Understanding and harvest of Fu Lei 1 letter
Fu Lei, a great translator. This is my first impression of him. But when I read Fu Lei's letter, I got a new understanding of him. Fu Lei is also a great father.
Letter from Fu Lei is a painstaking teaching article full of father's love. Fu Lei's education and love for his son are everywhere in this book.
From this book, I see the image of a great father who constantly educates and inspires his son with his own experience. On the surface, he is a very strict father who only criticizes his son. But his heart is full of love for his son. It's just that he turned severity into love, criticism into care, and punishment into care.
What father in the world doesn't love his son? It's just that their expressions of love are different. Some fathers have become spoiled because of overindulgence, and their children have become flowers in the greenhouse, which can't stand ups and downs; Some fathers are too strict and don't allow their children to make any mistakes, so they will accompany their children to form "perfectionists", so children always can't make friends; Some fathers always talk and laugh with their children, thus losing their prestige in their children's hearts, making them too relaxed and affecting their studies.
The father in Letters from Fu Lei is different. He is a well-educated and persuasive father who knows when to let his children study and when to let them relax. But sometimes he feels very sad and distressed because the severity of his love can't be accepted by his children, but he never shows it on his face, especially in front of his son, because he is a strong parting parent and he wants to be an example in his son's heart. This is also a way for him to educate his son!
Father is a title, father is a responsibility and father is a kind of warmth. What a great father!
Fu Leixin's Understanding and Gains
In the summer vacation, I took out Fu Lei's long-lost letter and savored it again. I learned Fu Lei's emphasis and methods on educating children, which is worth learning and admiring. This time, however, I read it again, but I tasted a different taste.
When Fu Lei educates his son, he doesn't always make a long speech. Instead, he nagged about family chores by writing letters and had heart-to-heart communication with his son. He won't alienate his son because of distance. He is free to write what he thinks. Because of this, the love between father and son in Letters from Fu Lei makes us feel so sincere and simple, without any hypocrisy or pretense.
Every letter from home contains Fu Lei's cultivation and care for his son, but at the same time, he does not forget to give Fu Cong an all-round education in music, art, philosophy, history, literature and even health, so that his son can not only understand the situation of his parents at home, but also continue to read letters from home with great interest and receive education. These letters of Mr. Fu Lei are full of the truth of life and let Fu Cong know how to live in this world.
Teacher Fu Lei is never harsh on her daughter, and we will be deeply touched after reading it. If our parents treat us like this, I believe our life will be much happier. But how many parents can be like Fu Lei? Very few. Every parent has different expressions of love for their children, so it's not that our parents are harsh, but that they put love in the process of cultivating us. Fu Lei is just an outstanding representative of his parents, but it doesn't mean that our parents are going to do exactly the same thing as him, so let's not complain about our parents, they are all as great as Fu Lei!
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"A person's thoughts are not systematic without words."
Therefore, after reading Fu Lei's Letter, an urgent need to sort out the feelings endowed by Mr. Fu Lei's works prompted me to write this article, hoping to make my gains clear.
Mr. Wan Li's thought of spreading books has spanned more than ten years in Qian Shan, thousands of miles away. It is not only an exhortation and caress to his beloved son, but also a feeling between the lines, which sublimates the childlike innocence of loving the motherland and the nation, and condenses the charm of his personality, which is all moving.
At present, the era to which Mr. Wang belongs has long been out of people's ideological category, and the distance of time has blurred the objective judgment of that era. However, we can vaguely feel that the spark of pain in those days still stirred our nerves bit by bit. Even a long time ago, the deep imprint of mental punishment and physical and mental pain brought by the war without smoke still surfaced from time to time. Therefore, I am deeply grateful to a gentleman who loves truth, life, art, integrity, sincerity and frankness, and finally chose the way of leading an honest and clean life, showing his sincerity and seeking ideological emancipation.
The talons of life deformation constantly crush his talent and destroy his body and mind, while Mr. Wang has been expecting to see the rise of the country in compromise and persistence. He persisted all his life, and he never gave up even if others thought it was paranoia and fanaticism. His profound philosophical thinking on life, his originality and enterprising spirit in music art, his infiltration of traditional excellent culture and his vigorous thinking prompted him to always uphold a clear and pure heart, optimistically resolve the pain of the times and broaden the width of life.
