It is also very particular that the man should ask someone to make his bed the night before his wedding. The orientation of the bed should be determined according to the groom's birthday, and the four corners of the foot of the bed should be padded with "golden paper". At the same time, the groom will also invite a boy (preferably a dragon, which is lucky) to sleep with him that night.
The exciting day has finally arrived. Marriage means adulthood, and various folk adult ceremonies are essential. On the morning of the wedding, parents of both men and women should choose auspicious time as the "head" of the bride and groom, also called "head". This ceremony is combed three times from beginning to end: one to the end (meaning to grow old together), two to Qi Mei (honored as the guest of honor) and three to the children and grandchildren.
After the wedding reception, when all the friends are gone, the bride will toast "black sugar tea" to her parents and immediate family accompanied by the groom. Tea worship should be carried out one by one in the order of young and old. The bride has to prepare gifts for her parents-in-law and call her parents for the first time. Others should also be called under the guidance of the groom. In the evening, before the husband and wife sleep together, they will also drink "acacia tea" with red dates, peanuts, longan, longan and so on. It means "early birth of your son jumps over the Longmen". In some places, there are programs such as "making trouble in the bridal chamber" and "recognizing relatives and friends" at night, and everyone will have a good time.