She nationality has a little color, basically as follows:
1. It is said that the ancestor of the She nationality was the third princess of Emperor Gao Xin in ancient times who married a brave queen, gave birth to three men and one woman and moved to Phoenix Mountain in Guangdong. Therefore, she people worship the phoenix, and there is always the word "Phoenix is here" in the main hall of the wedding. The bride should also dress up as a phoenix, wearing a crested phoenix and a phoenix costume.
Bride phoenix suit
2. According to the traditional marriage custom, she brides have to cry at home for three days and three nights before getting married, indicating that it is difficult to leave their parents and they are grateful for their years of parenting. Before the bride combs the "phoenix head", she cries her eyes out, which means not only leaving her family, but also saying goodbye to the girl's good time.
Crying marriage
The bride's sedan chair was crowded into the man's house by relatives and friends. After a burst of drums and firecrackers, the bridesmaids offered sacrificial vessels and sacrifices to worship their ancestors in front of the hall, and the bride sang the song of the king in the sedan chair.
offer sacrifices to ancestors
The bride has two bridesmaids, one is an unmarried girl and the other is an aunt. The younger is the main companion, the older is the companion, but the companion is often the protagonist, and some customs and habits are presided over by her, so as not to lose traditional rules.
Double bridesmaids
5. The bride and groom have the custom of paying homage to the bride. Legend has it that the brave king, the ancestor of the She nationality, defeated the invasion, and the emperor called him Xu. When the princess holds a wedding with him, the princess is not allowed to kneel, so this custom has continued to this day.
Men kneel and women don't kneel.
6. Before the wedding reception, there is a ceremony. This is a dance for unmarried young men in the village to "wipe" the tables, stools, cups and bowls of the wedding banquet. They dance and sing at the same time, indicating that the groom is clean and welcome friends.
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7、? The wedding bridal chamber of She nationality is very special. When the wedding reception begins, the bride will enter the bridal chamber. An exorcism cereal was brought out by my uncle, which contained scissors, oil lamps, millet and other things, and the bride led it slowly into the bridal chamber. The groom needs to entertain guests in the outer hall.
The bride enters the bridal chamber.
8. After the bride enters the bridal chamber, she must sit for one day and one night, which means that she can't be in the same room with the groom on the wedding day, and the groom has to stay at the banquet all night. This means that the groom is willing to keep the guests and entertain them warmly. Second, the bride can live with her husband for a hundred years if she stays one day and one night.
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9. The groom's banquet is very special. He invited nine unmarried young men in the village to sit at the same table. Drinking and eating vegetables are all standard actions. How the groom is, and how they are, is entirely the behavior of the groom.
Ritual wine
10. During the whole wedding, the bride didn't come out to propose a toast to the guests. Before the end of the banquet, which is also the last table, the bride will bring out sweet tea soaked with red dates, rock sugar and peanuts to honor the guests present. After drinking this cup of tea, the guests put red envelopes (wine gifts) in the cup and give them to the bride.
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