Although Mr. Wang pretends to be too paranoid and adds a lot of troubles to his life, a little dirt can't hide the brilliance of gold. There are too many admirable qualities in him, and then he blends into his elegant life sentiment, making him feel that those adjectives are as fragile and pitiful as branches and leaves. Among the endless beauty of personality, what impresses me most is Mr. Wang's unique and elegant views on art and his humble, optimistic and tireless attitude towards life, which enables an aesthetic beginner to grasp the self-confidence that can make her firm in the trance with people who are confused about life.
In terms of artistic taste, Mr. Wang advocates embedding life and nature, balancing emotional flow and rational persistence, and achieving an appropriate balance between the detachment, tranquility and moderation of the East and the enthusiasm, liveliness and enlightenment of the West. However, the most important thing is to inject pure heart and emotion into the art of life. "Moving artistic expression must come from the purity of the mind."
Teacher Wang's point of view has explained the answers to many problems that plague modern people. The choice of fame and fortune, the hardships of suffering, the philosophy of life, the essence of art, and the temper of temperament are all like brilliant torches to drive away the darkness and reproduce the stars and the moon.
Therefore, for such a great spiritual man who has become more and more clear and thorough in the turbulent flow of the times, I have deep admiration as well as deep nostalgia.
Understanding and harvest of Fu Lei's letters 4
My mother bought this book for me when I was in the fourth grade, so I haven't tasted it. There are many reasons for this. How to balance business and study? With it, I have determined how to go, how to deal with things, and what people should do.
The collection of letters written by literary critic and art critic Fu Lei to his son extracts 65,438+086 letters written by Mr. Fu Lei from May 65,438+0954 to May 65,438+0966. The longest letter has more than 7000 words. Between the lines, it is full of the father's love and expectation for his son, as well as his lofty feelings for the country and the world.
It is human nature to love his son, but Fu Lei's love for his son has not become that kind of ordinary tenderness. It's that he always puts morality and art first and the feeling of licking his calf second. Just as he strictly disciplined his son's childhood, although it was not recognized by ordinary people, it did come from his deeper love for his son.
Because this book is a family letter written by the father to his son, it is a common saying written on paper, with pure and simple feelings and touching feelings.
There are no ordinary letters from home in this little book. In his letter to Fu Cong, Fu Lei said: "Writing a long letter to you is not empty nagging or inexplicable gossip, but has several functions. First, I really take you as an opponent to discuss art and music; Second, I really want to inspire the feelings of some young people, so that my father can get some fresh nutrients, and I can also indirectly spread them to other young people; Third, it's not just your writing that exercises you through communication, especially your thoughts; Fourth, I will always be your warning and be a' faithful mirror' everywhere, no matter in life, in the details of life, in artistic accomplishment and in playing posture. " The affection that runs through all the family letters is to let the son know the honor and disgrace of the country and the dignity of art, treat everything with a serious attitude and be an "artist with both ability and political integrity and excellent personality."
In the book, I also understand that I didn't go to my future life in a hurry. Instead, control every little thing, keep your life in order, and don't relax your career requirements because of trivial things. I don't have to do some extra work to affect my own study task. Do yourself well. Teachers do their homework seriously. The most important thing is to communicate with parents more. Share your thoughts and make them understand you.
Through these letters, not only a strong bond was established between his son and his relatives, but also a heart-to-heart bond was firmly established between Fu Cong and his distant motherland. Later, it was proved that regardless of the cruel experience of his family and the notoriety he bore, he never turned his back on his motherland, was threatened and lured by his enemies in many ways, and never said or did anything detrimental to the dignity of his motherland. This is a father's influence on a son, which is inseparable from his ardent patriotic education for his son who is thousands of miles away. Time and distance are not a problem. Caring parents, your sleepless beloved son, are irreplaceable textbooks and gas stations of life.
Understanding and harvest of Fu Leixin 5
This summer vacation, in the teacher's recommendation form, I chose a letter from Fu Lei to study. I was attracted by the exquisite writing style of Fu Lei and his son, and I was moved by my father's deep love for his son!
