Get engaged to the woman's house, take the wedding dress and get married. When they get married, there are usually people who specialize in this business to set up wedding tents. Some people hold banquets in hotels when family conditions do not allow. On the first day at the woman's house, both men and women should put rings on the altar for each other. Parents and relatives of both parties give gifts to the couple (usually gold rings, bracelets and earrings), video of the banquet, and the wedding host will be invited during the banquet. There is also a stage at the banquet venue where relatives and friends sing. The next day at the man's house, everything else is basically the same.

In some barbarian tribes in northern Vietnam, there is a custom of "thanking" old lovers when they get married. Brides often have an old lover before marriage. If you are sure to get engaged to someone, you must break up with other lovers. According to the traditional custom, the bride doesn't stay in the groom's bridal chamber on her wedding night, but goes to see her old lover for the last night to show her gratitude. From now on, I will sever all contact with my old lover and be completely loyal to my husband. There will be no other misconduct.

Young Luoluo men and women living in the mountainous areas of northern Vietnam express their love in a very special way. They use bamboo tubes with lines as loudspeakers. Boys send messages to their favorite girls through self-made megaphones. He said, "I love you very much, and I will open my heart to you. If you love me too, I will take you home to be my wife. " If a girl is interested in a boy, she will answer, "don't you know that I have liked you for a long time?" However, you should remember that your love should not be just sweet words. " So the boy knew that the girl had agreed to his proposal and he was going to marry her. After a while, both men and women secretly planned to let the girl sneak out of her home first and let a group of young boys "kidnap" the girl to the boy's home. After the man robs the girl, he will kill the pig and hold a banquet to celebrate the success of robbing the bride. Inform the bride's family the next day and ask the matchmaker to act as matchmaker on the third day.

Newlyweds must have a perfect marriage before the sun goes down, otherwise it is unlucky. More interestingly, in some villages in northern Vietnam, girls spend the last night with their old lovers on the eve of their wedding as a farewell to the past. This practice is accepted by the local people's moral concept. After that, the two will not contact each other again, and the woman should be completely loyal to her husband.

Vietnam works six days a week, so most weddings are arranged on Sunday. Different from the big round table in China, the wedding banquet uses long tables, with 6 guests sitting around each table and 30 tables.

The wedding banquet dishes are mainly cold dishes, which is quite different from the China wedding banquet, which is mainly cooking. In addition, Vietnamese people like to eat all kinds of peanuts, even fruits, which they think tastes the best. During the dinner, a snack was square, decorated with all kinds of candied silk, translucent, smelly, moderately sweet and fragrant with glutinous rice.