People live not only for money, but also for basic struggle. If a person doesn't work hard at all, or leads an unhealthy life, just like your father, why does he gamble? Because he doesn't want to work hard and want to get rich, he gambles and hopes to get rich overnight. He values money so much that he has nothing but money. He can't think of anything more important. This is an unhealthy thought, but it is also certain.

First of all, you have to understand that money is not the most important thing in this world. Of course, if you owe a lot of gambling debts because of your father's gambling, the money is really a kind of pressure for you, but if you don't owe gambling debts, you should live a more active life and cherish the status quo. Is money really important? I think the most important thing is not money, but your physical health, mental health and your ability. Only when you have the ability can you help your relatives and friends better or help yourself and build a family can you have time to do what you want. As long as you can support yourself and your family, it doesn't matter how much money you really earn. As long as you have a high life efficiency, you will live happily and your descendants will be happy, so you don't have to make the same mistake as your father.

Let me ask you something. If a person lives for money every day, starts drinking and socializing every day in his twenties, stays up late and smokes all kinds of bad habits, and then earns hundreds of thousands of dollars a year, but is he happy? Once he lost money, he lost everything, because he gave everything to make money, all for physical and mental health. Physical and mental health is the root of pain. People who live only for money can't make money, because they just want money and ignore the importance of their basic abilities. He can't see how the world works and he doesn't know how to make money. Just a desire, and gambling. .

If this person lives for money and drinks and stays up late every day for 30 years, he will definitely not spend a lot of time on making friends and establishing family relationships, but more on indulging himself, because he is for money and for the purpose of money. In his eyes, what is the role of money-face-dressing, money equals face equals superiority, so his interpersonal relationship will be poor, so he can't make a lot of money. Then spend money to paralyze yourself and ensure your pretentious status. That's all. Physical and mental health is a person's greatest wealth to himself. With these two foundations, you can make progress and become more capable. Then you will find that there are opportunities to make money everywhere. As long as you are willing to do it, you can get respect and help from others. You can also help more people and your family will be happy and rational. Of course, there are many people who live for money in this world, but are they really happy?

Supplement: You are now a junior college student, and you can't afford the tuition, but you can give yourself a chance to exercise. Many places accept students to take part-time jobs, such as McDonald's and KFC. Even some hotel waiters have no requirements for academic qualifications, and their work content is not complicated. You can also exercise your execution very well. You are still young. Youth is a person's greatest capital. You can study hard and work part-time and live a full life. Don't be influenced by the clutter around you. Nowadays, young people like to play games, and it's easy to get caught up. They still think they can make money, but only by studying and exercising themselves is the real way out for everyone. The probability of making money by opportunism is lower than that of winning the lottery. Moreover, even if they have a little money, they will not become stronger and will not use it correctly. Meaningless.

Another thing I want to say is that the idea of "saving face" is actually wrong. People live not to save face, but to live better. In order to benefit themselves and the people around them, young people benefit themselves through exercise and exercise. The easiest way is to get up early and go to bed early and exercise several times a week. You can buy some cheap skin care products to maintain your skin, such as Dabao. Don't be ashamed. There are many nasty ideas in society.

Ma Yun has a saying called "

Struggle is that every day's challenge is very difficult, but it is easier every year; Without struggle, there will be no daily challenges; But it's getting harder every year.

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