The biggest expectation of a married woman is to be a good wife and mother. But thinking about it and doing it is another matter. Then refer to the following 10 principle, it is not difficult for you to gather thousands of pets in one body. Principle one: absolute gentleness. It is said that heroes are sad about beauty, but looking at the world, it is impossible for God to make every woman have the beauty of sinking fish and falling geese, so if it is not beautiful, it is necessary to be gentle first. As an excellent wife, gentleness is of course the most important thing. When he came back from work, the gate had not yet entered. You have to hold his bag and point his slippers at him, then make him a cup of tea and peel an apple (preferably sliced). If he is in a good mood and wants to talk to you for a while, don't say, "hey, honey, I want to wash clothes and cook." I'll talk to you later. " You should sit down quickly, communicate with him in a soft voice, listen to his heroic deeds and express your admiration at the same time; If he is in a bad mood and is furious with you, don't say, hey, what are you yelling at? What are you doing at home? Dare to make public outside! If you want to be a good wife, the most important thing at this time is to sit down with him and say piteously, honey, don't be angry. Look who annoyed our good-natured husband. There must be something wrong with this man! I'm sure he won't be angry again. Who said that heroes are sad about beauty? In fact, women's gentle men are the most afraid and favorite. He is tired, you hit him; He hurts, you rub it for him; He is hot, you slap him; He is thirsty, you give him a glass of water; He smiled, and you were happy; He is crying. You have to hold him in your arms like a child. In short, a gentle woman should think of her husband, regard his joys and sorrows as her own, and then put her own aside for the time being! Imagine if you are really soft to the bone, then your husband won't stay with you, and you can't get rid of it if you want to! Principle 2: Pay absolute attention to your image. God didn't give you a beautiful face and a devil's figure, but he never let you spoil yourself at will. I often see some married women who don't pay attention to clothes. I don't even wear a bra to work. Asked by curious people, she looked surprised: I am married, and I don't want to find a husband anymore. Why are you dressing it up? Moreover, it's too convenient to go home and breast-feed your child! There are not a few such women, thinking that once they get married, they don't need to paint makeup for anyone. Actually, it is still needed, and it is very necessary. Which husband likes to beat his wife with a set of pajamas? I often see some women shopping and even wearing pajamas, which is really great! Didn't you say that? Women are born to dress up their own world, but they are also dressing up men's world. How can you fool this top priority just because you are married? A good wife should know how to wear light makeup and heavy makeup, and what clothes to wear on any occasion. It doesn't matter if she is not beautiful, but she must be dignified and decent! Don't wear a pair of sneakers under a lady's skirt, a pair of high heels under sweatpants, and don't wear stockings. Pay attention to the scenery under the armpit under the halter top. If you often spoil your husband's fun, tear down his desk and brush his face, you will forget the reputation of this good wife, and even marriage will give you a red light. Principle 3: I don't know who came up with the idea of absolutely raising my husband's stomach: to manage my husband, we must first manage his stomach. Now there are far more sisters-in-law than uncles who buy food in the vegetable market. But let's not say whether this statement is truth or philosophy. In short, it is right to follow it. A good wife must not say coyly: Husband, cook quickly, I'm starving! In fact, many men are thinking: Why should I marry a wife? Why didn't you cook and wash clothes for me? Just afraid to say it. Therefore, don't let your husband whisper in his heart for a few meals. It's not worth it. You must study the cookbooks carefully and memorize the "300 tips for the kitchen". What soup, what ingredients, how to match what dishes, how much monosodium glutamate and how much salt to add, you have to ponder and temper repeatedly until your cooking is perfect, so your husband will naturally not sneak into the restaurant and let you eat alone at home every day! Principle 4: Never compare your husband with other people's husbands. Men hate it when their wives always take it out on themselves. When they are K, they don't forget to compare their husbands with themselves. I can't stand it when my wife says, Look at you, what virtue! I know that if you do such a little housework and your husband earns tens of thousands a year, you are the most incompetent! If her husband can earn tens of thousands of dollars, she will say: alas! All you know is Qian Qian's money. Her husband always takes her to play and take a walk. Have you been with me? If it happens that her husband has been with her, she will say, Oh, help me with some housework. I'm exhausted. You just want to sit on the sofa and watch TV. Her husband is a model, unlike you! It seems that all men in the world are good, and this one around you is the worst. A good wife would never do that. She won't compare her husband with others. Even if she does, she will say: whose husband is capable is capable, but which one is as considerate as you, or you are the best, dear! Such a comparison makes my husband feel comfortable! Principle 5: Never be too smart in front of