For example, Zhong He's "shared marriage" is young, but he doesn't want to talk nonsense at home. I am keen on raising fish, and Zhong likes to chase dramas. Zhong wants to chat with her husband, but says that she has no time.
For example, as a stay-at-home wife, Gu Jia goes to the lobby and the kitchen. In order to get her son into a good kindergarten, she did not hesitate to ask for help. In order to help her husband save a big client, she drank three glasses of white wine without hesitation. When she saw her son being bullied, she went forward and hit Mu Zi's mother.
Wang Manni's dedication and hard work in luxury stores also revealed a 30-year-old woman's attitude of competing with life.
These problems can attract our attention because we can see these heroines everywhere in the play, and they have a strong sense of substitution and are easy to resonate.
There is also a question close to reality, that is, what kind of distance or boundary should parents and children keep?
As the father or mother of the husband and wife in marriage, is it necessary to "draw a line" with the children and give them a completely free space?
In the third episode of Thirty without Nothing, Chen Yu came home from work and found someone in the house. The house is in good order and the food is already on the table. He looked unhappy and looked for his mother-in-law in the room. He called "Mom" several times and found that her mother-in-law was not at home.
At this time, I also came back.
When Zhong saw her husband, he said happily, "Husband, are you back? How can you be faster than me? " Chen Yu said unhappily, "neither of us runs as fast as your mother!" "
"Can you talk it over with your mother and ask her not to come alone while we are away? When she comes, she will go back to the house to cook, and no one can afford to raise a snail mother-in-law. "
When Zhong heard that her husband didn't want his mother to go home, he quickly said, "I told you, she changed from four times a week to twice a week." She's afraid we order takeout unhealthy ... "
It's embarrassing to see this. Zhong is a little distressed by his mother.
China's parents are the most tired parents in the world. Do you agree?
It should have been easy to send a child to stay with him from birth to the end of kindergarten, primary school, junior high school and high school, but he should immediately consider taking the postgraduate entrance examination, buying a house and getting married. When children get married, they have to worry about how to raise their grandchildren.
In short, I keep going like this, and I don't know how I get tired.
If the child is grateful, parents will say that the child has a conscience.
If a child hates his parents' arrangement, their parents will say that they have a wolf with white eyes.
China's parents impose their love on their children in the name of love, thinking that everything they do is for the good of their children. How can parents harm their children?
Once, a high flyer from Peking University hacked his parents, which caused a heated discussion. The champion of the college entrance examination 12 years didn't go home for the New Year, broke up with his parents and blacked out all their contact information. The reason is that his parents control his life.
That sounds pathetic. Parents almost crazy care, so that his son almost collapsed, completely exploded. Is this the child's fault or the parents' fault? Is the child heartless, or is the parent taking care of the child too much?
There is a passage in "Silent Confession": The more your parents pay attention to you, the higher their expectations are, and their concern keeps falling on you like snow, eventually crushing you.
Parents have too much control over their children, especially parents of married couples. If they care too much about the lives of young couples, it will inevitably lead to contradictions between young couples.
As parents, don't love your children under the pretext of "you are my child, and I am doing it for your own good". As we all know, today's young people have their own world, and they like their own space not to be disturbed, so as parents, if they don't want to make their children or partners angry, they just need to let go.
Let go and let the children live their own lives. Such parents, without blaming or pointing fingers, will not be annoying.
Really smart parents will quit their children's lives at the right time.
Let go at the right time and quit gracefully.