not mean they have reached the end.

(1) In real life, there are many couples who have nothing to say. It may be because neither spouse likes to talk, or it may be that neither spouse is good at communication or expression; As long as both husband and wife feel that their life is comfortable, peaceful and full of happiness, this kind of life is suitable for them. Pioneer parents are such people.

I often watch the video of Pioneer returning to the village. His parents seldom talk every day and are busy with their own affairs. His father seems to have endless work to do every day, chopping firewood, planting vegetables, and picking vegetables. etc.

Pioneer’s family has planted a lot of vegetable gardens, and they can pick whatever they want. What they eat is pure green food. The green home is filled with the simple life of Pioneer’s parents and their love for their family and relatives.

Pioneer's father seldom speaks every day and is silent when eating. Every time I see him eating, I can feel the satisfaction and love for life in his heart.

He doesn't like to talk, but he does a lot silently. Sometimes he lights a fire for his pioneer mother, sometimes he goes up the mountain to cut firewood, and sometimes he chops firewood in the yard. The yard is kept clean by him and is used for food at home. , are all the fruits of their labor. In simple life, happiness is everywhere.

Pioneer’s mother does housework at home every day. She can cook delicious meals. She is rarely seen talking in the video. She is almost always silently picking, cooking, and cooking fresh vegetables. Through her hands, it became a delicacy on the family table.

Seeing them eating sweetly, I can feel the beauty of life, and happiness lies in their three meals a day.

They have a simple nostalgia, friendly smiles, green vegetable gardens, and fresh vegetables. Although their lives are simple, they are filled with endless warmth.

(2) There are also many couples who have nothing to say because of other reasons. It’s not that they have nothing to say, but they are unwilling to say it, or they don’t want to say it. Their feelings are very weak, and they have no ability to communicate, communicate, or talk. Desire, it can only be said that there is something wrong with their relationship, but it cannot be said that they have reached the end.

(3) Some couples have major problems in their marriages. Because they are so sad, painful, and disappointed that they have nothing to say, their relationship is on the verge of being broken and their marriage has come to an end.

(4) What should we do?

1. Find the reason why you have nothing to say

If you used to have something to say but now you have nothing to say, there must be a reason. Prescribe the right medicine to the disease, and the medicine will cure the disease. Only by finding The reason why you have nothing to say can break the deadlock.

2. Find a way to solve the problem

There are many ways to solve the problem. If you find the method that suits you, you can quickly ease the conflicts between husband and wife, or get back together. .

Solving problems still requires communication, and one person needs to let go of the estrangement in his heart and take the initiative to reconcile with the other party; couples should not have the idea of ????losing face. Harmony between husband and wife and emotional harmony are the king.

3. Couples re-cultivate their relationship

If there is a problem in the relationship between husband and wife, if there is nothing to say, they must let go of everything in the past and start over.

The past has become the past forever. What we are facing is every new today. We should greet the new day and new life with a relaxed and happy attitude, so that the relationship between husband and wife can grow with each passing day in a bright smile. , can make life better.

Nietzsche said: Every day without dancing is a failure of life.

Life is short. Spend every day happily to live up to your precious life and your short life.

(5) Conclusion

It can be seen from this that when a couple reaches the point where they have nothing to say, it does not mean that the marriage has come to an end. Specific issues must be analyzed in detail, and one key can open a lock. , only by finding a way to solve the problem can the current situation of couples having nothing to say be solved smoothly.