I am a girl from Hudian, Pingqiao, Xinyang, and I married a foreigner. My parents want nothing. My family is in the countryside, and our custom there is to find a matchmaker to tell the woman's family what to do. It will be much more convenient to hold a wedding at your place. Take the woman's parents there to meet you, and they won't say anything. Then they will set a few tables in the woman's house, and you will also punch the old man in the face. This is a new practice. We don't have this rule there, but my parents do it for us, and my parents are very happy. You can give the bride price directly to the woman, because your family is from other places and they won't bring you any bride price. They may give your wife money to take back to the man, because people there are more face-saving, and if you are kind to them, they will not let their daughter hold her head up in the man's place. You can talk to her parents directly, think more about the elderly, don't think about how much you have paid, think about how good you are to them and their daughter, and they won't embarrass you. Show more in the woman's house and do more things for your wife, so that her parents will be proud of finding a good son-in-law when they see the old man. There was no need to say anything at that time. Talk to your wife more. You can still ask questions. I'll pay attention.