What should I do when I go to my husband's house for the first time? Do you want to do housework? Qiao Mu has discussed this topic in previous articles. I am writing this article again today because what happened to this female reader is quite wonderful.

When she went to her mother-in-law's house happily with her boyfriend for the first time, she found that what she imagined was completely different from what her mother-in-law really treated her.

I happened to have a holiday last week. Her boyfriend said several times to take her back to her hometown. This is not the first time. Last year, her boyfriend said it several times, but Yu never agreed, because she knew that after going to her hometown, she might have to mention marriage.

This time, I thought it was a good time to consider getting married, so I bought some gifts and went back to my hometown with my boyfriend to meet my future mother-in-law.

In the past, I only heard from my boyfriend that I was very tired when I went back to my hometown, and I almost had to take a bus all day. There is no cement road, but it is a bumpy dirt road, which makes her feel particularly uncomfortable.

The most uncomfortable thing for Yu is that she is super carsick, except that she didn't throw up. Hungry, sleepy, swaying and dizzy all the way, she finally arrived at her boyfriend's hometown. Fortunately, my boyfriend and mother have cooked dinner and are waiting for them to eat.

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My mother-in-law and father-in-law are very enthusiastic in the future. They poured tea for Yu and washed her face with hot water. After I cleaned myself up, everyone went to eat.

At the dinner table, my mother-in-law asked about the basic situation of Yu's family, and Yu answered them one by one. Both families are only children, and the population relationship is simple.

Yu Xi fainted all the way. She has no appetite and can't eat much. She just wants to finish her meal so that she can go to bed quickly and relieve her tired body.

After I finished eating, everyone on the table was still eating. I have a good tutor. She took the dishes and chopsticks to the kitchen and said, "Uncle and aunt, I'm finished. Take your time. "

I went back to my mother-in-law's room and called her to tell her: "I have arrived at my boyfriend's hometown and everything is fine." Don't worry. "

Just about to go to bed, my boyfriend rushed in and asked, "Are you ready to rest?". You go to wash the dishes. On the first day you come to our house, you should behave well and make my parents like you. "

Although she was very tired, Yu got up and tried to wash the dishes. Boyfriend and mother said no at first, it was just a symbolic excuse, and then went back to their room to see the gifts they brought back.

I left the "battlefield" of the kitchen to clean up. Looking at the messy kitchen, I didn't know where to start. She wants to ask her boyfriend for help and wash the dishes together.

As a result, the boyfriend and his parents are together, in their bedroom, busy showing their parents presents, and the three of them are still whispering mysteriously, not knowing what to say. This feeling makes Yu particularly uncomfortable.

Yu suddenly heard her boyfriend say, "Xixi bought these." This sentence made her feel a little better. She washed the dishes silently in the kitchen, and after an hour, she finally cleaned up the kitchen. For Yu, who never works at home, washing dishes this time is an arduous task for her.

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I think it is enough to brush the dishes at my future mother-in-law's house. I didn't know that during my five days at my boyfriend's house, every time it was time to wash the dishes, my boyfriend would definitely suggest that I wash the dishes. In the future, my mother-in-law will probably get used to it, and even hypocritical manners will no longer be rejected.

I came to my mother-in-law's house for the first time and washed the dishes silently for five days. And the three of them either hide in the bedroom and whisper to each other, or sit in the living room and watch TV dramas.

In the last two days of the holiday, I ate instant noodles for two days without washing dishes. It turned out that my mother-in-law proposed to take Yu to their home and visit nearby tourist attractions.

Before going out, my mother-in-law brought a big bag, and the trunk was full of instant noodles. I thought it was my mother-in-law. I was afraid that everyone would be hungry halfway and added rice.

My father-in-law and boyfriend are in charge of driving, and my mother-in-law and Yu sit in the back. At the tourist attractions, four people began to stroll slowly.

Seeing the beautiful scenery, the "grievance" that I washed the bowl for five days was gradually forgotten by her.

After shopping all morning, everyone was tired and Yu was hungry. She suggested that everyone go to dinner together. It happened that she took a fancy to a restaurant.

Mother-in-law stopped her and said, "It's a waste to eat out. It's all gutter oil, which is unhealthy. I brought four people to eat instant noodles for two days. Eat instant noodles these two days. When we came back, my aunt was cooking good food for you. "

"Aunt, it's okay. I invite you to dinner. Thank you for your care these days. " Yuxi doesn't want instant noodles. She gets pimples when she eats instant noodles.

The mother-in-law changed her face: "Xixi, after you get married, your money is our family's money." The most important thing for women is to learn to be frugal, learn to save money, and don't treat money as paper flowers. " You calculate, four people eat instant noodles for two days, not more than 100 yuan. Eating out for a meal costs hundreds of thousands in two days, which is too extravagant. "

At this time, my boyfriend also came to help my mother-in-law. Finally, everyone ate instant noodles. When I smell the instant noodles, she wants to throw up. She thinks she's eaten all the instant noodles in her life.

After this holiday, I went back to the city and broke up with my boyfriend, but my boyfriend felt that it was a mountain out of a molehill.

Emotional information:

Many people say: going to my mother-in-law's house for the first time is a trivial matter, but you can see if your boyfriend can get married.

The former mother-in-law likes to use "washing dishes" to test whether the future daughter-in-law is obedient, obedient and diligent.

But now it's 20 19. Do you want to "change a set of methods" to test the future daughter-in-law? After all, we must "keep pace with the times."

Now that you have a dishwasher, why worry about washing dishes? More importantly, my boyfriend never offered to wash the dishes during the holidays, but he clearly hinted that I would take the initiative to wash the dishes.

Qiao Mu remembers reading an article to the effect that "the wife should not rush ahead of her husband's family".

Although the woman who married in the past was a wife, for her parents-in-law, her son was their real family. When things are settled, the daughter-in-law will be rewarded. Things are not handled well, only the daughter-in-law is buried with her.

Therefore, the best way is to "let my husband rush ahead for the sake of her husband's family." I washed the dishes for five days and felt very wronged and depressed, because my boyfriend never respected her true feelings.

Moreover, Qiao Mu believes that a really good mother-in-law will not let her daughter-in-law do the dishes for the first time. Even if it is enough to wash once, does she have to wash every day and behave every day?

Let's talk about eating instant noodles

Diligence is a good thing, and excessive thrift is picking. In the last two days of the trip, my mother-in-law felt that spending money on eating out was a luxury or a waste. She can only accept instant noodles, and her boyfriend and her mother-in-law have the same idea.

Obviously, I can't accept it. At this point, two people have different consumption concepts and different definitions of saving and waste. Reasonable consumption is ok. Isn't it right to eat well? Nutrition is more important.

If you are really afraid of spending money, then stay at home and watch the scenery with video, maybe it will have a different flavor.

After all, staying at home is the most economical now, as long as you don't eat meat.