1April, 979, when Mr. Fu Cong returned to China to attend the ashes burial ceremony to rehabilitate his parents, he must have mixed feelings. He will never see his dearest parents again in his life. What greeted him was not his parents' happy smiles, but two pinch of bleak and cold ashes.
But after a long time, the feelings remain unchanged, and the sky is vast and the heart is connected. In the past years, it was not this letter that closely linked the hearts of father and son between two places thousands of miles apart. In these letters, don't we clearly see the blood stains left by Mr. Fu Lei for his son? Man's beloved son is in our nature. Man's life is always limited, but his career is endless. Educating children, in a sense, is to continue one's life and one's efforts for the society and the motherland. As the child's first teacher, father Fu Lei's love is so profound and far-reaching. Despite repeated wars and defeats, he never changed his original intention, always loved the motherland, made every effort for the society and the motherland with a highly responsible heart, and firmly combined Fu Cong in a foreign land with the distant motherland with letters and teachings. Mr. Fu Lei is resolute and strong. He used his whole life to tell us that a pure, honest, sincere and noble soul, although sometimes encountering unexpected suffering and persecution, will also fall into a dark corner, but the real light will not be annihilated, and the weak light will eventually shine on the whole world and get respect and love.
Mr. Fu Lei can face the storms of life so tenaciously. What about us? The second day has become history, and the cruel third day has arrived. Are we ready? "The land ends here and the ocean begins in Sri Lanka." This famous sentence by Camons, a Portuguese poet in Cape Roca, off the coast of Lisbon, really gives people a magnificent feeling. Storm is not the end of our life, all the twists and turns and haze will pass, and it always comes and goes quickly. Man's glory lies not in never failing, but in being able to rise again and again. I believe that after the baptism of the storm, what we are waiting for is a surprise.
On the voyage of the sea, there are not only struggles for survival, but also love, dreams and endless pursuit! Run, the tide is surging, and you will be left behind. To embrace poetry and the distance, to realize the blue dream, just like Mr. Fu Lei, keep light and heat in his heart forever and condense in action.
Understanding and harvest of Fu Lei's letters 6
Some people compare maternal love to a blooming lily, which exudes its charming fragrance in every corner; Father's love is a jasmine flower, which silently spits out its unique fresh fragrance in a corner. Just like Fu Leixin's father.
In long or short letters, Fu Lei, as a father, shows his concern and yearning for his son beyond words. "Dear child, the day after you left, you want to write a letter, for fear that you will feel bored, that's all. But I miss you every day and wake up at six or seven every morning. I can't sleep over and over again, and I can't tell why. It seems that Christophe's mother stayed at home alone and remembered the images of the children's childhood scenes. Your mother and I always think of your little story between the ages of 23 and 67. " You see, between the lines is Fu Lei's love for his son.
As an elder, Fu Lei teaches and exhorts his son all the time. "In the end, you can't fly back and forth at your own expense; For the country, the cost of air tickets is too high, and the round-trip train will hinder your study time. In short, I hope you can think about the problem in an all-round way and distinguish which tasks are primary and which are secondary; Don't just look at the problem from one angle. " "We are very happy and very touched. Good boy, I really should give you some compliments. Looking back 195 1 when you first returned to Shanghai from Kunming in April, you really walked halfway up the mountain from the low-lying land. I hope that you will pay attention to the whole cultivation from now on, and you will definitely reach the top in the future. " It is said that parents can't let go of all the advice. You say, how can Fu Lei's painstaking efforts to educate his son to be a man before doing things not move us?
Fu Lei also plays his son's bosom friend. Fu Lei's artistic attainments are extremely profound, and he has profound knowledge in all fields of literature, painting and music, regardless of ancient and modern times. In the letter, he spent considerable space talking with his son about art, music, performance skills and artistic accomplishment; When his son was in trouble, he used his own personal experience to communicate with his son in meticulous and profound words.
As Fu Lei said, his letter to his son has several functions: first, to discuss art; Second, stimulate the feelings of young people; Thirdly, cultivate Fu Cong's writing style and thoughts; Fourth, be a faithful "mirror". The content of the letter, except the trivial matters of life.
Besides, talk more about art and life, instill the noble sentiments that an artist should have, let his son know "the honor and disgrace of the country and the dignity of art" and be an "artist with both ability and political integrity and outstanding personality".
