Dad's birthday, get together every year, not many people, my sister and I are back, and sometimes the menstrual family get together, so there are less than ten people.

Because of my two treasures, I am happy every time, like a clown. It's a pity that my father can't attend every time, sometimes he is on a business trip, and sometimes he is too busy to catch up with his work.

So I'm angry, too. He doesn't care enough about my family and his parents-in-law. Later, in order to avoid quarreling, I left it alone. After all, my parents must care about themselves. Nothing else matters. It is impossible to be as chic and avant-garde as pap i sauce: I have been married for five years, and I have never been to my in-laws' house, and the two in-laws have never met. Few parents respect their children's choice and life, so I am still depressed sometimes.

Dear friend, how do you deal with these problems?