But there seems to be only the age difference, which can't be changed anyway.
Someone in our country did a survey and found that,
46% people think that the best gap between couples is no more than 3 years old.
The biggest reason is "feeling that the generation gap will lead to poor communication";
There are also 34% people who think that men are better than women by more than three years.
After all, girls need care;
Only 12% people think that "it's no big deal for a woman to be older" because this is love.
So, is age a problem in love?
Let's hear what they have to say.
@ Lu et al./Age difference: 8 years old
He is willing to play with me and enjoy it.
Q: How did you meet?
A: At a friend's party, he was sitting in the corner with a moustache and a blue and white striped shirt, but I saw him at a glance. It was love at first sight.
Q: Tell me about your love.
He is a very simple man. Sometimes I think he is stupid. Although he has passed away, he still looks like a child in front of me. The way to express my love is also very direct. When I coughed, he stopped to buy medicine. He didn't move when I told him to stop. When I said what to eat, he made me soup according to the recipe. He will arrange every appointment and help me take care of everything silently forever. Once I painted purple nail polish on all ten of his nails, and he didn't get angry, which made me upset.
Q: Did you encounter any problems in the process of getting along?
A: Neither family agrees. Because of the age gap, many important stages of our lives are doomed to be staggered, and one of them is bound to make sacrifices. But fortunately, we are all willing to work hard for our feelings. I hope that one day I can stand beside him with the most unquestionable attitude.
Q: What do you want to say about this relationship?
A: I think in love, age is never a gap. Only true attraction and recognition is the secret of maintaining love for a long time.
@ Xiao Mu/Age difference: 9 years old
Female junior, take the gold bricks, I can take three.
Q: How did you meet?
A: It's my friend's sister. I called her sister at first, but later I found that it was more than just "sister" to her. After the confession, she didn't accept it, but she couldn't stand my (Ruan) film (Mo) sincere heart (Bao) and finally turned "sister" into "girlfriend".
Q: Tell me about your love.
A: She is a person who pays great attention to the quality of life. After being with her, I found that life can be so interesting. There is warmth and sweetness in running water. In particular, I appreciate her resolute appearance as a strong woman in the workplace, but she will still take off all her armor in front of me and act like a girl, jealous and willful.
Q: Did you encounter any problems in the process of getting along?
A: We have no problem communicating with each other. Although she always says I'm small, her breasts are not big. Recently, however, she has been telling me that "she has a bad color and loves her pool" for fear that she will become ugly when she gets old. I don't want her. Well, I choose to take the time to answer this question.
Q: What do you want to say about this relationship?
A: I love you just because you are you, regardless of age, height, figure, big chest or small chest.
@ A Gai Gai bug/ Age difference: 14 years old
He smiles so cute that he even has crow's feet around his eyes.
Q: How did you meet?
I am an intern in my uncle's company. At the beginning, I was full of admiration for him, admiring his super life experience, decent manners and elegant conversation. So when he chased me, I was a little flattered, but he said he didn't know why, so he recognized me.
Q: Tell me about your love.
A: My uncle is a man who is good at everything, including that. After being together, every time I have confusion in my work and life, I will be much more cheerful when chatting with him, and I have a feeling of clearing the fog and seeing the future. As he said, "I experienced something before you. I ate earlier, so don't be afraid. I'm here." To me, he is a wise elder, a life mentor and a close lover.
Q: Did you encounter any problems in the process of getting along?
A: My parents don't know about us yet, but many friends around me are against us, thinking that my uncle is too old and I have too many, which will be inappropriate in many ways. But in fact, we are also slowly running in. Every chat and date brings us closer and better.
Q: What do you want to say about this relationship?
A: Someone told me, "Wake up and stop dreaming", but I want to say, "If it's him in my dream, I don't want to wake up."