Feelings are two-way. Sometimes you have to think about whether you have done something wrong, instead of attacking your boyfriend when you are wronged. In this way, not only will you not get the ideal growth, but you will gradually become an dissatisfied wife, and the loss will outweigh the gain.
Emotional happiness lies not in what you get, but in the feelings and understanding, companionship and mutual understanding that both sides give each other, rather than one strong and one weak, understand?
Trying to make your boyfriend sad is a negative behavior to interpersonal communication. Your anger only shows that you are too tolerant, or you don't know how to think rationally. You only know the emotional thinking of children and feel wronged. Your boyfriend is wrong, which makes you look childish.
So don't think about how to piss off your boyfriend, think about whether you have any problems.