2. Determination of the meeting place: We choose a box in the hotel and chat while eating. The box is reserved in advance. It is best to choose a restaurant with quiet, good environment and exquisite dishes. The dishes are ordered by young people in advance and on the spot, which wastes time and embarrasses everyone. The dishes should be based on the tastes of the elderly and the tastes of the woman's parents. It is more polite and comprehensive for young people to ask about their eating habits at home. When having a meal, the man's parents first introduce their family, work, real estate and economic situation, and then the woman's parents will also introduce their family situation. After dinner, the boy drove everyone to his house and went to the man's house to see the man's family situation and community environment.
3. Meeting etiquette: Dressing up is also very important on such a solemn occasion. Wear a solemn formal dress, neatly combed hair and appropriate jewelry. When parents meet, they need to shake hands, nod and greet each other. I also went to Yintai Department Store and spent 5000 yuan on new clothes.
Under normal circumstances, children should introduce themselves to their parents, and the introduction time should not be too long. Smiling is also very important, and we have become a family since then. A good start will also lay a good foundation for the future. Although parents meet, the protagonist is still a child. Whether it is to adjust the atmosphere, eat or even go to the toilet, children need to be considerate from time to time to avoid embarrassment.
Be elegant and dignified when eating, because it is for children, not for eating. Pay attention to dining etiquette, chew slowly, and don't use your chopsticks to pick up food for each other. Such occasions are generally round tables that can be rotated, and the tables in some high-end restaurants will automatically rotate without holding food with each other. What young people should pay attention to is that while taking care of the elderly, they should also pay attention to their other half, so that the elders can feel the love between their children;
4. Meeting ceremony: The girl's meeting ceremony should have been given. Therefore, gifts for the woman's parents need not be too expensive, such as red wine, tea, ladies' cosmetics and so on. And the local specialties are also very good, which is enough;
5. Communicate with your family in advance. Before parents meet, we need to introduce some basic information about our family, so that parents of both sides can have a preliminary contact and understanding. This is a small detail, the so-called basic situation, that is, the approximate age, work experience, retirement or employment, personal hobbies and so on. So that we can have a topic to talk about when we meet for the first time, and it won't be too embarrassing.