Everyone who lives in reality will inevitably have an intersection with others, and in the process of getting along with others, many behaviors can expose a person's literacy. It seems to be a trivial matter to receive something handed over by others with both hands, but it can make people feel more respected.
Everyone expects to be respected by others, and respect is manifested in all aspects of life. As a mature individual, we fantasize that we are the protagonists of this world. But reality has taught us to recognize reality. We already know that we are not the protagonist of this world, and we can't do everything according to our own wishes, but we still hope to be respected in the process of getting along with others. This is a desire from the heart, and it is also a realistic need to satisfy some inner desire.
Respect sounds like a relatively tall word, but all aspects of life can reflect respect. When you communicate with the opposite sex, keep a safe distance and she will feel your respect; When friends around you are embarrassed, you pretend to turn a blind eye and he will feel your respect; When you listen carefully when communicating with others, they will also feel your respect.
It is indeed more polite to accept things handed over by others with both hands, and it will also make people more willing to get along with you. It's actually no big deal. Everyone will meet it countless times in his life. Maybe a colleague handed you a document, maybe a friend handed you a bottle of drink, maybe a classmate handed you a pen. In various situations, many people are used to answering with one hand and will not say thank you.
If you can get into the habit of taking things handed over by others with both hands and casually attach a thank you, I think the person who wants to give things will definitely feel your respect for him, will definitely be more willing to get along with you in the future life, and will definitely feel happy from the heart.
This is actually a process of benefiting others, which can not only make others feel their own cultivation, but also make others feel respected, but there are really not many people who have this habit in life.
A person's personal accomplishment is always reflected in life. Try to learn to pick up things with both hands in every detail, which may make others feel better about you. This may be the philosophy of life, growth is always included in every detail.