I think a girl should give up her career if she wants to balance her career and family. If a woman is too enterprising, she will go further and further in the pursuit of work. She not only needs to let go of her career, but also needs to distinguish time, work hard, and accompany her family wholeheartedly after work, so that she can be comfortable with her family and career.

My mother is a person who takes care of both family and career. She has a good proper limit. I heard from my father that when my mother was pregnant, the company only allowed one month's maternity leave, but my mother took half a year's leave to make me fat for nothing. Then after I was born, my mother started working, but she also took it with her. Even so, I have never been taken to work by my mother. Although she had a long vacation at that time, she handed over all her work before leaving, and did not delay her work.

Later, when I was a little older, I was brought up by my grandmother and grandmother. Even so, every afternoon after work, she will go to grandma's house or grandma's house and take me to bed at night. No matter how busy the work is, she hasn't missed my growth. Later, as I grew older, she turned down several opportunities for promotion in order to take care of my father and me. In an institution like theirs, there are few opportunities for promotion, but the promotion is rapid, but the higher the promotion, the more things to worry about, so she turned down such a good opportunity again and again.

Although I have not been promoted to a higher position in my work, I have done well in my present position, and there are many trophies and honorary certificates at home. At the same time, she also takes care of my father and me. She cooks for me. She will cook for us no matter how tired she is when she comes back to work. When I go to school, I have to get up early and go to bed late. She and my father have been with me. She will finish my breakfast in the morning and then send me to school. No matter how busy the unit is, she will never take her work home, nor will she discuss things at work with her father at home.

In her view, work is work and family is family. During the day, she will devote all her energy to her work. After work, it is her family time. She will spend the same energy on my father and me. She has never neglected either side, so she can really have her cake and eat it. Therefore, I think that if a woman wants to balance work and family, she must put down her career ambition a little. While loving her work, if she can climb up a little, fine, but remember not to have a big appetite. I think this is enough to completely distinguish the two.