Seeing the joys and sorrows of marriage on TV, I can't help thinking of marriage in reality. How to make marriage lasting and fresh? Three ways to tell you.
Sister Zhou used to be the HR of Alibaba. She was busy with her work every day, but she was a good wife and mother and knew that marriage needed to be managed. Although the busy work takes up a lot of her time every day, she put down her work as soon as she got home and spent all her time with her husband and children. Just like stimulating the potential of employees, she pays dividends from time to time and praises her husband. For example, I will write some "love words" to my husband, which read:
Thank you for watching the movie I wanted to see with me last night, which made us have a wonderful time together. Your corn sparerib soup is so delicious that I'm full. Honey, you have been working hard recently! Thank you for working so hard for this family. Although there are only a few short sentences, it has a wonderful effect. Her husband's job is getting better and better, and his salary is also rising. Moreover, although he is in a high position, he still tries to reduce unnecessary entertainment and goes home to accompany his wife and son every day.
Lao Li, the general manager of our company, has been married for more than ten years, but every family day, I regard them as newlyweds, which is very sweet and loving. When we asked Lao Li how he got such a happy marriage, he said: We will have our own little tricks. We kiss each other goodbye before going to work every morning; I came home from work, 1 month 35, she gave me a massage, on February 24, I pinched her legs, and we went out to exercise together on Sunday when we were free. Also, I often hug her, because when a woman quarrels with you, she thinks you are not caring enough. Hugging her will reassure her, so she won't quarrel with you.
Sometimes, a thousand words don't need a hug. Although there are many trivial things in marriage, don't lose a little romance. There are some exclusive small interactions that will make each other sweeter.
Xiao Qiang and Xiaohua just got married, but they agree that 15 is their "secret garden" day every month. On this night, they will cancel all appointments and work overtime, have dinner together, or go to the newly opened restaurant outside, or cook several dishes together. They will enjoy a night completely belonging to each other, let go of all the pressure and troubles, and get along carefully. In addition, they also plan to travel together every year, or walk around, or go abroad. They will use this time to stay with each other, eat, walk and be in a daze.
Just as we need to take time to get along with ourselves and find our true selves, husband and wife also need such meticulous moments to get along well, get to know each other better and find each other.