What should I do in my spare time besides work?
Personally, I prefer to do what I like. I like making handicrafts and all DIY gadgets. As long as you get off work, you won't care about any work problems and devote yourself wholeheartedly to your colorful world. Making handmade ornaments and cosmetics. Or cross stitch, and some DIY huts, micro scenes and the like. I feel very decompressed. I remember, on a stormy night, I lit a warm desk lamp in my bedroom, doing manual work quietly, listening to the rain outside like a tune to make myself comfortable. This is my spare time life, no matter how noisy the social pressure is, it can't affect my maintenance and hobbies for my own world.