You don't have to take a baby, you don't have to wait on your wife, and you can enjoy yourself. I am an ambitious woman. I fell in love several times when I was young. Actually, I didn't want to be single for life before. I also think that falling in love, getting married and having children are the paths that most people will take. But seeing the married life of several friends around me, I also have a new definition and idea about this matter. In fact, those female friends around me have made good achievements in their careers, but later, because they got married and had children, some gave up their careers and some didn't, but they just couldn't balance their careers and families. No matter giving up the career or taking care of both sides, they are not doing very well. There are not as many smiles on their faces as before, and some even have a lot of negative emotions and are prone to depression. A few of them divorced later, and after divorce, they were accompanied by a lot of trivial matters and problems, which were also tangled and didn't feel anything at all. They even told me that if they had to do it all over again, they just wanted to be single for life. When I made this decision, my parents were angry at first and even broke up with me. And I am also a strong-minded person, and no one can change what I have decided. Then I am also an optimistic, cheerful and confident person. I have many hobbies and friends, and my life is very interesting. In addition, my parents saw that their friends' children were married and didn't live as well as expected. Over time, I accepted my idea. Although I still talk about it occasionally, I said, you don't have to worry. I have my own business and some savings. Now this society is afraid of money and can't solve the problem. Since then, they have rarely mentioned it. I have been retired for several years now. Because of regular exercise, I am still very tough. I don't have any trivial troubles and worries. I don't have to take care of my children or wait on my wife. I am happy. I feel that I can live another twenty or thirty years without any problems.