This seemingly ordinary letter is unusual. Because behind it is the father's love and expectation for his children, and that is the father's love!
At this time, I woke up like a dream, and what I ignored in my life was my father's love. Last birthday, I invited several good friends to a party at home. It is said that my aunt's cooking is really good, and the dishes she cooked are delicious. In fact, in order to entertain guests, it seems that my mother is busy between the kitchen and the restaurant, but what I don't know is that my father has been working hard before, designing the most, racking his brains to think of recipes, carefully selecting vegetables in the vegetable market, and finally putting delicious dishes in front of him!
Only the greatness of maternal love has been praised, but who knows that what is hidden behind it is implicit fatherly love!
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"Letters from Fu Lei" not only shows the traditional family of "loving mother strict father" in China, but also shows the advanced educational concept in the West. A Letter from Fu Lei is not only a letter expressing Du Fu's deep affection, but also a book full of philosophy of life.
These two giants in different fields created A Letter from Fu Lei, an immortal work, through spiritual communication and oral teaching. It will be pure, honest, sincere and noble. "As an artist, you must first know how to be a man." At that time, Fu Lei set a good example for Fu Cong with his clank of iron.
When Fu Lei kept thinking by the light, he finally wrote "I want to give you a wake-up call all the time ..." When he sent the letter to the submissive on the other side of the ocean, he always hoped that Fu Cong could reply as soon as possible.
Fu Lei is not only an excellent translator, but also a successful father. In the letters from home, every letter is full of thoughts. He is also very concerned about Fu Cong's daily life abroad, even reaching the point that "the wider the clothes are, the more you will never regret it, which makes people languish for Iraq". The two have gone beyond the ordinary father-son relationship. In my opinion, they are more like friends, and their hearts are always connected.
Vast family letters are entrusted with the good intentions of aspiring children, running through the philosophy of life and expressing their love for the motherland and home. Everyone will feel deep hope and simple love after reading it.
Understanding and harvest of Fu Lei's letters 8
Every letter from home is a cultural heritage, not to mention Fu Lei's letter.
Letters from home, as the name implies, refer to letters exchanged between family members and relatives. About after the appearance of words, letters from home appeared, which can be said to have a long history. With the gradual enrichment of written language and the invention of paper, letters from home have gradually become popular, and today, letters from home are one of the ties to maintain family ties. Letters after letters express deep feelings between the lines, reflecting beautiful interpersonal relationships, noble living standards, excellent behavior and moral traditions, and patriotic enthusiasm of boxing. These contents are all part of the excellent culture of the Chinese nation.
Take "Letters from Fu Lei" as an example, the general theme of nearly 100 letters from Fu Lei is: teach children, stand firm, and act according to Chinese civilization; To be successful, we must serve the motherland first. Family letter can be said to be an interpretation of the excellent morality of the Chinese nation. Fu Lei's letter opened a window for us to understand the past history and well preserved the memory of that era. It is precisely because of its existence that the excellent morality of the Chinese nation is clearly interpreted. It is not only Fu Lei's teaching to children, but also the criterion for us to stand and act.
In addition to teaching people to stand up and act, Fu Lei's letter is full of affection, and the affection between the lines is inspiring. I can't help thinking of my parents. Although they are not great men, they are not as famous as Fu Lei, and they won't talk about putting people in one position, but they always think of me, and they will think of me first and plan for me no matter what they do. Fu Lei's letters contain many truths about being a man and being a man, which is a valuable spiritual wealth. However, isn't the daily teaching of parents the criterion of standing and acting? My parents are not as reasonable as Fu Lei, but they have always been very kind to me.
After reading Letters from Fu Lei, I learned a lot about being a human being and felt the greatness of family ties.
