Your mother-in-law is not a kind mother-in-law in the traditional sense, but she is not a bad mother-in-law with high power, so you should be vigilant, but try not to appear confrontational.
My mother-in-law doesn't cook your favorite dishes. If the body permits, you can make yourself a little for the time being, and it is enough to eat by yourself. You don't have to cook for others, but you must let your husband know that your meal is cooked by yourself. For example, you should ask your husband to rub your waist or legs, because you are tired of standing and cooking.
If you are in poor health, tell your husband privately, or ask him to make some for you, or ask him to adjust the menu for your mother-in-law. After all, for the sake of children's development, we should take care of our own tastes at this time. Pay attention to the facts when you say it, just say what you want to eat for your health, not how the chef is.
As for the leftovers, you can't put them in your mouth if you don't eat them, or you can tell your husband to throw them away after eating, so as to fundamentally eliminate them.
Mother-in-law asked you to pay the fare, you paid the fare, and immediately turned around and called her husband to pay the fare. Just because she doesn't talk to her son doesn't mean you can't talk.
No matter what she said, you agreed on the surface, and then turned around and asked her husband to do it. There is a simple reason. You are not feeling well during pregnancy, please ask him to do it.
It's easy to blame your mother-in-law for quarreling with your son. You asked your husband calmly, did you quarrel with your mother-in-law again these two days? Then tell him to stop arguing with her and let her go more. Won't your husband be curious about how you know they quarreled? When he asked, he just said, Oh, because she called to blame me.
To tell the truth, you are a mother-in-law, and you are a little mean. You can't play dirty, so it's not difficult to deal with. A really bad mother-in-law never quarrels with her son. She is attentive to her daughter-in-law in front of her son, leaving no evidence behind him, and only letting him see that he is wronged every day. This is really a headache.