In life, there will inevitably be some contradictions between classmates and friends. When there are contradictions, they only blame each other's mistakes without realizing their own, so the misunderstanding is getting deeper and deeper. Only by recognizing your mistakes and correcting them can the contradictions be solved naturally.

I also have conflicts with my classmates, but what impressed me the most was the conflict with Li Youwei in primary school.

One noon, the students were doing their homework in the classroom. At this moment, suddenly there came a cry: "Hey, classmate, who has an extra notebook, lend me one, and I'll thank you again someday!" " "The students looked up. It turns out that Li Youwei's notebook has run out, and he can't buy it at present. He is really in pain! But the students ignored it and pretended to bow their heads and continue their homework. It seems that no one wants to borrow him, so he has the highest altitude and the greatest strength in his class. Soon, Song Pan came to me for help. Li Youwei took her notebook by force without her consent. I couldn't help thinking: in broad daylight, someone dared to "grab" under my nose! I was so angry that I took the book and returned it to Song Pan. I am proud of helping others and think I am a heroine among women! Unexpectedly, Li Youwei was already angry. He struck the table hard, dropped books and pens everywhere, and there was a March of tables, pens and stools! Song Pan was frightened and said, "I think I'd better give him the book and appease him first. "I also think this is the best policy. It's no fun for Li Youwei to lose his temper. After all, he has practiced Taekwondo, and no one in the class can beat him. I put the book on his desk carefully. I thought he would be relieved, but I didn't expect him to grab the book and tear it to pieces with his fingers blue and purple! Looking at this scene, I froze, my mouth became a ο shape, Li Youwei's face flushed bright red, and two eyebrows like crayon Xiao Xin were tightly screwed together, just like an angry leopard, and that ferocious face made me shudder. This Li Youwei is too generous. How can a person bargain with me for a book?

Starting from this afternoon, we began to get angry. Who also ignore who, who also ignore who. Even if there is a topic, it is only verbal communication. We either treat each other like air, or fight with each other, or even move our hands. A few days later, I was lying in bed one night, thinking about the contradiction between Li Youwei and me. Why do you want to do this? This is just a small matter. Is it necessary? I don't want to have another cold war. I want to apologize to him first. After all, one more friend is better than one more enemy. Anyway, I am also responsible. So that night, it was very late, but I still wrote him an apology letter. The next morning, I handed him my carefully written letter of apology. He took the letter and tore it up without reading it! I threw the fragments of the letter into the trash can angrily! I slouched on the table, feeling very angry and wishing to ignore him forever. But the process of recalling the contradiction in my mind is like a movie. Thinking that after all, the contradiction between me and him was caused by me, just write an apology letter and feel that everything is fine? It's wishful thinking! In addition, Li Youwei is a tough guy, so you have to show some sincerity, as long as he doesn't hold grudges. But what does he need? After several days of observation, he doesn't need anything at all, so where should I start? What should I give him to make him happy? I racked my brains thinking and thinking. I finally remembered that he is a huge fan of TVXQ!! ! There are many posters in TVXQ!! I collected it at home. Some of them are limited editions specially bought in Wuhan. It suddenly occurred to me that if I sent him a poster of TVXQ!, he would be very happy! . So at noon, I deliberately asked him if he wanted a poster of TVXQ!! By sending a notice. He suddenly became happy, and I added: as long as we resolve the contradiction! He also agreed at once. The next day, I bought him a poster, and he jumped three feet high with joy!

Soon, the contradiction between us was like a gust of wind blowing away! Only by knowing your own mistakes can contradictions be solved.