Understanding and harvest of Fu Leixin 9
When his son made achievements in his career, Fu Lei, as a father, was of course happy, but he was not immersed in that kind of achievement. Instead, I hope that when my son achieves great success and is surrounded by flowers and applause, he will remain humble, not afraid of loneliness and dare to climb the artistic realm. "No amount of flattery and praise has made you lose your self-knowledge. The applause, hugs and praises of celebrities have not reduced your humility to art, which makes me happier and more comforted! Finally, my education was not in vain, and your twenty years of torture were not in vain! You can be strong (not being carried away by victory is strong evidence), as long as you can be strong, I will rest assured for a lifetime! The size and level of our achievements are beyond our control, half by manpower and half by talent, but as long as we are strong, we are not afraid of failure, setbacks and blows-whether in personnel, life, technology or study. From now on, you can fight alone. Besides, in fact, how many mentors and friends are helping you and helping you. Together with ancient and modern masterpieces, it will always nourish your spirit! Son, from now on, you will never be lonely, even if you are lonely! "
Fu Lei said: "A naked child just doesn't know loneliness. Loneliness will create a world and many spiritual friends. Zhou, a contemporary philosopher, said that loneliness, silence and boredom are three different realms, which belong to spiritual level, emotional level and transaction level respectively. Only people with rich inner world, people who have persistent pursuit of spirit and soul, and people who are full of love for the world can experience true loneliness; Loneliness comes from love ... Fu Lei thinks: "Moving artistic expression must come from the purity of the soul! If you are not pure as a mirror, how can you feel the hearts of your predecessors? How can we impress the audience? "Just because the pure heart is pure, it does not contain any selfish distractions, does not contain any desire disputes, only contains the most beautiful and sincere feelings in the world, so" it can always embrace the pure heart of the world! "Chi's real life may be in a bad situation, lacking intimate friends, and even being misunderstood and rejected. The world around him makes him lonely; However, the purest and most beautiful feelings and thoughts of human beings are interlinked and eternal, and all sons in the world will become his bosom friends and friends.
A simple child's simple heart can only "feel the hearts of the predecessors" and "impress the hearts of the audience" by excluding all kinds of distractions. The realm of art and the realm of life are all here. The fatherly love that runs through these two letters is actually strong. In the first letter, "Only by daring to face up to reality, mistakes, rational analysis and thorough understanding can we not be eroded by memories." I believe you will learn this set slowly and get stronger and stronger. "In the second letter," you can be strong (this is strong evidence that you are not carried away by victory). As long as you can be strong, I will rest assured for a lifetime! "Strong in the final analysis is to have a pure heart. "A pure heart" is the peak of artistic creation. This purity of mind is the common good wish of mankind.
Understanding and harvest of Fu Lei 10 letter
The first letter from home was written when my son was depressed, and the second letter from home was written when my son was delighted with his success. These two letters from home express the father's touching love for his son from two aspects. Fu Lei and Fu Cong are not only friends in life, but also bosom friends in art.. With his profound education and sincere fatherly love, Fu Lei listened to every heartbeat of his son thousands of miles away, anticipated all kinds of difficulties that might appear on his way forward, and sang his thoughts and the voice of the motherland. Letter from Lei Bo is a teaching article devoted to fatherly love. It is also a family motto influenced by modern China. As an experienced person, Fu Lei contributed his life wisdom, life experience and artistic perception without reservation.
"We didn't feel any trouble or anxiety about your previous letter. I also warned you in my eighth letter that this kind of mental depression will still exist in the future. " This is really knowing a son like a father. Fu Lei seems to have anticipated his son's mood. Then he said, "I have been there before, so I will never make a fuss." You don't have to worry, let alone put it in your stomach without telling us. The anguish in my heart is not vented in my letters from home. Where can I vent it? Children don't complain to their parents. Who do they complain to? If we don't comfort you, who will? "It is human nature to comfort my son and complain to my parents. Frustration is a compulsory course in life and no one can avoid it. As a father, you can't say dogmatically, this can't, that can't, and even use a few vivid metaphors to warn your son not to be too sad and depressed. For example, "people's lives are floating in the climax-low tide, but only mediocre people, life is like stagnant water;" "Or you must have a high level of self-cultivation, so as not to be tired and truly free. As long as the climax doesn't make you nervous and the low tide doesn't make you decadent, there is no problem. Too strong sunshine will scorch the grains; Too much rain will flood the crops. " This is a friend-style father, whose love for his son is higher than the mountain and wider than the sea. He also used Christophe's experience to encourage his son to face up to reality and setbacks and bravely overcome them. So as to educate his son to be strong, which is the strong man in life.
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