Deal with their emotional problems first. They were suddenly interrupted when they were engaged in their favorite activity. Anyone will feel unhappy. We often feel this way. Just like when we are ready to rest on weekends. The boss suddenly called and said, hey, you must come back to work at once. When I am interrupted to lose my temper, I will treat it coldly, stay with her gently and quietly, and let him roll. But no matter what he does, I will not give him a punishment or compromise.
Parents should set an example. Parents are the best teachers. If everyone can't be strict with themselves, but put these requirements on the children, will the children be convinced? Absolutely not! Some parents go home to watch TV and play games, but let their children do their homework. They also call it: I want to relax after a tiring day! Then I want to ask parents if their children can also say: I have studied all day and I want to relax. In fact, parents can choose many healthy ways to relax at this time. For example, exercise at home, or study recipes and go to bed early.
Divert the child's attention. For example, during the summer vacation, we can enroll our children in some interest classes so that they can find activities that suit them. You can also take your children outdoors to let them feel the beauty of nature and know that there are many beautiful scenery for them to enjoy besides mobile phones. By diverting children's attention, they will gradually stop relying on mobile phones. This process is carried out unintentionally by children, so children generally don't resist.
Establish boundaries and let children do things themselves and take responsibility for themselves. In infancy, children are completely dependent on their parents' care and obey their parents' will. When children grow up, they already have the concept of independence and self. At this time, they should consciously establish boundaries with their children. Adults should not do things that children should do independently, such as eating, going to the toilet and taking a bath. Only when children have such awareness since childhood can they be internalized into the rule awareness that they are responsible for their own affairs.