your husband. Sometimes he'd rather you were stupid. When a man feels that the woman around him is not as good as himself, he will have a great sense of accomplishment and feel that this woman is being conquered by his omniscience. Everyone knows that men like to conquer women. So, when he says there are only two kinds of people in the world, you must never say three. When he says that the capital of Britain is new york, you must never say London. You should admire and say: Oh, you know so much, I didn't know that! The computer system is broken. If you ask him to fix it, even if he can't, you don't need to fix it. You should give him more things that you can easily do, and say at the right time: honey, you are really good, why can't I? A really smart wife knows how to make herself stupid properly. Training your husband to be smart is your smartest move! Principle 6: Never let your husband dress appropriately, but learn to mend the hem of your pants. If your husband is not dressed properly to go out, someone will definitely say: Hey, this guy is miserable enough, and there is a lazy wife at home! However, if the wife is not properly dressed to go out, someone will definitely say: Hey, this person is really lazy. Whoever marries her will be miserable! I can't help it This world is so unfair! Therefore, before your husband goes out, he must first match his clothes, what shirt with what tie, what pants with what coat. You must also iron his clothes one by one, make sure they are sharp and angular, and wash his white shirt as clean as ever. Don't let the dirt on his collar spoil his elegant manners. Don't forget to check whether his trousers are off the thread and whether the buttons will fall off from time to time. You must do everything before he puts it on. If you can't learn all these things, then learn quickly, there is no way, it's not that easy to be a good wife! Principle 7: Never yell at a lion. The last wife a man wants is a bitch. A good wife should pay special attention to this, and never become a tigress carelessly. Husband is slow, you have to say: What's wrong with you today? Are you in poor health? It used to be fast! Don't shout: you are useless, it takes a long time to get something; Husband sits still, you have to say: tired? Have a good rest! Never shout: You lazy pig, am I your servant or slave? Don't get up to work? It is even more difficult to lay hands on her husband easily. If a good man doesn't fight with a woman, how can a good woman fight with a man? Therefore, a good wife is absolutely not allowed to live in the roar of lions. Well, it's better to be a man. Lions and tigers are not allowed. Otherwise, the marriage is in jeopardy. Think about it. Who wants to live with such a terrible animal, doesn't he? Principle 8: Never give your parents a living Lei Feng. A good wife should know that her husband's parents are no less than her own. So be kind to his parents, that is, your in-laws. Don't always think about mom and dad. What's delicious at home? It's obviously right to bring some to you. People, not raised by their parents! The point is, did you give these to your husband's parents, too? Even if your parents don't say anything, you can think about it anytime and anywhere, and put yourself in their shoes with a Lei Feng-like thought, but in the face of in-laws, you think they are too fierce. Eat a little and blame them for being too greedy; If you use a little, roll your eyes: won't you buy it yourself? Old and immortal! If you are such a person, you are still far from a good wife. It is said that mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are difficult to get along with. Even if there are some contradictions between them, you should keep in mind that they brought up this man you love most. Just for this reason, you should treat them like your own parents, and you should be extremely grateful to say: Dad, Mom, you have worked hard. Now it's time for us to raise your hand! And if you really do this, you are a perfect wife, a super-accurate wife! Principle 9: absolutely have a job of your own. A woman should be an independent tree, and her husband is the big tree around you. If you don't have a job of your own, you will become a vine, tightly wrapped around him and attached to him to grow. Of course, he will like your attachment to him and your lingering, but over time, he will blame you for sucking his nutrients and dragging his back, and he will be eager to let you leave and let him grow freely. So a good wife must know this. If you don't want your husband to get tired of you, you must have a job of your own. You must be independent and interdependent, so that the marriage will last. Rule 10: Never let an apricot out of the wall. Even if you don't go out of the wall these days, some people are lying on the wall waiting for an apricot. A good wife must be able to withstand such temptation. The last thing a man can't stand is his wife cuckolding him. So this is the most important of the ten principles that must be adhered to. No matter how beautiful and charming the scenery outside the wall is, you should kiss the grass in the yard. They are not beautiful, but aren't they more beautiful against your background? Besides, apricot pickers only need to pick a few, smell a few, play a few times and throw them away! Have you ever seen anyone picking wild flowers at home? Even if it is raised, it will be thrown away in a few days. When the time comes, he will send you to the rotten stone road, and it will be too late for you to regret it. Therefore, a good wife should guard your grass, your yard and have a look around. You can avoid it when you get out of the wall!