1, satin fabrics are forbidden for the clothes of the deceased: the number and texture of shroud are very particular. The number of pieces is generally odd, such as five, seven and nine, but not even; Silk is often used in materials, because "silk" and "thickness" are homophonic, indicating that there are many future generations, but satin is taboo, because "satin" and "broken" are homophonic.

2, the coffin is taboo to use willow: the coffin is taboo to use willow, according to legend, because willow does not bear seeds, afraid of its extinction.

It is forbidden to choose the date of funeral on mourning day. Heavy mourning, repetition, double meaning, refers to more than one funeral, indicating that a person is approaching after death.

During the fiery period of filial piety, it is forbidden to visit relatives and friends, especially to attend happy events. It is best to be filial at home within 100 days after the death of immediate family members. Don't travel, visit relatives and friends, etc. unless necessary. So as not to bring your sadness to others. Especially weddings, business opening, celebrating the birth of babies and other happy events, it is best not to attend.

Children should not wear red and green clothes during mourning. During the mourning period, ancient children paid attention to wearing filial piety and white mourning clothes within 100 days; After a hundred days, wear dark clothes such as black and blue to show filial piety, and avoid wearing red and green heavy makeup.

6. In modern society, although many friends don't wear mourning clothes for such a long time because of work and life, they wear the word "filial piety"; However, you still can't wear red with green.

7. Children are forbidden to participate in recreational activities during mourning. In ancient times, when parents died, children generally had to observe filial piety for three years. During these three years, marriage and auspicious celebrations are not allowed. In ancient times, people who paid attention to "ruling the world with filial piety" and served as officials, no matter how old they were, had to take time off to go back to their ancestral homes to observe filial piety after their parents died, which was called "Ding You". If officials don't go back to their hometowns to observe filial piety, they may be impeached by the censor, punished, or even never hired.

8. If officials get married, have children, split up, have fun, etc. Will be regarded as unfilial and will be impeached.

9. In modern society, many people shorten the time of filial piety to one year or even less, but they are afraid to have fun with their children.

10, in the first year of the death of immediate family members, avoid posting red couplets before the Spring Festival.