In fact, son preference is a derogatory term, which refers to a long-standing phenomenon in society. If a girl is born in a family that values boys over girls, not only is the girl unpopular, but her mother may also be discriminated against by her family. In a patriarchal family, it is not the drama in the palace, but today's fast-developing society is quietly punishing these patriarchal people, and their ending is cruel, realistic and even foreseeable.
In the first ending, many families were punished.
Families that prefer boys to girls are typically favored by boys as never before. In such a family, no adult is willing to let the boy be wronged, and all around him are obedient voices. Such a family environment is very unfavorable to the growth of boys. First of all, he has lived in a greenhouse for a long time and has never experienced setbacks. When he grew up, his frustration ability was poor and he could not adapt to the society. Secondly, such children can get everything they want from an early age, otherwise they will cry and make a scene. In the long run, they will develop a willful and overbearing character and find it difficult to make a difference. They will only eat their old money and squeeze their parents. He lost his temper with his parents and elders when he was young, but he may grow old when he grows up. When he can no longer squeeze anything from his parents, he will abandon them without hesitation. Many parents lament that we spoil our children too much to make them like this. The old man is not only unable to enjoy family happiness, but also worried about his son. Isn't this punishment?
Many parents have already regretted the second ending.
The second result of son preference is to make neglected girls psychologically hate their family background. She was discriminated against since she was a child, not only despised by her parents, but also treated coldly by her grandparents. Even her brother or younger brother can boss her around, and she is deprived of all the care and rights she should enjoy. When such a girl grows up, she usually hates her family. Why can Fan Meisheng in Ode to Joy win public resonance? Explain the universality of this phenomenon, this kind of girl is taken for granted by her parents for the sacrifice of her family. She can't get rid of her parents' mercy, and everything is for her son's good. Her life will not be happy, and her heart will not be sunny. When her parents get old, she will depend on this daughter they don't like. What treatment should she receive? Maybe then, parents will regret treating their daughter like that. In fact, girls in patriarchal families are more or less rebellious. When rebellion has nowhere to vent, it will accumulate in their hearts. When grievances have nowhere to vent, they can only accumulate in their hearts. All kinds of negative emotions will turn from rebellion to extremes. At this time, the fate of parents is to lose a clever and sensible daughter and the heart of a child who really treats them and really admires them.
The third ending may be approaching quietly.
The population of China is aging seriously, and the number of freshmen is decreasing year by year. The number of people born in 20 18 is 4 million less than that in 20 17. This is only a superficial and deeper problem. In addition to the pressure of childbirth, people don't want to have children. The number of women in China is declining like a cliff, which is also the main reason for the decline in the number of new students. In the final analysis, it is caused by son preference. In many families, B-ultrasound shows that girls have miscarried and only boys are kept. One family is like this, so are thousands of families in Qian Qian, which leads to the phenomenon that there are more men than women. Girls who are ultimately despised by many parents will be "hard to find". When boys reach marriageable age, parents will find several boys fighting for a girl, and the bride price will go up. Even so, many boys will still face the fate of being single. You were disdainful.
The fourth ending will definitely happen in the future.
Many years ago, experts predicted that there will be 30 million bachelors in China in 2020, but a while ago, I heard a saying that the number of bachelors will rise in the future, which may exceed 1 100 million. In such an unbalanced population, more girls will be needed, and many families will be afraid to have boys. In fact, we can see the clue now. Many families begin to "prefer boys to girls", and the future fate of girls may change.
This era is an era of rapid development, people's ideas are exploding, and people's definitions of men and women will be reshuffled. This era is different from any previous era, and I believe that the dregs of the Millennium will be washed away. Only then can boys and girls achieve real equality.