No, he may have to work and socialize and it’s not convenient to take you out, or he may think that hot pot is not to your taste and is afraid that you won’t like it so he didn’t ask you... When it comes to dad, everyone is It is said that a father's love is as strong as a mountain. In fact, every father loves his children. They work hard for their children and strive to create excellent growth conditions for their children.

Ever since I can remember, he has never expressed that he loves me. He always forces me to do things I don’t like to do every day. Every time I don’t like it, he uses violence, punches and kicks. Whenever this happens, At that time, I was afraid and hated, trembling, and finally had to listen to him. He scolded me every day for being stupid, doing stupid things all day long, and being cowardly. Not to mention that he was his son. I was in such a living environment all day long. Neither is happy. But thinking about it carefully, I didn't ask him the reasons for many things, and I was unwilling to communicate with him properly, which led me to think that anything he did was a sign that he didn't love me.

He forces me to listen to him at home, and blames me for being useless outside and always being bullied by children. It’s because I’m used to giving in when he’s here, and he asks me to be patient, which makes me anxious. I have no self-confidence and have no interest in doing anything. I have no friends and don’t know how to get along with them. I am very lonely. However, when I can’t solve the problem, he is always very patient, which makes me wonder again. Later I gradually understood that my father actually loved me.

In fact, every father feels that he loves his children. They work hard for their children and strive to create excellent growth conditions for their children. But children often don’t realize their father’s love. The only thing we know is that dad is always busy and he doesn’t take me to eat. Although he doesn’t take me to social events, even if he has delicious food, he packs it up and brings it to me. What we need to do is to fully understand our father, calm ourselves down, and then slowly communicate with him.